I hear you! I lost a special friend recently. It still hurts to think about him and the great times we had together.
How do we fix it???? Other than trying to find another someone special I really have no idea.
Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else
Still waiting
Were you friends with benefits? Just fuck buddies? Or did you have something deeper between you TWO? Not just you...but BOTH of you? Did you discuss with him where your feelings were or are you one of about 95% of people (both male and female) that play mind games? Noone is a mind reader...If you like someone you have to tell them...If you are scared of rejection...Well, at least it is best to be rejected early on in the piece than later on down the track when the feelings are deeper. If you knew it was a fuck buddy situation and nothing more, then you should have left him before the feelings got too deep! Life is too short to be pining for someone (unless of course they pass away as my partner did)...but even then you have to pick up and keep living! No use wishing for him to come back..he has left you for someone else for whatever reason...pick yourself up...look fabulous...look in the mirror and smile and like yourself...and go out and find that wonderful guy who will want YOU and want to be with YOU!
xFunlovingx
Oooh I'm such a tag and release gal UF!!! Gooooo be freeeeeee young buck!!!! hehehehe
Such a friend of nature am I
...for me to believe that, although it must be true because I read it on the internet?
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Oooh I'm such a tag and release gal !!! Gooooo be freeeeeee young buck!!!! hehehehe
I thought you might just mount them...and leave them hanging on the wall.
Love the Condor wings. Did it taste good too?
You are only hurting yourself by sticking around once you can feel the emotion coming through!
It isnt emotional attachment but physical.
The lack of respect , honesty and the betrayal of my trust .
We put ourself out there , we pay the price i guess.
Why cant people be honest , the most casual encounter needs trust and respect...
The words" i found some one i really like" made me feel worthless..
Naw, honey did you want more than there was?
Or did you hope you were more special to him than it sounded when he said that he found someone he really likes?
I'm sorry your feelings are really hurt It does sound like the addiction was not just physical. Your little heart sounds like it got involved.
xx GG
Men are completely different from women they can have sexual relations with just about any female, as long as she is alive and has a fanny.
They then meet the one, you see we are not the one we are one of the many, that is the difference between men and women. Sure we have come a long way and we now have sex because we enjoy it, however, sadly our emotions and feelings always come into the equation even when we dont want them too. Its just the way we are, I am still learning all this stuff. I have been single for 1 year (yah) and love my life, I am still sampling whats out there and enjoying most of my encounters both the good and the bad.
I still havent found a Friend with Benefits, which is all I really want, I dont want a relationship just someone to have great sex with a couple of times a week.
Hopefully, I will eventually find them.
Keep your chin up and move on to your next experience, life is all about living and enjoying dont sweat the small stuff its not worth it.