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Mar 21, 2010
121fun
The difference 1 day makes, yesterday I matched a lot more profiles than I do today..... What horrible thing did I do in the past 24 hours? I turned 31. Now while it's only a number, I do try to only bother those that match my profile and I match theirs (I did say try). Who else has run into this brick wall of ageism and how did you deal with it.......
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Mynameonurlips   Woman 49yrs

One size doesnt fit all...

If I were you I'd forget ticking all the boxes and widen your search

and think yourself lucky you're not in your late 40's!

Go sick em tiger!

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NevandKj

Mate....you have nothing to complain about

Like Mz J said wait till your in your forties, women (generalising) wont want a bar of you!


Cheers Nev....live it up now while your still in the hunt!

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NevandKj

Oh yeah forgot to answer your

Question/Querie/Poser


This is how i dealt with it (mind you i am already in a happy relationship, so take that into account) You have to come to the realisation that nobody finds you appealing anymore (you still have 10 to 15 years yet) and give up looking...yes i know seems kinda defeatist,  but you can only bash your head against a wall for so long before you end up with brain damage...lol

Sometimes you just gotta admit defeat....hard as that may be.


Cheers Nev.....and best of luck to you fella



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mooka   Man 52yrs

Oh diddums

I can beat that, i just turned 51, i am now officially off every ladies list :(
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Dellaroo   Woman 51yrs

Oh no its contagious........

Well i turned 50 on Wednesday and tonight i have crickets chirping at my profile.......... what does this mean  i'm so not old...i hope, i might start counting backwards see if that helps ???.

Dellaroo ...xxxxxx

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NevandKj

Hehehe Dellaroo

The ageist thing only applies to guys, women of all ages are highly sought after (generally speaking) by males of all ages (generally speaking), but not vice a versa (generally speaking).


I reckon its sort of like a bell curve and the top of the bell is around 36 yo and the rim of bell is about 45 yo


Now i am just waiting to hear from Earl if there is any signifigance or bias as to where the AC/DC logo is fixed.


Cheers Nev....The Professor....or Bullshit Artist....lol

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sneekypeek   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 42yrs

but i thought,,,

....it was fun banging your head against a wall,,,,  party poopers.

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richo01au

it's bad enough

Being in the late,  30's, getting lots of flirts from other parts of Aus, but none near me, and when i do reply they don't

Oh well the search continues :)

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Mynameonurlips   Woman 49yrs

The MILF, GILF & Cougar scourge

Far be it for me to complain....BUT..as flattering as it is to receive

attention for all these hard bodied scenic young men, we all know

they just want to fulfill their own american media inspired fantasies.

And from my experience, the older guys are so head fucked with

stuff from their ex's or again, just out to gratify their own sexual

urges....there isnt any room for women like me who wants something

with a little more 'depth' (and I dont mean a 9 inch cock...lol)

I'd take quality over quantity in my (in)box any day!!!

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heymumma   Woman 53yrs

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Mooka.......

Not long and i'm 52...lol..so i agree with Nev and mooka
and 121fun... with most younger guys are looking for fast food n cherry picking.not substance..eg viewing women with respect as people..quality shouldn't be rush..like a fine wine that can seduce the senses.

xoxoxheymumma
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MrandMrs_Average   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 48yrs

Birthday Greetings...

Mooka,

Let us just say firstly that any birthday is a good day... To not be able to have another birthday is a sad thing..

Now let us look at your cup half full...

You may be older, but now wiser, more experienced and more desireable to a wider range of people...

So may you enjoy your wise and experience and freely share it with those who will appreciate it...

From two of us who are older, wiser and still having more birthdays... Oh, and we are still learning too..hehe.. much more fun to keep learning and sharing the knowledge...

Mr&Mrs Av.

 

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MrandMrs_Average   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 48yrs

121fun

Ohh, you poor young thing.. lol...

come on, get over being a little older... it's alot better to get older than not get older... lol..

there are plenty of us about who are alot older than you and we still are enjoying life...

But hope you had a great birthday all the same...  

Mr&Mrs Av.

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mynameisearl2   Man 43yrs

affix AC/DC logo

Quoting 'NevandKj'
                                 

The ageist thing only applies to guys, women of all ages are highly sought after (generally speaking) by males of all ages (generally speaking), but not vice a versa (generally speaking).


I reckon its sort of like a bell curve and the top of the bell is around 36 yo and the rim of bell is about 45 yo


Now i am just waiting to hear from Earl if there is any signifigance or bias as to where the AC/DC logo is fixed.


Cheers Nev....The Professor....or Bullshit Artist....lol

                               

on back of t'shirt, fridge and back window of car.

hope i've been of some help Proffessor Nev.


designer Earl


ahahahahaahahahahahahahahaha
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121fun

Brutal

Quoting 'NevandKj'

Question/Querie/Poser


This is how i dealt with it (mind you i am already in a happy relationship, so take that into account) You have to come to the realisation that nobody finds you appealing anymore (you still have 10 to 15 years yet) and give up looking...yes i know seems kinda defeatist,  but you can only bash your head against a wall for so long before you end up with brain damage...lol

Sometimes you just gotta admit defeat....hard as that may be.


Cheers Nev.....and best of luck to you fella


The Brutality of this reply has made my day, thankyou to you all, I will return to the field of battle with renewed vigour and will start to pester those profiles I don't match any longer.....


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NevandKj

Brutal

Hey wasn't meant to be, was just being honest!



Cheers nev

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