i love giving oral, i love making a girl cum with my tounge first, dont be shy just direct them there
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Thats life , you get people who only think the world revolves around them and you need to have empathy for them , poor things.lol! Then you get people who love to share with their playmate. Thank god most of us like to give and be rewarded by the seeing the woman in throws of pleasure with her body thrusting and arching as she responds to my tongue. For her to then go down on me is a bonus i love to receive , but if not, i love just the touch of a soft hand while we extend the foreplay until we can't hold the urge off any longer to push and thrust to gether.I always take care in grooming my self and being clean before going out on a play date and that is the only thing i expect from my playmate too. Ive been with one playmate 3 times and have given her 3 good lickings to trhe 1 i've recieved. Time will balance it out and if not you either move on or decide to stay.
I am happy to keep going as long as the lady likes - one lady friend of mine cums and then that's it for her, as she is on painkillers for whiplash injuries - rarely she might cum again an hour or so later. She still likes me to keep genltly stimulting her labia and g-spot once the o-sensitivity is gone, says it feels intimate and great.
Other wimmen have been surprised to find they're multi-orgasmic with me - sure that once-and-over is it for them. More than once I've been told no man has done that for them before.
What can I say - they just don't know better. My experience is, the better my partner feels, the better it is for me, as sort of mutual benefit. So I try to be as attentive and responsive to them as I can. It's not 100% by any means - you still need to find some connection but mostly I find it isn't hard (well, it is, really!). If a lady is not turned on, she's not turned on - the brain is still the main sexual organ.
M