Why the added inches ???

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Why the added inches ???

Sep 02, 2010

Why do some men feel the need to add inches to thier penis???


The over embelishment of the penis is not a knew phenomenen i know, however through observing the online advances to female friends of mine there seems to be a prevalence of penis supersizing.


Female friends of mine have had planned meets cancelled as a result of men not wanting to have to explain where the extra inches have gone, the embarressing truth is inevitably revealed in time.


From what i have witnessed the men my female friends had this issue with were within the realms of statistically normal in penis size.


There seems to be no positive outcome to this deception, no meeting takes place as a result of embarrassment at not being able to live up to a lie and any self esteem or self worth issues these men are experiencing can only become deeper and more entrenched as a result.


As a male i just don't get it, i find it sad that some men have to lie about thier penis size inorder to gain the attention of women.


My thoughts...

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eagertongue4u  

Man 51yrs

Why lie about anything ?

Those that do are always the first to complain when they get served a lie themselves.

You only get back what you give out.

ET

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mogdidliana   Woman 47yrs

penis embellishment

It is sad ---- as in women wearing "push-up" bras has always intrigued me..............surely    as soon as the woman is undressed and "involved" the truth is going to come out!!!!!!!!!!!

But you have a biased opinion bcos I KNOW you have a THICK dick and therefore have been blessed with the "goods" anyway....................It is sad.....but its all about "trying" to get someone to sleep with you ................and if you get them to MEET you ...then your halfway there??

Mogdidliana

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switchnic

insecurity

not everyone has to wear large condoms because the normal ones arent wide enough to get on :P

seems to be a common issue with guys, some of my male friends ask for comment on their cock size and how big other guys are. honestly im not really one to notice unless they are very small or very large. thickness and thrust is so much more important than length. taste, cleanliness, and presentation are a big influence as to my interest.

guys go on about penis size, some lie. if a guy brags then i usually say "congrats" and write them off pretty quickly because i anticipate issues of some sort

its the guy the cock is attached to that is attractive to me

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Polar_Bear_Girl

It was <----- this----> long!

Who knows?  I think measurements are taking from the perineum in a lot of cases.  I personally don't care about the size of a man's penis although I do appreciate some girth.

Personal experience, guys with quite sizable cocks don't put measurements up, some guys with big cocks think they're average (what the?) other guys with smaller cocks think they're bigger... some have no clue.

When I see measurements specified over 7-8" I automatically deduct 2 inches.  When I see 7-8 I automatically deduct an inch.


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AdventureTime   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

hahha

its seems pretty normal to stretch the truth about "expected things"..on here and in normal life

like ages - drop a few years              (keep below that 40 cut off mark)

weight  - yes iam average              (compared to people at burger king)

height - yes 6'                                (in cowboy boots/heels)

cock - 8" easy                            (if i squeeze the shit out of it and take a pic)

single girl                                    (unless you are a couple...then iam in a committed relationship)

easy going guy                        (HORNY)

:>

we take everything with a grain of salt.

and remember its just fun...be happy with who you are.

Bernie and Kathy

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Stalky  

Man 50yrs

I have a theory.....

Here's a theory.

I go to a party and lots of teh straight guys are kind of shy about shagging in front of other dudes so they seem to stand back a bit from the action.. well.. they're not as forthright as some people I know if I can pout it that way. I have often wondered why that mght be....

Here's the theory... straight dudes hear all the exaggeration but rarely come ...err... face to face....  with the evidence. Their perception of their own dick size compared to their appreciation of the cocks that are about... makes them a bit body conscious. As a consequence, this perception reduces confidence.. However, see more stiff cock .. the more you see... the more you come to realise that there's quite a bit of variety either way. Dudes armed with that experience dont seem to bother with the exaggeration component. there simply is no point.

So here it is... dudes exaggerate cock size because other dudes do and.. there's ... umm... stiff ompetition out there.

Hugs

Stalky

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Ruggedly_Rugged

Don't over complicate it

There is no "It's little but it's cute" box to check.

I can't believe people in here are still surprised or allow themselves to be dissapointed in people misrepresenting themselves. Politicians lie, sales people lie, most people lie on their tax return, police lie to entrap suspects, high court judges have lied, so have detectives (see royal commissions), famous and respected sports people (Tiger Woods) and your parents lied to you, Tooth Fairy, Santa, Easter Bunny, Baa Baa Black Sheep....

The motivations for people telling lies are endless, money, fame, recognition, ego, fear... Why the hell wouldn't they lie to get sex?

I haven't read any womens profiles looking for a small to average size penis but I've read a few that suggest if you're not hung like a bear you're as useless as 12 inches of empty foreskin.....

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Kitten085   Woman 27yrs

simple

because they think women actually care. which ofcourse we dont but they still add the inchs.

I do hate when a guy lies about his height. I hate meating someone who says 6" and then we meet and I'm towering over him.

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twoactive

How do you know they are ?

Are you sure they are exaggerating ? How was the "inevitable truth" your friends descibe revealed if they didn't actually meet? Maybe the measurement and the photo don't match, but photos can also be hard to measure. If they are, it might be to compensate for a lack of biceps. I guess the reverse could also happen. Maybe we should only include penis and bicep photos if they include a ruler. Independant verification would be going to far. Some of the profiles indicate the minimum measurements that they prefer, but size can also be a problem Girth isn't usually a problem but I think length can be just a few idle thoughts
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squirtalicious   Woman 44yrs

size ...

yes ive been stiffed on a few inches before and its not nice
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xFunlovingx   Woman 50yrs

It's funny....

But I have actually knocked back guys on their size being too big. When I explain this to them (as nice as I can), I have had 98% of them come back to me and say that instead of the 9" they "brag" about that they are actually only around 6-7". I don't bother asking the why...but I do explain that not all girls are "size queens"!

In the end, they are the ones that miss out because they assume that size means everything.

xFunlovingx

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MissBJ   Woman 41yrs

my two cents.....

In alot of cases...I think the guy GENUINELY thinks he is bigger than he actually is...
and I think...like Stalky said....most have nothing to compare it to other than porno's....
and those guys are usually above average!

So...I would suggest.....MEASURE IT!
Pubic bone (NOT pressing into the flesh..lol) to tip....not to the asshole!
And thickness....well....again...Stalky's suggestion of a toilet roll cardboard inner
seems to give the good "average" measurement.

Remember guys....."Average" length means between 5 and 6.5 inches....
and its 'average' because that's what most of the guy population has!

I would much rather a guy have 5 inches on his profile....
and can get it hard and use it well...
than put 8-9 inches on there...
and be sadly mistaken....
and useless in bed.

As always....

JMO...

BJ
xxx
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squirtalicious   Woman 44yrs

foreskin ..

Ruggedly Rugged - "12 inches of empty foreskin"

Shit that is gold!!! LMAO!!!

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exitonly   Man 36yrs

its an age old problem

I was reading this bok recently about the US helping Russia in the war with Afganistan, the US ws sending them supplies......anyway the ruskies ask for condoms off the US and state that they need them to be 18 inches long............so the US send them 18 inch long condoms in boxes marked medium..............bahahahahahahaha

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Stalky  

Man 50yrs

Man you're turning me on! :p

Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'

you're as useless as 12 inches of empty foreskin.....


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couplesint  

Couple Man 59yrs Woman 47yrs

average

dont know how to measure it.  but not that big John
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leesaandjohn   Couple Man 34yrs Woman 47yrs

size

Has a nice size apparantly. lol  or is that a nice way of saying its small
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Now_or_never

Benefit of doubt!!

Maybe they use different measuring systems. They could be trying to attract those ladies and couples asking for "HUGE" "well-endowed', " well hung" etc

Polar_Bear_Girl "Who knows?  I think measurements are taking from the perineum"

and MissBJ "Pubic bone (NOT pressing into the flesh..lol) to tip....not to the asshole!"

Hi MissBJ, long time no chat. xx Have to pay membership so I can get back in the Chatroom..lol

squirtalicious "yes ive been stiffed on a few inches before and its not nice" you were obviously disappointed but that does sound funny. Stiffed on 3 instead of eight?? Some ladies would think you were lucky, at least you got a stiff one.


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mooka   Man 52yrs

Maybe ..

Myabe, just maybe guys lie about their cock size because so many women here demand in their profile that anyone who contacts them must be hung like a deformed donkey.

It is the age old double standards here.  A woman can and often do say in their profile words to the effect ".. don't bother contacting me unless you have 8" or more dangling between your legs .." and nobody will say boo.  But if a guy said in his profile that he only wants women who have boobs that can pass the pencil test, there would be hell to pay lol

Girls, just accept the fact that the RHP advertised penis is like the side mirrors on a car "Ojects may appear larger than they actually are'.  Same way guys take women's ages etc with a dose of salt (ducking now lol)

mooka

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squirtalicious   Woman 44yrs

Man meat ...

I hate to say this but woman on here most of them put what they want cause they can and have the upper hand on here being a higher male to female ratio, so if they want 9 inches of man meat then so be it doesn't mean they are going to get it anyway.

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