With both of the ladies above! There is no way in hell that I will suck on a guy's cock unless he gives me GREAT oral first! No use doing the 69er either (which I love)...as the guys always stop licking you and just concentrate on what I am doing! Unfortunately I think that the internet has killed good sex for women...too much porn and the guys can't tell the difference between a girl that gets paid to "oohh and ahhh" as she sucks his cock for half an hour to the guy just giving her 2 licks!
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State clearly to them what you do want before agreeing to meet up with them, but watch the ones that will say anything just to get in your pants! Not ALL the men on here are like that...but there are a few! And if they do nothing for you...just get up and leave....it is really hard to do at first...but...you do get used to it!
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It is a sad fact that most men will only give the woman a perfunctory few licks....just enough to say he did it. Now all the guys will rush in here and tell you they go down on you for hours and love it. I have not been on RHP for long but have been on other istes for a while now and notice quite a few similar faces and profiles. I think I am fairly safe in assuming that the men on RHP are no different from any others...hell they are they same men. lol. Just different sites.
I understand though, these men are not going to form a lasting relationship with you...you are married. They may or may not want to play with you again. Looking at it from thier point of view...why should they go to all that bother for someone who is basically a random fuck? They only want to get thier rocks off after all.
From a womans point of veiw it can be extremely frustrating and can ruin a good time. I am with the others. Just dont go to all the trouble of giving him a great BJ unless he has given you satisfactory oral first.
Coming from the male here.....
I am more than happy to spend time down on a lady without expectation of a return.
For me it is an emense pleasure to both hear and feel a woman in heaven while my head is between her legs...it is such a turn on.
Sorry but there is nothing better than the taste of pussy and quite happy to be down there as long as it takes, and if there is some reciprication then OMG that is.....pleasure
Sorry to hear you ahven't had the best experience with guys giving you oral, that's a tragedy. I would only offer you the same advice a few of the others have. Discuss it all first and don't accept anything less than what you want.
There may be quite a few guys in the two lick camp on this site, but there would have to be a few more like me who genuinely love it.
Demand?
I dont think anyone should be demanding anything (unless it is a bdsm situation and that is a whole different ball game)
Surely when two people come together for a mutually satisfying time that is how it should be?
MUTUAL!
Certainly not demanding but equal...discusion please....there is another topic going, I believe about manners.
Just because there are more women here than men it does not mean that the women need to get an overinflated idea of themselves.
no.......women have every right to demand what they wish from men, in regards to sex........... men make demands on women from the time they are old enough to understand what their cock is all about..but women dont do the same at all. .. seems to me that we all pussy foot around this shit, and try to be so bloody politically correct..........sex is a power play... men believe that they hold all the cards.... but its women who always hold the joker.............but few play it.... all i mean is that here...on sites like this, women should never settle for 'second bes't...or 'good enough'...........you have what we want, so make us work for it......dont give it away, dont compromise...demand the best deal you can and demand the best attention you can.......and dont ever ever sell yourselves short....not for any man. Mike.....
if you make it easy... a man will walk away from an encounter, and barely, if at all, remember your name the next day.....if you make him work for it, and expend a bit of energy and effort...he will remember everything....... dont be forgettable... be memorable.......demand 100% every time.
I will never set myself up as to be such a high maintenance princess that I "demand" satisfaction.
We meet as equals or not at all.
I have known since I was in my teens that it is always a woman who holds the balance of power in any sexual encounter. I manage to get exactly what I want without any demands......
and I am never ever forgotten.
All i can say to you sweetie is check them out VERY thoroughly before you agree to meet. Listen to their language, the words they use. You can tell if they are reliable, what kind of lover they are, how bright they are, wether they are needy or manipulative,wether they are prone to telling fibs or not, their character and moral code. Be fussy...the problem only comes when you haven't been fussy enough and then you have a story of regret to tell. Everyone is entitled (men and women) to be fussy, become a card carrying member of The Fussy Hussies Club
Once you find a lovely play friend who is what you want and need, a good guy, who's sweet, naughty, witty, clever and a fabulous shag..........or whatever else floats your boat..........Bon Appétit