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Dec 01, 2011
Normalthree   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs
We are continualy amazed at the number of couples that message us ,want to meet,we name a time and place and never hear  back,are people so insecure and shallow they need their ego boosted,or do we being three of us scare them off?
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DandAfuntimes   Couple Man 41yrs Woman 30yrs

Why bother

On the other end there is also the couples that do meet and say they want to catch up again soon but you don't here from them.....
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Fun_2_gether   Couple Man 33yrs Woman 32yrs

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Happens to us too... 30 no shows out of 37 arranged meets... they all talk the talk then cannot walk the walk.... no idea why considering the nature of this site...
sex
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Normalthree   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

lol

Quoting 'Fun_2_gether'
Happens to us too... 30 no shows out of 37 arranged meets... they all talk the talk then cannot walk the walk.... no idea why considering the nature of this site...

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Milkybars   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 48yrs

Why Bother

Tell us about it, then there is the ones who have other motives rather than meeting both or all parties, and one ends up the invisible person, it sucks.
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Fun_2_gether   Couple Man 33yrs Woman 32yrs

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At least we still have fun2gether despite the no shows :) Just over the crap on rhp
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Milkybars   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 48yrs

why bother

Quoting 'Fun_2_gether'
At least we still have fun2gether despite the no shows :) Just over the crap on rhp
Good advice, don't let it spoil your day,and yes over it,
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wannafindu   Couple Man 42yrs Woman 41yrs

hey guys

we always meet ppl never leave you hanging we have only had a cpl of ppl let us down but most off the times we meet and we always get back to the other party even if its to say thanks but no thanks .......

alan and annette
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wildthing3872

what about using us single males we dont fail to please

You might be having issues with pleasing 2 people so half the issuses and use us single males I dont fail to please
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we_want_to  

Couple Man 41yrs Woman 40yrs

No Shows??

We have never had, or been, a no show. We would be pretty pissed off if we went to a date and the other couple did not show up but it has never happened to us.  Perhaps we have just been lucky but it seems strange to us that others have this happen to them so often.

  We have certainly had people cancel in the lead up, and there have been times that we have had to cancel in advance when family stuff has come up, but that is just part of real life. We also don't play with everyone we meet unless there there is actually a real attraction in person but most people seem to understand that being a swinger does not mean you want to have indiscriminate sex with every person you meet. (just indiscriminate sex with sexy people who turn you on.-  lol)

  The one and only time we ever tried to arrange to meet a single guy he chickened out about 30 minutes before the meet which was a bit of a let down, but he still had the decency to call and come clean on his own personal issues.  We never bothered with single guys after that but our preference is for couples anyway as that gives us a bit of something for everyone.

  We can imagine that meeting with a threesome for the first time could be intimidating unless you had some idea how they like to play, but you would hope that people considered that before they wasted your time in the lead up.

  Good luck, and have fun!

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funbinumbers

Rarely no shows....

We've had a couple of single guys no shows occur, but, we amuse ourselves and think it's so much better just the two of us. we play at our place, so  I have to set it all up and make it look and feel sexy.

Arranging to meet someone new is a lot of work! That's why when you get a good one, you hang on to him/her.

Couples have turned up and decided not to play. Usually it's the lady that changes her mind, while the poor guy is so eager to get started!

It is disappointing when it doesn't play out the way we've imagined it. But a 90% success rate is pretty good and we've met many lovely couples and single guys.

Just don't like it when we meet, the guy doesn't look anything like his photos!

Well this is a site made up of all sorts of people. It's been interesting....

Hope it will be for many years to come....

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gtbi_mm  

Couple Man 56yrs Woman 52yrs

no show

You should try it here where we live, out of 15 only one will show up....

Its hard to find a couple with a bisexual male and straight female...

But we do get couple of nice single bi-guys now and then..

What I can't under stand is why people are on here if they don't want to meet..

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Fun_2_gether   Couple Man 33yrs Woman 32yrs

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Some just want to chat gtbi, some just want to cam or get pics. Some appear to be seeking a virtual relationship. It is deceptive as they have no intention of meeting, yet they say they do and are on this site. All I can say is screen, screen, screen. We are slowly learning how to screen effectively so that we can figure out in most cases if they are actually genuine in meeting.
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mrcheeky70   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 41yrs

Follow up .....

Quoting 'DandAfuntimes'
    On the other end there is also the couples that do meet and say they want to catch up again soon but you don't here from them.....    
Yes agree totally guys, has happened to us a few times now......just when you think you have met the right couple......nothing.........but hey thats life on RHP, take the good with the bad but keep on perservering we say....one day !!!!!

The Cheekys


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gtbi_mm  

Couple Man 56yrs Woman 52yrs

thanks Fun 2 gether

We have leart to block a lot of them but just wish we could find someone with out all the run around But as you say it RHP

And you do get some shit here

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Wiggleroom   Couple Man 43yrs Woman 39yrs

We must be lucky.

We have met thirteen couples so far and have had zero no-shows.  We have had some last minute cancelations, and have twice cancelled on our way to the Emergency Department (ah, the price of a life of adventure), but we always reschedule.

NormalThree - we have looked at your profile several times and are a LITTLE intimidated.  But if we made plans to meet with you, a little intimidation would not stop us from following through.... that's just plain rude. 

If we make a date (for coffee or whatever), we're going to show up, or call well in advance if there is a change - it's only polite.

Just out of curiosity, NormalThree, do you get a lot of (or any) actual Dom/sub couples like you're asking about?  We leave our "just us" kinks out of our profile because we suspect that meeting other couples in a "vanilla" way is hard enough.  Do you all think that putting some kink in your profile adds to the intimidation level (and therefore an increase in no-shows)?  We come across (we think) as fairly normal and have had great success - does the group here think that there is a bias, or additional intimidation factor, when extra kinks are added.

M & E :)
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AcoupleNU   Couple Man 25yrs Woman 22yrs

Where are all the genuine couples at?

Where are all the fun sexed up couples that like having fun. Have had some amazing times but find some are time wasters.even harder to meet single girls on here.find parties are alot more fun and more down to the point ;)
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rockercouple80  

Couple Man 32yrs Woman 23yrs

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Parties are where it's at. Network network network. Once you've found the genuine couples, you'll find an entire crowd of like minded people to enjoy :)
Quoting 'AcoupleNU'
    Where are all the fun sexed up couples that like having fun. Have had some amazing times but find some are time wasters.even harder to meet single girls on here.find parties are alot more fun and more down to the point ;)    

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xThuGx   Couple Man 40yrs Woman 40yrs

no show

Quoting 'gtbi_mm'

You should try it here where we live, out of 15 only one will show up....

Its hard to find a couple with a bisexual male and straight female...

But we do get couple of nice single bi-guys now and then..

What I can't under stand is why people are on here if they don't want to meet..


Quoting 'gtbi_mm'

You should try it here where we live, out of 15 only one will show up....

Its hard to find a couple with a bisexual male and straight female...

But we do get couple of nice single bi-guys now and then..

What I can't under stand is why people are on here if they don't want to meet..


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AcoupleNU   Couple Man 25yrs Woman 22yrs

Wheres the parties at?

Yeah weve had alot of fun at pic parties.but sometimes hard to find other parties to go to in between .
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Normalthree   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

wiggleroom

Dont understand what there is to be intimidated about,???????????????????

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