Soz Blue eyes but I am not sure if this is the area for relationship hunting.

I believe most of the guys are looking for casual sex not a serious thing.

That said I think some men are here to find some one for more than just casual sex.

I have tried the sites you refer to and the women can be really fucking strange.

I am looking for company and sex!

Its not always about the sex, for me I need something besides a pair of wide open legs to  connect with.

Good luck with the hunting.

Mike

Are there people out there looking for LOVE or companionship?

Yes there are , but they are called women.

Am I doing something wrong or am I so unappealing

Your on an internet date site, the vanilla date sites are the same guys as on here. Just over there they pretend they do not want to just fuck you.

Am I suppose to play cutsie pie little woman?

Yes do the five date rule. No fucking or sucking at all till you have been out five times.

Do not go out with a guy who has not been separated for less than two years from his wife. He still will have buyers remorse over his marriage. Yes men want a nice woman in the kitchen and to introduce to his mum,friends or kids. He does not want a sexy slutty woman to be his partner. He finds those on here while he is married and the nice girl has stopped opening her legs, and he loves porn sex anyway.

What are guys looking for in a partner? (maybe I can do that lol

The are not looking for a partner on RHP. Well non that I know of anyway.

Picture this, you meet a guy and go to a BBQ and find out just by chance you have fucked three of his mates that are also on RHP...surprise :)

Go out, and do stuff,

go dancing

join a club of some sort

chat up men when you walk the dog

internet relationships are like rocking-horse shit

Hello Beneath :)

I'm looking for love and I'm unwavering about that. I've chatted to and even met a few men who are looking for the same, though sadly the chemistry wasn't there for us.

I do think it's a numbers game, and I do believe strongly that a woman needs to accept what a man says about what he's looking for or offering. So often we hear things we want to hear, not what a man is actually telling us.

I found a truly wonderful love on here some years ago. A man who dreamt of making a beautiful life with the woman of his dreams. Unfortunately I screwed that up, but still, I'm proof (as are many other men and women on here) that it's possible to find love on a dating or sex site.

I will say that the more vanilla, regular dating sites are fraught with problems. There is more game playing, especially by men, and a lot of pretense around wanting to date, when often the men really just want sex.

Either way,  in either place, stay true to what you're looking for, trust your instincts about the men you talk to, be willing to meet and take a chance, and don't lose hope xxx

A few nice guys looking for love

I am a bad girl, I came here for da SEX

Those other internet sites are the same.

this would be my profile:

You have my permission to love me for a couple of hours. We can even pretend were married I will lay with my legs wide open and read a book and say, are you there yet?

You can grind into me a few times, and announceee your cumming like the second cumming of Christ.

I will go back to reading shades of grey as that as as close to an orgasm I will ever get.

TR feeling a little snippy this evening, goes to throw on ten hormone patches.

Insert tongue in cheek here ( ) or any other parts of me you want to insert.

You can find what ever you like in life, if you do not give up looking, but

you need to look around you off-line.

That cute guy that taps away on his computer all night may be your lawn mowing guy or even your flat mate, or the guy who fixes your car.

We need to notice men when we are out, I do not think there is enough of it these days.

try it , try the flirt with a stranger

Men if you want to meet women, learn to dance as they say its a vertical expression of a horizontal desire.

Yeah we all have...its part of being single...and one goes on these "dates" in the hope that eventually  being single  may in time become a double....the thing is that theres 7 billion people in the world ...how in the hell are you able  to find the "Rite One"  from just a few dates ???....you dont.. you just keep your expectations to a minimum, be realistic  and just enjoy the nite out for what it is and if my some chance you find that special someone ...then YAY !!!..hell I havent been asked out on a date since like 2002 !!!

Are there people out there looking for LOVE or companionship ?

Absolutely..both men and women - more than likely,  long term both sexes  are craving this, but until it comes along, via a site or a chance meeting in Aisle 7 at your local Coles store, well you just enjoy each encounter on the way...people (Ive heard) do actually still meet significant others at pubs, carparks, via friends, parties, thru work  etc..it does happen - some of perhaps though need to remove our selves from behind our keyboards and get a life outside of our avatars

Am I doing something wrong or am I so unappealing

No I dont believe you are doing anything wrong or that you dont appeal - you have a nice profile and look to be a attractive lady......you just havent found the rite person for you yet...I truly believe this..that one day someone will walk into your life who will make you forget why it never worked out with anyone else - but yes one has to be patient..meanwhile dont let that define you..just enjoy each day that comes your way..dont keep actively searching...let them find you !!!

Am I suppose to play cutsie pie little woman?
Im not sure  exactly what you mean by this comment...just be yourself...thats all there is to it....and remember a partner will not make you happy only you are capable of making yourself happy...a partner is just one of life's bonuses.. 

What are guys looking for in a partner?

I cant answer that..only a bloke can - I can only assume that what they are looking for pretty much runs parallel to what we females are looking for....but we all have differents wants, needs and selection criteria....as for me...Ive been fortunate enough to have found "it"  a few times....and perhaps thats all that Ive been allocated.......some people never find it...some people find it strait off, some of us never experience it again....but more importantly thru the  past  year since I was last partnered, I found myself........again............and Im a ok person to know...........

something along the lines of "Not looking for a serious relationship, but if the right person comes along..." maybe just respond to these men who are open to a relationship. If you are attracted, then progress to meeting with the proviso that you aren't jumping into bed, as you want to find someone who you have more than just a sexual connection with, then take it from there, I guess if you progress to the sex stage and the 'I really like you' stage, then you have to deal with the whole situation of what type of relationship do you enter into once you both want to be 'exclusive' will it be real exclusivity and you both log out of RHP for good, or are you both allowed on just for forums and perving, or will you have an open or swinging relationship.

I do think that alot of the men on here are looking for a relationship, but don't want to commit to that until they find out what type of fruitloops they are dealing with... when women become too clingy too fast, it can scare them off, you just have to let it be their idea to have more than just a fuck buddy relationship... if you are their cup of tea and you're not an obsessive weirdo, then they will come around eventually, on their terms, if the chemistry is right.

Good luck

xxx

There will be 1001 different opinions on your topic but i think when it comes to these sites really anything goes and anything could happen.

The difficulty is everyone is an individual so everyone has different wants.  So straight off each one of us (including yourself) will probably not be compatable with about 85% of individuals.  We are all already behind the ape ball before we start lol. 

Just try to enjoy having a look without to higher expectations and see what happens.

:)