Have to agree with HerRedHotPieness.  Mr looks yummy to me.

I am also drawn to the "bad boy" but i must say he does have a "bad boy" look about him. 

And "yes" it is so much easier for us girls on these sites.

Mr is in the same boat as most of the guys on the site.

Kaz

First of all may I say having looked at your pics you are both very yummy. Having read you profile I think you both have a very progressive and modern attitude. Having said that I think from the females in particulat there could be a misconception that Mr has pushed or coerced in some way the woman into allowing him to have sex outside of the relationship. I think it is sad but unfortunately even in this day and age it is difficult for people to accpet that women can actually like sex and be sexually liberated.

Monogamy is certainly a construct of society and anything outside of this in a relationship is frowned upon. We hear much more these days of poligamist relationships where this is seen as derogatory to women as the man gets to have multiple partners but not the woman. Conversely polyamory where women get to have mulitple partners is also frowned upon as the women can be seen as loose or "a slut". So I don't think you can win either way, people will either accept you for who you are or be horrified and not understand your progressive attitudes no in between. Don't forget either that we are in WA the nanny state so trying to get people to be progressive here is like flogging a dead horse.

I think it is refreshing if as a couple you can be ok with each other seeking things from others outside of your relationship if that works for you then great, I would imagine it makes for some hot sexy talk in the bedroom.

In conclusion I pesonally would have no issue with that and if Mr would like to play please get in touch hehe yes I am a naughty devil lol.

Take care Red

Hi. I'm only new to this site and where I can't see anything wrong with your profile, but I'm wondering if it has something to do with the fact that your main profile picture is the woman. This is the picture that comes up in a persons face first. Maybe try an experiment and change the guy's picture as the main profile picture and see if the stats change at all.

You shouldn't be copping abuse though because you're not doing anything wrong.

Good luck with that. xx

Fun_2_gether

Blame it on the women.  You females are a strange and screrwed up lot, but I love you.  Oh yes.  I've loved many of you.