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Jun 29, 2012
WAusMan
It seems that we men are held to higher standard here. Ok, so there are more of us than you lovely women folk, but I'm noticing more and more women with template/prefab profiles and just a photo of your breasts. My issue here is: a) while looking at breasts is nice, not all of us are so shallow that that's all we want to see. I wouldn't go to the extent of saying don't put them up (like cock shots), but a bit of variety never hurts. b) why would a prefab profile be acceptable for a woman and yet she'd most likely turn down a guy with a prefab profile. I see template profiles now and skip over them. Before everyone has their say, I am aware of the ratio issues, and please try and keep it a little light hearted.
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coodi_yowie

i'm a profile whore...

yeah the prefab one's suck ass, boring... skip
call me shallow, but i like breast. I'm like my photography too, so some well thought of shots i find add a bit of class to a profile

at the end of the day it's their profile and we can choose not to like it or even read it....

how do you know a woman with a prefab profile is most likely to turn down a prefab male's profile?
maybe, maybe not.... just keep 'skipping over them' like you say,
worry about the important stuff....  like not mixing whites in with the colours when doing ya washing

 
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feloniusfossil

Well Boys

I saw a really hot pic on my stream tonight.

Chloe_Doll


Really sensuos, went and had a look at her profile

and nearly 50 friends already.....bahahahaha.


I was kinda dissappoited actually, with a pic like that

I kinda wouda liked to see what she has up top....I'm talkin

intellect here lads....lol....You thought I meant boobs hey.


Shame on you...lol



Cheers Felonius



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coodi_yowie

*smiles*

Quoting 'feloniusfossil'
   

I saw a really hot pic on my stream tonight.

Chloe_Doll


Really sensuos, went and had a look at her profile

and nearly 50 friends already.....bahahahaha.


I was kinda dissappoited actually, with a pic like that

I kinda wouda liked to see what she has up top....I'm talkin

intellect here lads....lol....You thought I meant boobs hey.


Shame on you...lol



Cheers Felonius



brains before bosom's for me too....

   

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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

I agree, but....

....why do you think you're held to a higher standard? I "no thank you" to both prefab profiles and template messages. Put in some effort!  Males and females alike. I like a chest/torso shot as it shows me enough to gauge body type and allows the profile owner to retain their face pix for them to show me at a latter stage. Even for the ladies - on a page of 20 profiles, grabbing the viewers attention is the aim! And if you've got some nice assets why not use them!
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inspirit   Woman 49yrs

I'll

show you mine if you show me yours
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Hesione

at least

WAusMan you know that with a pre-fab profile, they are probably not just here for the forums

Or it could mean that with a pre-fab profile,they are waiting to build the real one.

Or that this is the one before the fabrication, in which they they tell the real lies instead of the fake lies.

Gosh, no wonder the building industry is in trouble x Hugs Hesione owner builder of profile

 

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Lost_Focus   Woman 35yrs

Prefab

I skip past all prefab profiles be they male or female (exception to the rule is if someone I know directs me there for whatever reason).

 

If they cant take the time to let me know a little about them then Im not interested.

 

As for pics - Im a pervert...very happy to be looking at cock and boob shots.

 

Kisses

Fcosu

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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

Wausman, your complaints will fall on deaf ears.

Even prefab womens' profiles will have more success than most males and again just by sheer numbers. They simply do not need to put in the effort to be successful. It's not that I disagree with you, it's just that 'nothing will change it. You will find a hand full of men to follow your lead and boycott these profiles but not enough to significantly impact your target group.

One aspect of your OP that I do disagree with is the complaint about breast shots (obvious I guess as that's still Jennylee's main profile pic). The female equivalent of a cock shot would be a spread shot. A breast shot gives a fairly accurate image of the shape a woman is in (assuming the pic is not too tight). Your own profile shot is the same as most womens breast shot.

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countrymeat

people are just picky

it a sex site ,,people's profile have fuck all to do if how they are in person.take mine..i use to have a verage looking full body shot,,clothed.had a bit about me me what my interests are and what im looking for,,last person i chatted with told me profile was'nt good enough and it needed changing,.so  i  thought fuck you.so now theres the cock shot and fuck all about me apart from im from  country and not been in perth long..i be straight to point.i found from this  site with and others a  lot of females think their shit dont stink and there to  good for just anyone..now i  on here just to visit the forums and see how morally messed up  some people are...
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Nudierudie2   Woman 42yrs

My Shit Stinks just like Everyone Else's


Quoting 'countrymeat'
    it a sex site , No it is not..,i suggest you read the terms and conditions
,people's profile have fuck all to do if how they are in person.It has a lot to do with how they would come across in persontake mine..i use to have a verage looking full body shot,,clothed.had a bit about me me what my interests are and what im looking for,,last person i chatted with told me profile was'nt good enough and it needed changing,.so  i  thought fuck you.so now theres the cock shot and fuck all about me apart from im from  country and not been in perth long..i be straight to point.i found from this  site with and others a  lot of females think their shit dont stink and there to  good for just anyone..now i  on here just to visit the forums and see how morally messed up  some people are... Oh i see it alight....    

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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Yep nudierudie.....

Go figure!
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Missrightnow83

A newbie's perspective....

WAusman, totally agree with your frustration, this is the first time I've ever actually joined one of these but I've always had that opinion.  HOWEVER (bear with me)... I only have a couple of photos up so far which are just body shots because if you're from WA you could run into someone you know in the bloody North Pole, it's ridiculous, and I'm not ready for the onslaught of such charming people when they see my smiling face ;o)  It's a shame and it won't stop me but one step at a time if someone needs to get their confidence back, believe me. 
And if pre-fab means they're not even of the actual person - at least I can say that mine are actually me.... yet to master the self photography with phone.

If I've gone off topic completely.... apologies... I'm new!!! 
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countrymeat

its sex site

doesnt matter how  you read the terms or what you put in profile,basicialy people here for one thing..as  for you nudierudie2..you have a  long drawn out proflie,full  of crap ,the in's and out of what your like and what you will and will not do,,but your pictures tell  a whole different story,,if  you really  here to find dating and romance why do  you need to show all the crutchs shot..your trying to slll  yourself through your pictures first..so there's the morally messed up thing i one about..my  post was my views.freedom of speech .if  you  take offence to it ,just mabe your really one of the people im  talking about..
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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

Don't be starting that "It's a sex site/It's not a sex site" fight again.

Alright there's more to it but sex is the focus, let's not be pedantic.
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cavey50   Man 53yrs

options

I dont do Pre-fab anything... I just go onto the next profile if I see them.

ESPECIALLY when I get a damned flirt from someone who has this shit on their profile...

THEN goes on to tell me they are of Strong Christian values and want a man of substance and character...

AND fckn declare that I AM EXACTLY what they have been looking for??

 

DO I look like one of them??

 

What a pile of crap.. :)  that is somewhat fckd up isn't it?

 

Dont get me wrong - I LOVE fckd up people.. they totally fck better.. and they let me play my things out

 

 

You know. the main difference between scoring here, and scoring in the pub scene, is.. "the patronage of the pub scene have one HUGELY influential equalizer, working in FAVOUR of the caveman... ALCOHOL!!!"  I LOVE it.. not to drink.. but, because it gets me laid :)

 

People, IF RHP was my method of sex.... I would seriously be in the pits.

Many Girls get on here, when they get an itch in their knickers, but they are still functioning through sobre logic...

No good to me... no good to a LOT of you blokes..

 

Lads: come play here.. flirt and message, perve and admire, even CAM up and get on the forums.. you will eventually attract the interest of someone... :)

BUT.. HONESTLY??? come on now.. some of you hunky fellas could go to a pub or club and score EVER fckn night...

 

So, dont bitch about the site being a SEX site, or a site full of stuck up people.. DEFINE what you are doing here.

You want sex tonight?? good luck :)

You want a relationship? Join RSVP and, once again.. "Good Luck"

You want to have some light fun with a huge range of people from all over the damned country, and MAYBE score some good times?? Stay here, and lighten the fck up :)

 

Cavey - been paying to have this much fun for about 5 years.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Waterbabes  

Couple Man 35yrs Woman 32yrs

Woah.....hold the phone!

Quoting 'Missrightnow83'
And if pre-fab means they're not even of the actual person - at least I can say that mine are actually me.... yet to master the self photography with phone.

If I've gone off topic completely.... apologies... I'm new!!! 

Are you kidding me!! Yummmy. I can be your master.......xxx
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Praise Cavey!

Quoting 'cavey50'
   


THEN goes on to tell me they are of Strong Christian values and want a man of substance and character...

AND fckn declare that I AM EXACTLY what they have been looking for??


Well, I see where they're coming from Cavey - you do look a little like Jesus!

 


 


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cavey50   Man 53yrs

*chuckles*

Thank you Apollo.....

I will try to perform a "MIRACLE" for you when we catch up

 

Decibels:*blushes*  Thank you!!! :)

 

Prefab I am refering to in profiles.. is when the people dont actually use their own words to describe themselves... but use all the Templates...

It shows a lack of imaginaton and thought .. :)

 

I am sure there are some out there who will inform us as to WHY they use them, and that is fine... but, it still surely limits them from the persons who want prospects to show enthusiasm or originality..

*smiles*

 

caveman

x

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wowwow11   Man 40yrs

With Roast Pumpkin

Love my Goose  Oven Roasted with potatoes , Carrots Onion a hand full of chillies

 

Throw in som Sweet Patoes  Fresh peas and Gravey

 

Yum

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Illbursecret   Woman 42yrs

Where did the light heartedness go

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