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Mar 06, 2010
ShinyShiny   Woman 48yrs

OK I had a situation last night I need some advice.

I was happily spending the evening with Mr RHP ReasonablyNew (couple of months). We're pretty open with each other and neither is backward in coming forward with what we want or obliging the others desires much to both of our delight!  So it's all cool - or so I thought.

So heading south with my mouth I noticed something unusual.  It was the smell of him - the taste of him, his skin  - especially his cock and balls. He smelled and tasted like a different guy. It was surprising - and to tell you the truth not pleasant really - a bit sour, but being a trooper I proceeded with the BJ, the fucking, the POG, the showers, the dressing, the going out for drinks and the dinner. 

During the start of round two (several hours later after returning from restaurant) I asked him if he had been "taking any supplements or eating anything unusual" in the last couple of days, as he tasted "different" to normal (to tell you the truth I wasn't that keen on going down there again), I knew he had been training pretty hard at the Gym recently hence the question about the supplements. He asked "how different? " and I said, "....a bit sour."

Well there I was thinking we were having an open and honest conversation and he got really really upset with me saying I embarrassed him, I was being rude etc etc.  Anyway it caused a huge sulk and a flagging of his hardon.  Once i realised how upset this had made him I was horrified that I had been so insensitive (although unintentionally) and apologised profusely.  Made no difference tho, he was disengaged and sulky for a few hours so I sent him home with both of us upset and frustrated!  (Baggage?)

Can anyone give me some advice on how better to handle this type of situation in the future and any comment on whether he was being oversensitive or was I being insensitive?  Perhaps a combo of both?  What should I have done - just not say anything? Surely that can't be the answer?

Shiny

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ShinyShiny   Woman 48yrs

Thanks

Thanks for everyone's comments and suggestions - just to clarify:

It's a friday

He is with me after work

Thats when I notice something's not right - smell, taste...yes Random it MAY BE another woman, it did cross my mind.

Then he leaves to head home to shower, change and return to pick me up for dinner

I also shower, change and await his return

All good, we head out to dinner, return to mine, I go down there again....and the same result - somethin's off. 

So my view is it's not another woman - unless he had her at work and then in the hour he was absent (unlikely?) he had her again before returning to me.  It's probably something he ate/took/drank/indulged in.

Anyway.....since then things haven't quite been the same but happily open minded and working on it.

Thanks again guys and lovely ladies for contributing to my thread

Shiny x

Apr 07, 2010 Report Abuse  |   Reply with Quote  |   Reply Reply Post
ob1983

Hmmm

This happened to me when I went through a period of quite intense training while I was seeing a girl. I had showered and everything and her exact words were 'you smell like jizz'. If your body is in a consistent state of ketosis (usually from extensive exercise and training) the acids and other 'stuff' from it can come through your pores. Your body is effectively removing crap from itself through your skin. That being said he should probably should have a shower. I'm quite anally retentive about hygeine, I would not wish the same upon myself therefore i always wash (unless told not to =D) If he has had a shower.. well... you're out of luck :D
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sexycountrycpl   Couple Man 33yrs Woman 33yrs

maybe it is you not him...

Maybe it could also be were you are in your cycle effecting what your body is looking for and likely in a partner on a biological sense. Or your feeling for him have changed (not for the better it seems) or your body has gotten over him because he has not got you pregnant again with the biological stuff but women's bodies are design to get us pregnant and finding a suitable father for those children.
I know when I have ovulated I love the smell of my husband but just before my period even though I want sex the smell of him is not as big of a turn on.

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ShinyShiny   Woman 48yrs

Follow up

Well whatever it was......me or him....it's gone now, and it's all yum again, at least for now. 

Thanks guys!

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