yeh def have to agree with u.. there are plenty of hot women on here but were either no good or there standards are too high.. i think allot of people do it for the attention yet to find some 1 who is genuine on here! maybe the females feel the same about this also.. i always reply to contacts i have receieved even if its a negative its jst nice to let the person no!

weve also found that, like they will ad you to friends list, but wont reply to flirts very often and if they do theyll ask you to message them and then nothing. ive also found better response from interstate people

I personally don't like the flirts and say so on my profile. I find that the replys are stupid and not always what you would like to say back. It is also hard to reply to profiles where there is no pics as you dont know who you are flirting with. So any profiles without pics who send flirts do not interest me at all!!! I much prefer the guy who takes the time to send a message. I do try to reply to most of them but life does get busy at times. Thankfully there is the auto reply for the initial response.

i have sent a lot of messages and winks out to women and i get nothin. they don't even have the manners or respect to reply to my messages even to say no thanks. they're on a dating site to meet men and yet they don't have the decency to reply to messages. no wonder they cant get laid. they cant even set up the auto reply. no wonder they're single and cant get any.

I have had heaps of views and only a few flirts or replies. I have always replied to women who messaged me on email and flirts. I know girls get tons more than guys but sometimes hey - be respectful and reply FFS! I sometimes get the impression that some of the women on RHP have no intention of meeting guys and its just about how many flirts they get! YES I AGREE - ADELAIDE GUYS ARE NOT GETTING THE RESPECT THEY DESERVE :)

South Australian women - apart from a very small minority who truly show a degree of pleasure at being admired and/or noticed - are either full of shit and prick teasers; don't care; or are simply idiotic "gamers".  The vast majority rarely - if ever - respond to flirts or private messages

To all you boys dissing women in SA.. if its that bad THEN F*** OFF... its not hard.. no need to be haters.. just leave...makes life easier for us girls.

 

U no why we dont reply.. coz we get the same msgs from everyone! Hi, how are you?.... Hi lets chat.. hi i have a huge dick........ really.. guys be creative n maybe we will reply.  Also stick to ur level.. im 20 recieving msgs from people who are 54... come on really?? I dont think so.. DARE TO BE DIFFERENT!!

My wife is sent so many flirts and messages it's beyond a joke. Messages like "Hi i have a 10" cock..wanna fuck". Some guys r good but mostly are just plain insulting. So what if you don't get a reply, i have my own profile and i don't bother looking messaging or flirting, I figure if they like me the will contact me.

 

But she does reply to the decent messages, flirts are a waste of time, she ignores them

 

And don't come on here whining chicks won't contact you back when you don't have a picture up..seriously.

 

Scott

Nah it's this state.  People just don't take dating seriously here.  Well, it's like everything else in Adelaide - nothing happens because nobody can ever be bothered. nurse2bs advice was spot on - if you're sick of it, move somewhere else. I don't think it's discrimination per se, but I do think not replying is dodgy.

I'll respond to flirts and messages from men who:
have paid their membership
have a photo of some sort
and who's flirt or message is funny, original or creative

I am more likely to respond to a man from Adelaide as my intention is to meet up (and I have done).

A message that says something like "hey watssup" "i want your pussy" or anything along those lines is going to be ignored.

so fellas put some effort in and you never know what might happen!

The only reason we wouldnt reply would be quite simple. Meaning that the person who has winked or message quite clearly hasnt read our profile properly and simply doesnt match what we ask for. Ie is sending cock shots only, is too old/young or they are just another married man looking for a bit on the side. Men will have much more success if they stick to messaging people where they meet the requirements. 

Joolzee.....you may be an exception to the rule, however, when I first joined this site some years ago I was getting lots of "views" and even a few "winks". As was answering every wink, but wasnt a member, and ladies were saying they couldnt reply, so I joined. As soon as I became a member, everything dried up instantly!!!!! I messaged many women, who were what i thought a match with my profile. Very rarely did i even get a reply.

 

I still look at who joins, and think sometimes I might join just to chat to a certain lady, but I feel like once bitten twice shy.

Well in my opinion people just dont treat each other with respect or dignuity any more so it's not really just women it's every one. Then you can add to that the fact at there are so many ungenuine people (men and women) that do not turn up to aranged meetings for whatever reason that we all are assumed to be ungenuine and thus our messages and flirts are often deleted without even being looked at.

 

Oh and dont forget that most of us are looking for mr or miss/mrs perfect. Come on we all know that does not exist but we still look expecting to find them and are often to fussy for our own good.

 

So until social attitudes about repecting each other and or search for mr or miss/mrs perfect change things will stay the way that they are.

 

But if we keep looking once in a while we all do find the exeption so all we can do is keep trying our luck until we do.

 

Just my opinion

It's funny I have been on here for over 3 yrs. Paid member for most of that time. I have only ever spoken to one girl. She has now a b/f. So we never meet up. Now for all the other girls on here, every time I'm on line it's always the same 12 to 13 girls looking for me. Most times there are over 200 men online. You do the maths. If girls want sex the get dolled up go to a bar / club find the guy they want flirt and take him home. Us guys are seriously in trouble cos it's the same on here. Girls are in total control. Interstate looks so much better because there a heaps more people in the other capital citys. It's not adelaide girls that is the problem. It's the dateing rules have changed.

i totalllly agree with joollzzee , i respond to everyone thats flirts or mails me , but most who do dont read my profile all the way , i have an age limit and i get 50 yo wanting to "eat me " its grose man ,

I just think there are a lot more of us than them look at the numbers.

How many women could you keep in contact with on a given day?

Be respectfull and be patient, and dont get mad.

In the same breath it can be frustrating soemtimes and ive been guilty of not following my own advice  :)

My 2c worth

The fact is that there are a lot more of us blokes out there desperate fora woman who actually enjoys being pleasured than there are women looking for it - and it is true for all similar online sites - so the reality is that we are going to miss out a lot more than have a hit - just simple arithmetic really - so don't blame the women - at least they are on the site nad considering it - even if they are choosy - it is their market and they can afford to be.

I agree with you pleasurehunt, it's no secret that men outnumber women on online dating/sex sites by a gazzilion to one, and unfortunatly a lot of those men are married and are just looking for some cam fun, and or quick, secretive hook ups.  So the need to actually be nice to the girl and treat them with respect is not a priority, cos they don't want them to hang around very long anyways. Unfortunatly for the rest of us genuine people that are looking to meet women, whether that be for friends, or relationships, or for just casual fun, it takes a long time to break through the trust barriers of all the men that when they first chat to them start with "Hey, I'm Dave, I've got a massive cock, come round and fuck me", and then when they get rejected say "I would never fuck you anyways, you're just a fat slut, no wonder you're single and on this site, you'll never get laid", or worse make arrangements to meet up, and when they get to the venue, the guy looks at them and walks away and just stands them up. Anyways, I think it works both ways, women can afford to be very fussy, cos they have a lot of interest and profiles to go through, just have to take our chances that there will be ones that judge the persons profile not just by their looks, but also the potential personality compliment that the person would make to their own.  But also, guys, if you show respect to women on here, I'm a believer of Karma, it will be returned to you. Thanks for reading xxxxx

I am having trouble understanding this discussion - methinks someone is just having a whine - if you don't cut the mustard and ya can't get any responses maybe ya just ain't what the girls are looking for - build a bridge - lifes too short to whinge and whine that things aren't going your way.