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Feb 04, 2012
The_team  

Couple Man 32yrs Woman 29yrs
RHP should have a section like eBay where it outs people who stand others up. Not a 'roast' section but somewhere you can say 'these people stood us up and it's rude'.
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playfulminx   Woman 36yrs

Too scary

I think with eBay there's not a lot of grey areas so you can do the negative feedback thing. If someone sent you a broken tape recorder, but said that it was in perfect condition when you bid for it, you can use the broken tape recorder as evidence. Even then, the seller can say that it was in good condition before posting.

The thing with eBay is that the seller can provide their side of the story if they receive a negative feedback. You'd have to have the same thing on RHP. It would go like this:

GorgeousCouple324 - "SexyCouple768 did not show up to an agreed date. We waited an hour before leaving. They did not contact us to explain what happened."
SexyCouple768 - "We actually did turn up at the agreed time but as soon as we saw them, it was obvious that they have aged considerably since their profile photos were taken and packed 20kg on each too at the same time. We left as we were led to believe they were gorgeous."

It can get ugly and very nasty. I'd rather focus on the positive feedback people get on here and go with that :|
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Stalky

Oh lord.

Can you just imagine the whining cat fights? Bring it on! Hehe. Maybe it could be like hot or not where people are starred just like on eBay... lol. I can see it now ...Package 5 stars... Delivery 2 stars... Goods as expected 3 stars... punctuation, grammar and spelling (lol) 4 stars ... comment: premature delivery but perfect package. Would you meet this Pie again? Yes, with a novocaine spray. Hugs Stalky
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DeliciousCplBris  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 41yrs

8 times!!

I've been stood up by single men - I WISH there was a rating system!
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stonebudda   Man 26yrs

grrrrr....

Was Stood up tonight

its the no answer that annoys me more then anything else. u know a small txt saying you can make it of what ever excuse u use but dont leave us to drive somewhere and wait like muppets..
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Enzo_5L   Man 34yrs

???

Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris'
I've been stood up by single men - I WISH there was a rating system!
Serious???
Maybe they were too intimidated. Don't know. But really, why would a guy miss out on a chance
to spend time with a ridiculously hot couple? Beats me

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tuscanred   Woman 59yrs

scarlet women

 

Ladies and guys set up your own network system.

 

Go have coffee with people , its worked for us.

This does not mean you say any negatives about anyone, you only say if they turned up.

 

Also its not about the no show only, its just about please contact if you do not want to meet.

Even if people are not like their pictures, and I have seen that already. You do not have to do the drive bye or not have manners to let people know you are not coming. Meet them and say sorry I am not interested.

 

The Scarlet women’s group helps women to know that a man is reliable. We do not say that man is a good root etc. as that’s relative to the women he is with. You can say I enjoyed being with that person. We always get permission of the male first, before we let other women know what he is like. Only one so far has declined, the others rather like the idea.

Its a good way to weed out those people that text, write but do not call ever. If a person does not ring you, and makes apt only by text,I do not bother. It could be a ten year old.

 

If a person talks all the time but then seems to always have something come up just before a meeting, warning Will Robinson. Give them two chances and the second,then no more chatter.

If a person has contacted all the women in the group and never showed up to one meeting, what does that tell you?

 

My favourites are the multi people profile, you know one person writes the other calls, two boys or more having fun in the uni dorm.

 

Networking off line is your only way of knowing and it helps women to be a little safer I think.



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victoriahh   Woman 51yrs

Me too

I've been stood up and given the run around to.  But unfortunately it's just part of life and dealing with people in general. I don't get too bothered about I just forget about them and move on.  I'm a scarlet woman and it's great.  I've met some awsome friends and it's nice to get another womans perspective on the whole dating scene bit.  It has nothing to do with bagging any one it's simply to let women know, this person is real, safe, polite, clean etc.  I totally agree with tuscanred.
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ChasingMidnight

Hell yeah...

...and just for the record, you just 'stood me up' and all I did was look at your profile!

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Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris'
I WISH there was a rating system!

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★★★★★

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Damn, if you aren't five star...I don't know what is! 

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wowwow11   Man 39yrs

Holy Smoke

What Bloke in thier right mid would Stand up DelCplBris... Bloody hell i thought the list would be a MILE LONG
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xFunlovingx  

Woman 51yrs

Surely....

I am not the only one that has never been stood up? Or stood anyone up?

.

I agree with PlayfulMinx 100% too...it can get ugly and it depends on the "truth"...What is that saying?...you get the story from both sides and in between you will find the truth? I have met a couple of guys that looked nothing like their pics (one was soooo much more yummy and the other, it wasn't even him in the pic) and just said to the latter..."No thanks" and walked away! I had in my earlier days when I first joined met a guy that was 20 years older and 60kg's heavier than his pic...and also said "No thanks" and walked away. These to me are the real timewasters...if you don't portray who you really are...then don't expect a positive outcome.

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I have seen the Delicious's on cam and they are a hot couple...how in the hell any bloke would stand her up is beyond me...my only thought is that these guys do not portray who they really are or they are sitting around with their mates with 3" dicks in hand (each others) and say "look what I stood up"? I have also seen alot of people on cam that look nothing like their profile pics (males, females and couples) and shake my head and wonder if they really think that noone can notice the difference!

xFunlovingx

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jennylee1903   Woman 45yrs

I've been stood up

...by a lady who had just gone through a break up and thought she would like to try being adventurous. I was to be her first bisexual experience. She was a no show and I was disappointed but I don't harbour any ill will towards her and I definitely don't want to make it hard for her if she wants to try again with someone else. No, I would not be in favour of such a negative format. Let's keep RHP friendly. Well, at least as far as we can. God knows there's enough hostility here on the forums to keep fight fans entertained.
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DeliciousCplBris  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 41yrs

Thanks

Thanks for the lovely comments, you made this old bird feel fabulous :) Chasing midnite that was so sweet x thank you Chilli, I'd be a terrible root, your not missing much :) I'm far from perfect but I do not muck people around , (  actually I did once , but it was a legit babysitting fail, and he was texted within 2 hours of our supposed meet) When we say we will show up , we do. Couples have been great, it's the single men who let us down ( and it's not just me , many many swinging couples have the same dilemma ) Frustrating beyond belief ! No idea why but a few said they chickened out at the last minute !
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jamedean   Man 36yrs

DeliciousCplBris I'd be a terrible root, your not missing much ..........

Yeah right........Being one who reads the forms but not one for writing in them or validations or friends.  I had to say something.  Delicious you are far from an old bird, and so glad to of made the early morning run.  I was one of the lucky ones who showed up and still grinning like a little kid in a candy store.  Those who did the no show,  what idiots. 

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TonguEnCheek762   Couple Man 26yrs Woman 24yrs

Swinger's small playground

We too have felt the sting of being stood up. The amount of planning and money spent to get ourselves there made it even more frustrating.

Obviously the situation for the single people on this site is different from the couples, but we're finding that the swinging community in Sydney is fairly small. Most of the people we have met, have met (or at least messaged) the same couples. Did that make sense? So that being said if one couple stands another up, it will eventually spread through word of mouth that a particular couple is not reliable.

We feel your pain 'The Team' :(
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wowwow11   Man 39yrs

Stood up or just Propped

I too was stood up once...That Dam Bourbon kept making me fall down
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Ctowntwo   Couple Man 29yrs Woman 31yrs

What goes around.

On here we have networked with a bunch of couples and have no problem telling our friends who doesn't show up, which "couple" only ever offers to come out as a single male only, who has wasted our time with a million emails only to stuff around and be vague and annoying, those who were just rude and those with zero people skills but clearly love themselves. We don't care about the attached stigma or weird moral high ground people pretend they take on this and other sites. People talk, end of story. And if people don't want to ruin Thier chances, if they don't want to be known as jerks, they won't act like jerks. Pretty simple. People on these sites are pretty dense if they think people don't talk with each other and know each other. If we are friends then we have got your back. That's what friends do. So what goes around always comes around.
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DeliciousCplBris  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 41yrs

James

.......nothing like a horny naked woman asking for you to say nothing just fuck her :) Thanks for fulfilling a fantasy for me , and for showing up !!
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lmfao12   Man 25yrs

Common courtesy!

This thread raises a valued point! Allot if people just like the attention and have no intention of ever meeting! Everyone has been stood up or had someone pull out.... It's the nature of the beast. The best way to mitigate this I feel is to actually talk to the person prior to meeting them. Texting and emailing isn't personal.. But a phone call although not entirely personal, often puts the person your meeting at ease :).
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jamedean   Man 36yrs

Delicious

What happened to a coffee or meet and greet first or dinner.... i am not a peace of meet you know lol.  Oh and you did say something " hi"  when i turned up, so the fantasy was not fulfilled properly.  May i suggest that we try it again lol.

 

Is it wrong to flirt in forums?

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mikeandshel   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 51yrs

lol

we've been 'stood up' as well..... and for the record .....100% of them were attached or married ..... the lesson we learnt was to make sure we only play with singles...and that they host...and it works.....makes our potential playmates fewer in numbers.but thats completely ok, as this is an 'extra'...an adjunct to an already satisfying and adventurous relationship.... we always found it much easier to say 'no', if there was even a shadow of a doubt. and if that changed....it was always a good thing.
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