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That time of month.

Aug 09, 2012
BriteLite   Couple Man 33yrs Woman 33yrs
When you are left with an unexpected complication to a meetup, such as an early/unexpected period, whats do people do? How many broken dates would be due to this particular complication.
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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

Beppy sponges

Two words for you... Beppy sponges. Or something similiar. Google it.
Always ask though, some guys don't mind, others love it when Aunt Flo is in town ... Or Beppy sponge it. ;-)
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mikeandshel   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 52yrs

umm

cancel. its what we did, but no longer have to...its not something to share with anyone who's not already someone you are extremely intimately acquainted with.
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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

I have heard some just love to have the

dolmio grin.
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awesomedebs   Woman 25yrs

I hate it

I just had exactly that problem....unexpected period....had to cancel a couple of dates...it just sucks...but I'm in a lot of pain too while I've got my period so it just wouldn't be enjoyable for me even if the guy doesn't mind.
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MsElle40   Woman 41yrs

Eeuwww!

Quoting 'Meeka100'
    dolmio grin.    


That is just so disgusting!!


A couple of months ago I was due to have a first date / dinner with a potential FWB. We had been chatting for ages and he seemed lovely. He had cheekily suggested on the morning of said date, that if all went well he knew what he would like for dessert. I joked that it was that time of the month so he might think twice about that! And so he did, and actually cancelled our date! Nice!!  :(


Leah 
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LittleRedEngine   Man 50yrs

Time for the red towel..

I'm not sure why people have a problem with period sex.  It does not bother me.

From what I can tell, a fair few women like it too..
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The_team   Couple Man 33yrs Woman 30yrs

This happens

I'm (male) surprised that this happens as much as it does. We have been cancelled on due to that week of the month, but we have also soft swapped with our regular couple during that time as well and its was still very hot.

I have always dated women who have been on the pill, and not just on the pill to prevent pregnancy but for all the other reasons that the pill can be used for. So an unexpected period was quite foreign to me before we joined the lifestyle.

Is it common for women not to be on the pill (or similar)?
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heywood_djablome

Cant say I would deliberately go there, knowing, but...

I have given up counting how many times I have poked my head up during oral, only to see a horrified look on her face as she is greeted by the Dolmio grin. Safe to say, I def do have my red wings.



Seriously tho, if it happens soon enough, then I can understand postponing, but not outright cancelling. If one has decided to go ahead and meet someone or a couple, then why outright cancel? Take a raincheck. Its not like one suddenly realised one has a transmittable disease. A lil communication, and most people would understand and make an alternate date.
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MsElle40   Woman 41yrs

Huh?

Quoting 'The_team'


Is it common for women not to be on the pill (or similar)?
   


You still get your period when on the pill......

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amuse_bouche  

Woman 23yrs

Stumped

Quoting 'The_team'
    I'm (male) surprised that this happens as much as it does. We have been cancelled on due to that week of the month, but we have also soft swapped with our regular couple during that time as well and its was still very hot.

I have always dated women who have been on the pill, and not just on the pill to prevent pregnancy but for all the other reasons that the pill can be used for. So an unexpected period was quite foreign to me before we joined the lifestyle.

Is it common for women not to be on the pill (or similar)?
   
Agreed -  I would have assumed a woman in a regular relationship would know when her period was about to commence and so can either, like you, do a 'soft swap' instead, do a social meet, or else just plan meets around the week. I'm generally a little stumped when I get this reason.

Personally, I'm as regular as clockwork, so I'll generally plan meets on other weeks and maybe have a purely social first meet on the week itself.
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jennylee1903   Woman 46yrs

I have a horrible time with my period.

It can last up to 2 and 1/2 weeks. I'll be getting a hysterectomy in 4 to 6 months.
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uneventful   Woman 56yrs

Myths and falacies

One .. Age is not always the saving grace here .. for some of US go into menopause very late ..

TWO .. The pill will only stop your monthly period if you take it continuously without taking the 7 inactive pills ..

THREE .. other forms of contraception might stop or minimize your periods .. Implanon / Depo Injections

FOUR .. BEPPY spongers are fantastic .. and suitable for all ages ..
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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

The pill


Quoting 'The_team'
     

I have always dated women who have been on the pill, and not just on the pill to prevent pregnancy but for all the other reasons that the pill can be used for. So an unexpected period was quite foreign to me before we joined the lifestyle.
But
Is it common for women not to be on the pill (or similar)?
   
I haven't been on the pill for about 7 years or so now... mainly because I can't be due to my high blood pressure. But I know lots of women who don't want to be on the pill if they are not in a regular relationship... and as you wear a condom when you a few partners,etc why bother with the pill? I don't know if that is the norm or not? But I wouldn't have thought it is that uncommon.

Meeka xx
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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

The dolmio grin

Well... men that are into that, I suppose that defeats the purpose of safe sex, well when it comes to Aids.

Never thought of that before. 

Meeka xx
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TonguEnCheek762

Keep comms open

We have run into this issue a couple of times now. The Mrs is not like clockwork in recent times. She's been up to a 4/5 five day on either side of the expected date. Needless to say it makes it troublesome when planning dates.

However, what we have done is gotten in touch with the couple we have set up a (first) date with and tell them the situation and say we are still open to meeting. Our free time is precious and if we have gone to the trouble of setting up a date then we'll do our best to keep it. We can at least meet the people and gauge whether or not we like them. Now the period gives an out if we meet and decide they aren't our cup of tea or it serves as a tension building device. Make the best out of a crappy situation.

Alternatively soft swap sex can be just as hot!
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The_team   Couple Man 33yrs Woman 30yrs

Really!!??? ........

Well thank you leah2601, Captain Obvious. I thank you for your input. What I meant was that you can better plan when you will get your period whilst on the pill. It seems if you are not on the pill it can come at different times. I do have a dear swinging friend who has valid reasons for not being on the pill but otherwise I figured it would be better to be on the poll as a swinger so as to have one less thing to worry about l.
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VivaCple   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 46yrs

early period, illness, etc


People can be disappointing -
you call, explain & then you suggest going out for drinks instead. You then get that hesitation & some excuse comes through not to go.
We just don't bother seeing them again.
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Miketheduc  

Man 53yrs

Domino

Quoting 'Meeka100'
dolmio grin.


Well I'm not a big fan of the domino grin especially if I have to break into a dodgy italian accent to get it....

Mike

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captainkaos   Man 40yrs

I don't mind.

As long as you mention it prior to having sex and giving the poor guy a shock when he pulls out and sees a red cock. lol.

 

It generally doesn't smell as good but certainly no reason to stop having sex for me anyway.

 

It does have the added benefit of more lubrication and I have found that the women tend to get hornier at that time as well.

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TheGeek   Man 28yrs

I usually let them choose.

Unless I am feeling particularly horrible, I will let whomever I am meeting know and let them decide what they want to do.

I use Implanon and my cycle is irregular and unreliable. Sometimes I have spotting for ten days, sometimes I 'bleed' like a stuck pig for a week. There can be anywhere between two weeks and two months inbetween cycles.

Before I was using Implanon my cycle ranged from 28 days to 32 days so even then I was never 100% sure when it would start. Also once it kicked in I was often in too much pain and discomfort to do anything other than stay in bed.

There are so many options now for pharmaceutical contraceptives that I imagine a lot of women no longer use the pill.

Cheers,
MS

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