Can you please tell me how having a personal preference in the type of partner you are looking for..whether it be long term or for casual fling.. be discriminatory? I feel you need to be attracted to a person physically as well if any kind of sexual encounter is going to be fun for all involved.
Kisses
Focus
Oh and welcome to the ooze pond...enjoy...
Talk about pot calling kettle here!
Just had a peek at the OP's profile: only after women or couples aged between 20 and 50 - isn't that discriminatory? What about those under 20 or over 50, single men, do you decline if one of the members in a couple is above or below that age criteria?
A lot of people are here for more than just a 'casual fling' and/or have personal standards on whom they will sleep with. Anyone can seek what they desire, if they are after a 6'5" blonde cigar smoker with big boobs between the ages of 30 and 35, GOOD BLOODY LUCK TO THEM. It is their choice, it is their preference on whom they want to meet - no one has a right to criticise what they want.
Not everyone here is willing to jump into bed with whoever says yes (or just hints broadly). Someone could be the most perfect speciman of their gender and there will still be people who want find them attractive, will not find them fuckable - it is human nature.
We all have preferences....some people are more obvious about than others..
Have fun and enjoy this site...
I think you'll also find that we haven't counted out single males, and obviously if you look at the ages on our p/file that isnt an issue either.
W on each cheek and when she bent over
WOW
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Earl
yes "easy going swingers" seem very hung up on some things..cpl4u
girls have been negitive to short guys for years...so its funny to see guys saying no to short girls ;)
as Brett says, everyone likes different things...thats GOOD.
for us its about vaiety...try someone new...not a mirror image of your partner?
Neo
hahaha
world of warcraft?
no wonder you dont get a root!!
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You now what I find excruciating? The OP made a comment on the now closed "Lists" thread suggesting my remarks were vindictive and nasty and like nearly everyone else has walked in either half blind, not so bright or selectively reading the thread.
Someone in chat blocks discriminately against people of certain sex over a certain age etc, makes rude comments to others and is a known source of chatroom fights and you bunch of wowsers scream blue murder because someone compares looks to a smacked arse? Gimme a break and HTFU.
Tell me how this is different to blocking someone based on race?
Tell me how this is different to blocking someone based on a disability?
Would you defend someone who said "You're blocked because you're black"?
You do gooders and wowsers are bloody quick to jump on my comments but you must have double standards or are too dim to understand the reasoning.
If you went for a job interview and were declined the job based on your age, sex or marital status it would be lawyers at 10 paces.
Don't waste your time trying to tell me my comments are unfair because I no longer care if I upset people in here. I no longer care because I think too many don't have the level of comprehension needed or are just looking for the easy soap box to stand on.
I've been discriminated against most of my life in many ways and not then or now will I ever tolerate it simple as that. I don't care that people call me a wog, I don't care what other names people call me or what comments they make about the way I look, that's just teasing. Real discrimination most of you will never know, it's a damn site darker and more dangerous than a few nasty names. And as for your comments Myname, if I was bullying nobody would be unsure, it would be emphatic as I don't do halfway. I'm not an ass, I just treat others how I am treated.
I understand that people have tastes, we are all turned on by something different to the next person and nobody has the right to question peoples preferences but when you treat people in a lesser manner because of it then it becomes discrimination. You are ALL welcome in my life, I just wouldn't sleep with all of you..
If anyone wants to change the way or comment on the way I deal with people you're welcome to do so on November 7 during the MS Sydney to the Gong charity ride, join up and raise $250 sponsorship and I'll let you bend my ear for a whole 90km or 180km if you're fit enough to ride back with me, I'll even wash and service your bike afterwards. At least my 90km of suffering your moaning will be raising money for a good cause and making you live longer.
Can you give me a dink?
xFunlovingx
....I still loves you and that yummy chest and your oh so cute bum...mmmmm....can I play with it again???? Please??????
Oh and best of luck on the ride.....
This topic or variants of it has been 'done' so many times. I was musing over it (I really need a life!!) and had a bit of an epiphany. Ask yourself the question. "Would I have sex with the next person I lay eyes on provided they are not a direct relative?" Then ask yourself "Why?" Perhaps IF you can answer that for yourself you might have an inkling into what makes people 'discriminate'
Agreed some people overthink things and seem to be looking for the perfect person. But really do you want to play with the type of people who just take anything and everything????
Swingers pride themselves on being open more open minded and honest than 'muggles' so why can't we be honest enough to say what we think and prefer and open minded (and adults) enough to accept what other people say and think even if it means that they are being negative about you.
In my experience ' I have found you can probally miss out on some choice cuts by being too picky. One of the best ppl I ever had sex with was a girl who although fairly plain on the cover was a absolute prize in the cot.. She always wore unflattering clothes that did nothing for her' but once stripped naked' she had a amazing figure with the best perky breasts in the world. But in saying that' here on RHP we have a criteria we stick too mainly to attract those who we consider would be most suitable. Hell' we probally passed up the opportunity to some really compatible people in doing this. So who really knows ? Mr JJ