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What makes someone SEXY ;)

Aug 04, 2008
Busty_Wench1
As a new member, and someone who seems to be having a hard time finding the one man or men who want to play with me, I thought I would pose this question What is sexy? For some it's physical, for others it's the whole person. I like men with good bodies, but they don't have to be perfect. I like an intelligent guy, but not Albert Einstien smart. I like a guy who's senstive, but not one who cries during "Beaches" as Bette Midler is singing "Wind Beneath My Wings" at the end. What is sexy to you? Am I sexy? Blue and green hair got your motor running...lol Or is it the profile below or above me that floats your boat. Let's be really honest with this one and see if we can help others who are having a "sexytime" problem Busty
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litle_red_engin

sexy???

a nice water tank... that will do it.. ps.. no idea why your haing trouble..  other than you are a plane fair away..  just a wild guess.. but i think geeky would melt for you..  where are you son?? LRE (working in the redhead factory)
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Roughneck77   Couple Man 34yrs Woman 38yrs

Hmmm thats the 64$$$$$$$ Q!

There are so many variables and so many different people out there that I think this question is just not able to be answered satisfactorily. A bit like "the meaning of life" different for everyone.  Some guys prefer small women some prefer BBW.  Some like sexy flirty some like shy and bookish.  Sorry but this one comes down to personal preference. Cheers, R n D
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Move_My_Tongue   Man 31yrs

Glass half full or empty?

Sexy, by an individual’s perspective, could be summed up by Forrest Gump “…. You never know what you’re going to get’. What tickles one’s fancy, may not even come close to floating another’s boat. For example, the vast majority of my friends would chew broken glass for their 2 seconds with Jennifer Hawkins. Me, no thanks (NO I AM NOT GAY! LOL) I just don’t feel that attraction for her, hence, don’t see her as sexy. On the other hand, Livinia Nixon will have me run from one side of town to the other just to catch a glimpse of her? Go figure? For me, looks aren’t that important. If you are confident, witty, and for me, have a cheeky, almost devilish smile, and I can connect on a mental level, then we are halfway there. Put yourself out there the way you want people to see you, intellectually and via image, to attract the sort of people you are looking for. Be patient, it will happen.
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tigergoddess

Eyes do it for me

someone with amazing eyes is def sexy to me!!!!!!!!!!! i guess different things on different people are sexy.... for example.. 1. eyes, win me over every time. 2. tattoos on some guys ive seen are sexy, specially when it goes up aound his neck yummmmmmm 3. hands..... specially when you know what he can do with them ;) 4. a perfect tan... sometimes does it for me.... specially in nudies case :) 5. a great sence of humour is also sexy 6. Arms, another great one 7. mmmmm someone back.... well i dunno if any of the above has um helped ya.... but thats what i find sexy :) n good luck tiges xxx
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dazichane   Woman 55yrs

Sexy

Believe in YOURSELF....That's SEXY Portray the real YOU....That's SEXY We are all UNIQUE.......That's SEXY I am ME......................I'M SEXY............I believe in ME dazichane
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Hillbillies

sexy

Well i have my sexy guy at home.... but if one walks past me in the street, what do i look for,  firstly im a face person, nothing like a good looking guy, tall, broad shoulders, has to have nice hands, and a nice butt, and then good shoes, dont know what it is about shoes, lol Mrs H
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kjandnev

Just be yourself

I think Roughneck said it pretty well, It comes down to personal preference, most of us have our preferred body & personality type, just as you do! Apart from that sexy is a state of mind. Also the more specific your wish list is, the harder it will be to meet someone, it could be a case of chucking the baby out with the bathwater. Cheers Nev
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The_Seeker  

Man 37yrs

Sexy

.. Is what Dazi said... and Be extremely happy with what you have around you be extremely loves who you are. Loving oneself is ok.. it just swaying "I enjoy being me! i love this life i have!" etc etc As an intelligent, gsoh fun guy, I seek gals not only hot in bed, but can be able to stimulate my mind other times. But thats me :)
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PertHedonist

sexy

are you sexy???? to me your name, pics and what I interpret your attitude to be through your profile makes you sexy so yes you are. but meeting may not have the same affect or may enhance what i already think. no doubt people who are gifted in describing themselves in profiles do very well on here, if they can back it up in the flesh, then there are others, me included who may have poor skills in this area. at the end of the day face to face is the only way to tell. i enjoy the openess of what you ask and say. good luck PD
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tinks65   Woman 46yrs

sexy??

mmmmmm....eyes and smile do it for me... not the size of shape of his cock..like men make  us think we are attracted..ok ok..Some men...lolol
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malfun   Man 50yrs

me

yep thats right i make myself damn sexy heheheheheh oh and still single wooohoooo mal
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Blonde_Vixen   Woman 42yrs

Sexy

Well Busty for me it's very simple. Two things to be honest:  1)  A man who makes me feel safe and protected without being jealous, clingy, standoffish, OVER-protective or arrogant with my trust. 2)  What I call "man-smell".  A very good male friend/lover of mine gets me going every time just when we hug.  Fully clothed no less.  He takes care to shower regularly and use MINIMAL cologne which makes the natural smell of his body come through......and it's YUMMY!!!!! Karlyn                    x   
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poetryinbondage

What makes someone SEXY ;)

Busty: You have nothing to worry about sweetheart, you are a very attractive woman. For me to find someone attractive (sorry really dislike that word sexy as it speaks to the insecurities that society attempts to build into us *shudder*) all you need is a glimmer in your eye and a wicked smile on your face that suggests things that are best left unspoken in public ;) When opening your picture the smile that suggests more than it tells and the playful light in your eyes makes you very attractive. The green hair speaks to a quirky sense of humour which I think is reflected in your eyes and that is quite intriguing. I think that men who overlook you probably aren't worth your time anyway :) I find that men and women can be very shallow and not look more closely at a picture to find the real person hiding underneath the masks that we so easily hide behind.
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happyhung   Man 45yrs

Sexy

In my opinion the same thing can make sexy, as quick as it can make UN-sexy!! That is confidence. I mean being able to look someone in the eyes when you speak to them. Really listening to them, and being honest. Ask any guy, within reason, body shape or size, etc matters little when a confident girl walks into a room.... On the other hand, over confident people, I find a turn off.
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abitofflavor

Hmm

My thoughts :     A nice smile and some words that reciprocate, feelings evening in an innocent conversation.     Its interesting people sometimes only see the I want I want, which can be nice to to have desires and be desired. But I feel that simple words and pleasantries are a start to something promising. Regards abitofflavor
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Dee_signs   Woman 45yrs

Sexy....

Nice smile, but the eyes have to smile too...but the best thing is - your mind.  That is one powerful weapon and very very sexy.
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wettie_n_jave   Couple Man 42yrs Woman 37yrs

sexy too me...

1-people that are themselves...(obviously not the self proclaimed dkhd's) 2-people that can laugh at themselves 3-those smiles, u know the contagious ones, the ones that make U yourself smile & wriggle with delight mmmmm yup yep yeeaahhsss
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tripod8barbie   Couple Man 41yrs Woman 41yrs

Sexy comes from within

I agree that we each find different things sexy which is a great thing since we are all different in our own right. I tend to go for the face and eyes firstly but then it really comes down to the whole package including the personality. Some of the sexiest looking people really just don't do it for me because they can't back it up with a Great Personality Sexy is definately something that comes from within....Having the Confidence and the Cheeky Streak without becoming too over confident is the key regardless of size, age, gender, hair colour, eye colour etc. If you feel sexy it comes across to others Sometimes you have to put yourself out there in order for people to notice and faking it til you feel it is a good way to get out there.
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wickedlydevious   Woman 35yrs

Sexy is as sexy does

Not really an answer to the post but just wanted to say:-Busty you look great to me :) and as a woman with curves myself i wish i had the nouse to go out there and die my hair blue and green lol looks great i agree with the post above get out there and the saying is true to some extent Fake it til you Make it~it is highly used in the unemployment industry too so i dont see why it cant be used to your advantage in your personal life Good Luck cheers
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TwoforTea

SXC

As much as being yourself and confident in yourself is the key, I believe a crucial criteria is ensuring your in an environment...were you trust enough to be yourself. With out the trust factor I find being open and honest a bit hard

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