From my experience its about being up front from the beginning. If its your intention to just have a FB u have to tell the female. You cant string her along then tell her ur not interested in a relationship. You need to control emotions. You can listen to their problems, be a friend, after all, the FB isnt a prostitute. They have feelings and u need to show some respect!
FB can work but they can fail big time too. I've had a few FB's but unfortunately the ladies seemed to get too attatched to me, even when they knew it was just a physical thing to begin with. That sounds conceited of me but it happens. One FB wanted me to leave my wife (who has FB's of her own)! We have rules that we tell our FB's upfront. Number one rule was "no sleepovers". I wake up with my wife and go to sleep with her, NO exceptions!
Other rules are a time limit for play (max 6 hours), one night a month only, no gifts, and ALWAYS ALWAYS safe sex. We have other rules but they concern us.
there great to start with but after a few times together your lives either start to clash or usually if the fliting has gone on for a long time before you have sex and have been resisted for some time the power of control can shift with one thrust!
i have 2 f/b , both are completely different , #1 is a go'er , he only needs 5 seconds to be ready again ,
#@ is a devo , someone i can get down and dirty with ,
i love the fact we arnt mates or buddies , I am being looked after for a change , i know its selfish but ,,,,, i have been making sure everyone else has what they need , NOW ITS MY TURN
Hmmm, I am new to this FB scene. After 22 yrs of marriage failing the last thing I want is a relationship. I found a FB through friends and it turns out that if you are upfront about expectations there will not be a problem. Reasuarance helps as well, just as in a relationship ppl look for reasuarance, FB's also need assurances that you are not crossing the dreaded relationship line. Bye the way, I find the whole naughtiness of FB's just makes the sex even better.