HiDii - Thanks hon...I love your look too xox.
Bris - Awwww, thanks lovey! Will let you know when we decide to bite the bullet and give it a go :)
BJ - Happy Birthday gorgeous! Oh, I would have soooo loved to have gone to your birthday night and had a jelly shot with you! Already have plans for boxing day though :( Hope you have a wonderfully fantastic night MWAH xox
i would like to go one but my partners (female) is a bit well scared and its understandable as well
as a guy you can realy only ask other guys about swingers clubs and just about everyone off them will say they have been to one. but realy have they? the only reason why my partner is scared is because she thinks that she will be pretty much "live meat" to guys in there i hope this isnt the case
apart from this forum i wish there a few people that we could talk to instead off the suck it and type off attitude
cheers p
Salandy we have spoken b4 and you have given me a fantastic run down on the whole swingers scene...i told u initially "nah clubs just are not our thing" without ever having stepped foot inside one...to which you decidedly kept ur mouth shut on the subject until curiosity got the better of me and you obliged in giving me a rundown on the whole idean using CI as the club in question....
I think everyone who has never spoken about or been to a club has similar ideas to what i had previously (seedy old men in dark corners, no choices, having to have sex just because you entered the club not to mention having to do it with whoever and in a seporate room from my man, still the comic idea of everyone being blindfolded and throwing their car keys in a hat style) to talk to Salandy and now reading this post. Still i havnt had th chance to venture to CI or any other club for that matter but as opposed to our thoughts of "no clubs just are not our thing" to "hmmmm.....cant wait to get a chance to go and check it out"! so i guess its all about talking to and perhaps even tagging along with the right ppl...
So we hope to see you there soon!
kisses
thats a great offer guys. hope who ever is lucky enought to recive your offer has a ball
xxxx mrs bal
I've been to events held by 5 different groups here in South East Queensland and the only thing I can really say is just how completely different they have all been.
CI and Liasonz are the only ones I've been to multiple times. Understandably they are the ones I would recommend. I went to CI a lot more because it is more convenient for me and I feel really appreciated as a single guy there. There are quite a few groups that have the mentality of the single guys being a cash cow. Obviously I avoid these.
I think that because CI respects its single men is a large part of the reason that the single men are so respectful there. Even when I attended one of their hardcore nights the guys were still far more respectful than anywhere else I've been. The other part is that there is a bit of screening and you do really feel (for the first few times) that you need to be on your best behaviour! It's not so much because you'll 'get in trouble' but more because you don't want to disappoint Leesa and Bryan. They are both such nice, welcoming people that I'd feel terrible to let them down.
You also feel a bit 'special' because you have been selected. This boosted my confidence dramatically. I really do thank you guys for that.
We have been going to CI for many years now & as we have a young family its hard to get out but when we want to get out for a great night we always go to CI we have made some great friends there & its always great to see them & make new ones. We would rather go their instead of a night club were you have stupid drunken people around, & with CI we can be ourselves with other like minded couples.
I love to dress up & we love Fucking out in the open if we do on the night so we always have a great time, I will admitt when we went for the first time I was very nervous not sure what to expect but Brain & Leesa made us feel very welcomed & it is by no means what you would think, its just great people having a great time & if you want to play you do but if not well don't, but believe me you will have fun & most likely play (Whats wrong with that it very exciting).
We always recomend CI to people that are looking to explore & have fun .
Cheers
I first started on the swingers scene just over a month ago, a old FB took me to mike's place in west end. i was so nervouse and for about 3 weeks after i still had a few nerves. there still always are when you first walk in. i found mike's place so friendly and down to earth but after a drink or 2 it felt like home, absolutley loved it.
2 weeks later checked out another club in brisbane and i instantly hated it, they let in way too many single guys and most of them were 40 - 60 creepy and not very nice on the eye. (no offence) walked in and felt like i was at a house party and it was creepy knowing that i was only 1 of 3 young girls around and had the entire room looking at me whispering (felt like school again)
Havnt been to CI yet but as mikes has closed down will definaltey be checking it out in the next few weeks as i would hate for my experince to end so soon after stumbling upon it. Since discovering the swingers club scene i have stopped going to nightclubs, sick of all the games one plays to get laid these days. So far (except for once) it has been great, could walk in and didnt have to play although by the end of the night i was very well known :)
It was definatley a shock when i realised how clean and proffessional yet down to earth and relaxed everything was. people seemed to know everyone and they made me feel relaxed once i got a drink and sat down with a few people