I have part custody of my two kids both under 6, things can be going great in a conversation at a bar etc. with a girls (late 20's early 30's) but when they find out I have kids it spooks them? I am good fun to be around, have a job that I love (Stockbroker)..but when kids come up..its all too hard.  Maybe they don't have kids? and they want a clean slate mate to start a family with? It is frustrating..I don't mind if a girl has kids.  What are peoples thoughts? Any similar experience?