As you know Leesa I've not been to your club, but that's by reason of distance more than any other.

I just wanted to say that, if you're going to meet people, perhaps for the first time, expressly for the purpose of bonking your brains out, then there is no safer way to do so than at a safe sex on premises (SOP) venue where you will be supported and protected should it be necessary by other patrons and staff.

But it isn't just a sex venue is it. I mean, you meet people with a common interest for sure, but it surprises me how many friends I've made, friends that I would never have met unless I attended a SOP, and how easy it is to do so. I mean, go to a sports club and you can feel out of place and it can be difficult to meet people... but go to a sex club and you know... that people are there to meet other people and that somehow makes the whole "hello to a stranger" thing simpler... And you might have very common sexual interests which goes a long way towards having a healthy relationship. Sure beats falling in love and then discovering your lover is a lousy root and putting up with it because you know you're in love. How people ever lasted in relationships where they remained a virgin until marriage beats the tripe out of me.

Hugs
Stalky