I haven't bothered to check (I trust Bratzillas ability to read) - so yep, you'll find most people here don't respond to messages if they think you're not going to click.  If you're here cheating on your partner... well then the people you're likely to click with just dropped by a heap. 

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Face it - you're of no use to someone who is looking for a long term relationship, and it's a lot easier to have no strings sex with someone single without the threat of a psycho wife out to hunt you down if she finds out about you.  So good luck in the niche that you need to carve out, but don't whinge if you get no replies, just rest easy at night that you're not alone (no I'm not talking about your wife... I mean that plenty of messages on here go unanswered)

PS - Just how is replying to your messages a time-saving for the people you are messaging

I dont know, but I consider I have been around for a fairly long time, and I consider I am able to actually read what people write instead of what people want to read ..

Sure . this guy says he is Married .. and he wants to stay that way ... HENCE he is not looking for a permanent other partner .. just someone to have fun with when he is away ... IT DOES NOT SAY he is cheating .. for all anyone knows .. he may well have permission to play whilst away .. but does not want to become ROMANTICALLY involved in where it desolves his marriage .. so he wishes to be descreet .. also the aspect is that he may not want other family members knowing ... Descretion takes on many forms .. ( its a bit hard to be specific when there are set words to use in a profile) .. maybe RHP should include attached / married without or without permission as oposed to open relationship ...

This is an adult dating site .. and as such he is asking for a date .. with who and where it goes to I consider will be between those two ..

Everyone has their own views on relationships and play/cheeting ... but please .. dont force your views down everyone elses throats so to speek .. and please dont make assumtions

Ditto

This is not red hot , get on your white horse sight and look down noses at people.

If you don’t want a married guy then fine, that’s your choice. He may not get replies for a lot of reasons as do all males and females on this site.

Its not about manners only, some people just do not have the time to reply or are just dicking around on here one hand in lap.

This site is hardly the place to throw moral stones.

If he has her blessing he's not cheating and he should say so and make her avail to confirm that.

If he asks for discretion he's fucking around. if she does't know the location doesn't matter, he's cheating

once again........not that i care.........just clearing up a point.....

Yes Bratzilla .. I agree in part with your second posting ..

and yes everyone is entitield to their opinion .. (my reference to raming it down .. is not personally about you .. its more about the forever done over posting here by multiple people always on the same or similar topic .. )

I see the aspect of Safe sex if required .. being .. if we get that far then YES it will be safe sex .. For oral sex is not playing safe sex .. unless you are using DAMS and such .. (male and or female condoms ..- for the STI can and do LIVE in the throat and can be passed by oral sex contact) ..

Also .. a requestforr a drink does not require the practice of safe sex .. unless your sharing the same drink / straw ..

I agree .. if he is outside YOUR desired criteria then .. its a NO GO ZONE .. I personally do send messages back saying thanks but no thanks .. as the OP says .. its saves time for all and reduces antaganism and the need for persons to post such as this posting .. if they persist or argue . then they are blocked ..

but then thats my way of dealing with messages .. it may not be everones way .. but to me maners go a long way ..

I have been the receipent of being cheeted on .. hence why Im now divorced and on here ... but it is in the past .. and thats where for me it stays .. life goes on and people should enjoy it ..

PS .. i didnt take your posting as abusive ..

I guess if you are pressured for time and discretion, then planning a meet becomes the focus of your time and the 'no replies' can seem a waste of your time.

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Mostly, a 'no reply' is a reply in itself.

If we don't reply we're rude (we have busy lives and don't have time to go through the dozens of messages and flirts that we get)

If we reply with a no thank you...we are rude, abused and questioned as to why not

If we write, I'm not interested on your profile it's ignored anyway and then you're condemned for not answering

We just can't win with you people, seriously

delayed posting certainly throws a spanner in at times doesn't it?

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OP ummmm I'm sorry but this is not frikkin cool, you may not like my opinion but suck it up princess!!!!

Does your wheelchair bound wife know? because if it's without her blessing, it's still cheating.

and I want to yell FOUR YEARS !!!! is that all before you can't keep it in your pants?

But I won't

He's married, he says so, there are no nasty surprises.

He would like to stay married which means he's going to be bloody careful about loosing the mrs and kids.

The unpleasant thing is around here is all the people who list themselves as single but are really married and don't say anything. I have softened somewhat over the years, i used to be very militant. But life is all about teaching you lessons isn't it.