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Aug 28, 2010
looking2try3   Couple Man 37yrs Woman 36yrs

What is it you guys join for ? Is it because you want some saucy fun without the attachment ? Is it luuuuurve your looking to find ? Is it you want to find a life partner with a petulance towards swinging as well ?

See there are more single boys here than anyone else ! I am wondering why they got here ? Now some on here just write them all off as a bad joke , an annouance , cant be true can it ?

Are single boys really that bad ? We don't seem to have the trouble others do ? (may have something to do with our contact us and we block you policy).

SO single Boys tell us what you look for ...... What is it that makes you come round this way ?

Brae

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Stalky   Man 50yrs

To get their rocks off. :p

Hey Brae,

On numerous occasions single guys from here have attended events that I'm at and I see them having their share of fun. So the system works to that extent.

Hugs

Stalky

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focusliason

The same reason....

...this single girl joined up...fun without the strings....oh and what Stalyk said - get my rocks off!!!

Kisses

Focus

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HawkiE   Woman 47yrs

lol

hmm im guessing to meet people , and perv same as lots of us women lol
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braedom   Man 37yrs

Its really about time

With you Gaz !

But we hear sooooomuch whinging moooooan moooooan

What is it they look for ? IS it really hard to find !

DO they look for the love of thier life , hard and fast luuuurvin ?

AND I DO have the best butt on this site ........

Brae ...oooops did I muck up my forums ???

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desserts

Probably

They join for the same reason as most people, and looking2try3, couples can be just as annoying as anyone else. I have absolutely no idea why they contact me but they do in droves at times and then get the shits if I say no!!
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for fun fun fun...

Us single guys join to meet woman for no strings attached fun bedroom times...And some cheekyness, spanking..haha
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shanmyster7   Man 23yrs

LOL

I join because i liked the forums..

but if u find an answer to your question let us know..

I'll give you this much... not all of us are here just to get our rocks off!!
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Colette   Woman 51yrs

In demand

Some of us actually prefer single guys for NSA fun.
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Total_Recall   Man 28yrs

I speak only for myself

I'm here for myself, a girlfriend, life experiences and some new/different friends with a wide range of interests. Connections and an appreciation of true love. Sunday morning snuggles, cinema naughties and eventually a Juliet. I'm looking for a supportive network to experience all that life has to offer from this community.

I'm not here to be judged,labelled or stereotyped, I'm not here to be used (unless I ask it ), I'm not here to be ridiculed or insulted and I'm certainly not here to be rude to others, to impose or intrude. I will be polite and respectful, clean, honest, trustworthy, discrete.


I'll play only in the interests of good clean fun.



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Simply to...

...meet women who are happy to start at the top and stay there.  Why would you want to befuddle a perfectly good friendship with someone that enjoys having a great sensual and sexual experience with you by wrapping it up with a ball of string or worse...becoming the other half of a velcro relationship?  Works just fine, thank you...without all that other stuff. Oh too...it's time efficient and a bit of fun.
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Besides...somebody has to help tame all those cougars and train up and coming cougar pups!
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looking2try3   Couple Man 37yrs Woman 36yrs

Ah haaaa !

So Totalrecall, tall and friendly and Shanmyster I understand nice response BTW boys !

Dessert read again ....... While we have NO interest in single boys we rarely have them contact us we only occasionally have the odd nobb who cant read but apart from that we are very happy ! Sorry you have been given a hard time by couples ....naughty couple ....naughty ...you should all be ashamed of yourselves ...come here I will spank you !

Colette you sexxy thang  ........you might be the sexiest thang here in red knickers but I have always assumed that thats not the case .... endless moaning from numerous single boys says they may not be in as much demand ..... many describe getting little if any attention :-(

No whinge from us we are merely interested in what the boys here get out of this wonderous little escape we all flock to !

Brae ........ the ponderer ...eerrr ...er...er.er

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fionabee

Busy

You know apart from all the above mentioned reasons, I know a lot of men in the late forties on this site and others like it. They are CEO's and GM's. Many of large corporations. They do not finish work until 9 or 10 pm. By the time they get home, think about something to eat and try to unwind a bit there is not a lot of time left for socialising.They like feminine company as much as the next man and they are not half of a couple who, to saythe least, can have a sex life with thier partners.

Where do you suggest these guys go to meet someone?

Please forgive my ignorance but I always thought the friends with benefits always meant "friends first" benefits are just that - optional extras.

The couples and the married people do not have the monoploy on wanting sex or just company, be it kinky or not. How many couples are looking for a single lady to play with? Do these rules not apply to single ladies but just the single men?

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MrnMrsPeachypear

Single guys...

Now some on here just write them all off as a bad joke , an annouance , cant be true can it ?

Are single boys really that bad ? We don't seem to have the trouble others do ? (may have something to do with our contact us and we block you policy).


We don't seem to have the trouble others do either Brae. Our experiences with most guys have been positive all the way from the initial contact to wherever we end up lol without any block policy, whew! So it's not necessarily that, but I do wonder myself...


Hugs, ever curious Mrs P 

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Snowshoe   Man 49yrs

Speaking personally...

It's not love that I (and I suspect plenty of other single men) are looking for - for me, it's just the opposite. For those who may have already done the long-term relationship thing and may have kids, the prospect of doing either or both of those things again may not be all that attractive. We can make friends with a few nice women, then get all the benefits without the hassles - what more could we ask? Particularly in their forties, men gain a certain confidence about themselves and realise that they don't need a conventional relationship - we no longer require "someone to complete" us.

The other thing is that there may appear to be more men here than there really are because we do all the messaging. If you want to see fewer of us, send us a brief, polite "thanks anyway, but you're not what I'm looking for" - speaking for myself, I do respect them. Just a gentle chide, girls...
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mooka   Man 52yrs

Thows in my copper coins ....

Brae, for all your joking around, you seem to come up with some damn interesting observations!

Single guys join RHP for the same reasons as everyone else, to meet someone, to perve on the pretty pictures, to have fun in the chatrooms and forums.  The problem is there is just a lot of them.  To me, RHP is just like any other dating/social web site, like RSVP but for grown-ups.

From my experiences, there are three types of people (notice I am no longer referring to just single men now) that join here:

The Funsters

They are the ones that join for the social interaction here, the ones that troll the forums, get into the conversations in the chatrooms.  They might have joined for other reasons but have found it enjoyable to be in with like minded people who share the same views as their own.  They form friendships that might not end up being sexually based but soley on the reason that they get on with the people they meet.

The Posse

These people join to find someone, whether it be a mate for the bedroom, a husband or wife, or that elusive third person for the bedroom.  They have worked out what they want, normally retiscent to waiver from that and are 100% serious in their search. 

The Wankers

Now this group isn't exclusive to the realm of the single male but is sure as shit dominated by them.  These are the people that saw thh RHP add on late night TV, joined, saw the nake pictures and immediately came all over their keyboard.  They just don't think of RHP as a SEX SITE, they demand it to be one.  They fully expect that any person who is on this site is really to have ex with anyone, anywhere, anytime.    They can't comprehend that someone would say no to them, they don't understand that someone might be on here for another reason that just random sex with a total stranger.  They have mastered the art of typing with one hand while their other is otherwise occupied!  And I will reiterate, it is not just the single men that are members of this group, there are sufficient women and couples to make this an all encompassing group.

So my fellow forum friends, which group do you belong to, or are you a member of several depending on what your mindset is at the time?  I personally think a community like this needs, nay depends on the misunderstood group of the Wankers.  For starters, and I am really focusing on the single guys, the antics of some make the rest of us look so damn nice and normal!

Mooka

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gentlesprings

A single single man's perspective

I joined as a way to connect with other people not afraid to be honest about their needs, wants and desires. I'm time poor, sadly. Seems safer and more circumspect to me than the pub/club environment. Perhaps less superficiality here - on a rendezvous type site - than the drunken blather we share at pubs!

It saddens me that an inconsiderate/narcissistic subset of the male population is impacting negatively on the opportunities for people to be happy possible here.

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Zustiur   Man 29yrs

All of the above

In my case, I'm at a point in my life where I'm comfortable with whatever comes my way. That might be a long term relationship, or it might be a one night stand. I'm on this site to dramatically increase my options vis a vis contacts. I do socialize, but it tends to be in the same circles all the time. RHP and other sites allow me to enter different social circles, with the side benefit of being able to do so in my spare time, rather than having to stop attending my normal social events.
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BustyWILF   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 39yrs

Single guys

Single guys joins sights like this for the same reason anyone else joins.  We are all looking for something ... whether it is a friendship, relationship or fuck buddies.

I say bring on the single guys ... gives people like us who enjoy meeting and getting to know single guys for 3somes/moresomes more choice.

Also when we go on holidays, sites like this are great for organising meetings before we leave (rather than going to a pub/club to find (a) single guy/s who are interested in what we are looking for).  At least they know what we are all about before they agree to meet.
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight'
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Besides...somebody has to help tame all those cougars and train up and coming cougar pups!
                               
I don't mind training the 'cougar pups' :P
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freogirl66   Woman 45yrs

It's simple

they join to meet me! :)
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TassieRose

whatever you reckon lol

Quoting 'freogirl66'
they join to meet me! :)
nah ahhh...they have joined to make my life hell and screw with my head :-)
roxxy

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