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Jan 31, 2012
Totally_Confused
We know this is a sex dating site, what is it you are looking for though?
Meet with the full intention of sex, sex, next...
or
Party, flirting, teasing, touching, basically FUN leading to sex. I'm not meaning swingers club type parties where sex is in your face and is mostly expected. I mean night clubs, spank parties, rhp meets at a public venue where sex is not instant. Where sex is a thought in your mind, an intention but not definate. Magical moments as the night unfolds when the totally unexpected happens. Maybe it's the thrill of the unknown, the anticipation or perhaps it's simply the spontaniety of it all.

We are the later. We've tried the meet, sex, next... no thrill, a bit of fun but no thrill. No long lasting memories that make you smile for weeks after. Besides we all know how hard it is to get two couples where all four are attracted to each other. Meeting with full intention of sex you're on the spot, one of the four ends up taking one for the team. Not our definition of a good time.

Curious... what are your thoughts? Are there many couples on the same wavelength as us?
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MrsTri  

Woman 36yrs

In our profiles

We are pretty up front about what we are looking for in my profile and our couple profile (Triunity).

We are interested in meeting women to share intimacy with.

Ideally we would have an arrangement (or relationship but not in the conventional sense) with a woman who we would see regularly for drinks, chat and play.

Realising what we offer is not the norm we are accepting of the fact that women come, cum and go. Some stay longer than others and some are just once off, looking to scratch an itch or try something new, but something longer term and a little deeper is our ideal.
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Normalthree   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

Maybe so

Interesting question,we have been asked this by one or two people before,dont think we have every really given a straight answer.

So many people seem to want to keep their RHP friends and so called normal ones apart.

Our feeling is yes this is a sex based web site ,but we feel we can meet other like minded couples on here,and mabe form a friendship from there.

After all one only needs to venture into to town and on any given weekend can pick up a couple or single just for a quick wham bamm thank you man.

Therefore we as a normal couple LOL who are a little shy do appear to on the same wavelenghth as R8d_4U ,as im sure many couples if honest with themselves would be.

 

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The_Seeker   Man 37yrs

A serious honest question requires a serious honest answer...

Miss Right

Miss Right-Now is optional :P
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Tmax2012   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 47yrs

A bit of this and a bit of that.

As you say, its difficult to get complete harmony between two couples. Must be harder in a group environment, so a little compromise is needed. We've not really experienced a swingers party  and avoid the clubs after a bad first experience. We have been hoping for what seems ages, to meet likeminded and equally kinky couples who share our fantasies. The hope is to meet enough people and form a friendship with them so everyone is comfortable and we get a group together for a  group romp occasionally. We like the idea of  friends with benefits. Sometimes the sex doesn't happen but the friendship remains and we meet socially for bbq's etc. It is a nerve racking thing to meet strangers for the first time and hope you click, share some common interests, like each other physically then be brave enough to move on to the exciting stage. We're not on here to collect notches for the bedpost. Like you we want the thrills to be memorable and special, not cheap and left with a bad feeling.

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