I am still wondering why I am wasting my money on this site each and every month.  I am coming to Canberra this coming weekend, so decided to message a few people who I though sounded interesting from their profiles. I was very pleasant in my message, but with the excepting of one lovely couple, not one single other person has bothered to take the minute or two if that to send a response saying thanks but no thanks. Now come on, Canberra is not that busy.  You don't see too many people logged onto this site and sitting there for days on end.  Maybe I am wrong, perhaps all the girls and couples in Canberra are totally and absolutely swamped with messages and flirts, just like their counterparts in Sydney and Melbourne, but I would think that highly unlikely. Anyway thats my gripe for the moment.  A little bit of common courtesy and decency never went astray, although somehow I think in this day and age it just doesnt exist anymore. Such is life...............