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Aug 29, 2010
taby001

I need some advice from my fellow RHP friends. 

I have just started chatting with a new guy 2 days ago & I was quite surprised to find that we have an instant connection. I have never clicked with someone the way I clicked with this man. We have gotten along so well we have already made plans to meet in 2 weeks time & we already talk regularly on web cam & the phone after only 2 days of chatting online. 

This guy is generally interested in getting to know about me as he asks many questions and has quite a sense of humour. However I am a bit confused as he has not once made any move to talk about anything sexual & we did meet on a sex site. He has not once complimented me on my looks or that he even finds me sexually attractive. But he does say he is very much attracted to my personality and sense of humour.

He is a bit older than the age of guys I usually go for being 36 & I am wondering if this might have something to do with him being a gentleman and not wanting to talk about sex? He has also mentioned he is a bit wary of the fact there is such an age gap between us but insists he has never connected with someone instantly before & so he will overlook my age.

I am very confused about this, and was wondering if someone could give in an insight into what it means!

Taby xx 

P.S - I am sorry if no paragraphs show up, I did put them in but my laptop & web connection has been playing up of late.

Sep 16, 2010 Report Abuse  |   Reply with Quote  |   Reply Reply Post
NevandKj

I think that may be the problem

Sweet, she isn't dating, just doing sex.



Cheers Nev.....but what would i know.....just a bloke!

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Total_Recall   Man 28yrs

orly?

Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010'
                                 
Quoting 'NevandKj'

Sweet, she isn't dating, just doing sex.



Cheers Nev.....but what would i know.....just a bloke!

Yeah , you're right Nev, she wants to be at least dating not just a QF. Sorry, seemed like i missed the point but i do understand. The right one will find his way to you Tabs, RHP or not. YOu don't actually have to do anything, he'll just show up when the time is right xxxx


                               
or I wont and I'll be the one who gets to be chased
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sydneyboy3au   Man 32yrs

ya'rly!

Quoting 'NevandKj'
not for what you can get out of her!
huh? I thought it was what they could put int.... oh... no I see what you were saying now.

(can you tell I'm having a bored at home night?)


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murphy_green

nice guys

Quoting 'NevandKj'

To give up on finding something of a little substance at your tender age.


So where are the guys on Rhp (in Taby's age range) that would  love to just hold her hand, spend the night just talking about everything and nothing, having a few laughs, being there for her when she's hurting, give her a big hug and a soft kiss on the forehead, going out and having a few laughs. All because you enjoy the person that she is, and value every moment you get to share with her, not for what you can get out of her!


So c'mon fellas ......or are you all wolves in sheeps clothing!



Cheers Nev

*raises hand* I would like to believe I'm a decent guy, raised well by my mother to believe in treating a woman with respect and honour. Too bad there are so many guys out there my age that dont do the same. Like I say "Chivalry isnt dead, its just really hard to find"
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getroxoff   Woman 28yrs

hmm

Maybe try sites like Oasis babe
Sep 20, 2010 Report Abuse  |   Reply with Quote  |   Reply Reply Post
bjuice44

Easy

Not every guy on here wants to come across as a sex fiend....especially if he has found a girl he's really attracted to.
If you were a guy lucky enough to find a real connection, the last hing you would want to do is blow it all by telling them what you would like to do to them behind closed doors.....even if you can't get the thought out of your head ;)
Much better to actually show them in person :)
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hipknotic

Don't give up !

Hey I'm an older guy & no it's not just all about sex ! I don't just talk about sex at the start, I like to be a gentleman ! And although I had a few relationships, I love to wine & dine & enjoy my partners in & out of the bedroom ! That makes life fun, esp getting to know someone , so hang in there! Some of us guys are decent & trustworthy !
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75depravedcpl79

gentleman

He is being a gentleman, and cautious, we have all heard the stories from women, who tell us about guys who are too forward, assume that the women they talk to are on the same page, and the resulting discust they feel towards the guy. He does not want this, so for a while he will be testing the waters, you may want to lead for a while.

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