I have been struggling to get past the intial "chatting" stage with people on here. Why is it that girls seem to change their minds once I have sent them a face photo of me? I don't think I am unattractive. Maybe not photogenice, but I'm certinly not ugly. I am not willing to post what I look like as my profile picture, as to avoid time wasters. How can you establish if girls are genuine and actually want to take things further? Is it this city or is it just me?
I can tell u i have the same trouble mate. i live in South australia. And i can tell you it is this city mate.
I travel to NSW bout 5 time,s a year and i put a add in when i know im going over there n the area im going and i dont have any trouble meeting ladie,s forwineing n dining to sex.
So it is definitly this state mate.
Hey... there are some of us out there! :PIt is hard though, I know that each time I log on I have a million flirts and messages to wade through, and honestly, I delete most without reading. anyone over 30 gets deleted, and profiles without a picture get deleted. and then we have to deal with the lovely messages that start with "i've got nine inches.. wanna ride?" . You cant blame us girls for being a bit wary, and like i said.. some of us out there are genuine people...
i know wat you mean.. my wife has a single profile and is bombarded by flirts/messages. If your are geninue let them find you. Well thats what i am trying now and will only send out a flirt if they really catch my eye!!!
till next time
scott
Hey there
Yes I do agree that there are a lot of woman who are fake on here and are prick teasers but not all of them. We lived in sydney and found the same too, they would want to meet then change at the last minute, we have found better luck with men and some couples. Last weekend my hubby and I flew a lady that we had played with in sydney to come to adelaide as we have not found any here either, we also found qld to be the same.
I think they are finding hard to go to the next level which some of them I understand and I guess men are easier ( sorry guys) as they arent picky and will not fault others for the same issues. But dont be disheartened as their are geniune girls out there just that you havent found them yet. I dont think its you as I have looked at your profile and it is not bad.
tam
I agree with all of you. I've stopped caring so much and started letting fate take its course.
I have been on couples proiles with partners before and we had so many couples and singles who wouldn't meet in public first or wouldn't meet at all it wasn't funny. Such a drag that the only people who are dead set serious only want to fuck immediatley with no social interaction first. Can it be so hard to share a drink and a chat before maybe sharing some pleasure.
j_lamb, I would love to speak to you if you are interested...