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Aug 12, 2012
SirMick
So the last few months has seen my life completely fall on it's ass, leaving me with nothing but to pick myself up and renew everything about myself.

Just in dot form:
-Lost out businesses offices thanks to a sneaky business owner who took our security deposits and fled the country.
-As a result, lost our employees not long after
-My 'life partner' was depressed before this started happening, I had no idea why or how to fix it.
-Found her sneaking around with my house mate and was made to believe it was to help her depression out.
-Soon after found out she'd "fallen in love with our house mate"
-Felt so betrayed I lost my shit verbally, which ended up with me being arrested for doing things I am not proud of. No one was ever going to get hurt, but I sometimes feel like someone definitely deserve to.
-Police officer put an intervention on me
-Almost lost the business and had to refund many people.

and so on...

So my question/statement would be whats the best way to find some nice lady friends? Am I on the right site? :)

I only ask because I was so devoted to this woman that I completely paid no attention to any other females almost, and have just realized that my friend circle is basically a huge sausage-fest haha.

It's my first post here, so be nice =)
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tuscanred   Woman 60yrs

Unresolved issues

Are not addressed on RHP

 

Get your shit together offline first.

 

Ass for women, your in a band so just pluck up that one in the front row , who is swaing to the band and sucking her alco pop straw like she thinks its your dick

 

apart from that , well sure make friends off here

 

I mean female friends that you do not need to stick your cock in and get some clues would help

before you dive into the deep end of RHP pussy land.

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tuscanred   Woman 60yrs

eohh yeah

and if I get a clue spell check is my friend....
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Hesione

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a man with a tape measurex Hugs H
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Waterbabes   Couple Man 35yrs Woman 32yrs

Wow, you've been to hell and back....

If you are looking for a good time, then you are in the right place However, this can be a roller coaster too so perhaps make sure the milkshake in your tummy has settled a little otherwise things could get messy. XXX
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MissSarahCurious   Woman 34yrs

Depends how you look at it

Some people think finding someone to fuck is going to take them from a negative place to being happy. The thing is, when you're done fucking and they've gone home you're back to where you were before - alone with your thoughts. It can become a bit of a vicious cycle if you only do it to snatch a bit of good feeling out of an otherwise low period.

I prefer to fuck someone when I'm in a good mood, if I find myself enjoying their company and having fun, the sex is a continuation of that good time, that way afterward I can look back on it as an enjoyable evening rather than just a distraction from negative thoughts and feelings.

xx Sarah
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Zsuza69   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 35yrs

ahhh Sir Mick

You just described my (Mr Zsuza)  life about 6-7 years ago.
I too lost my business, house, wife, family all to a couple of bad decisions and the snowball effect to hold and sent me onto the downhill rollercoaster of life.
What i did however is picked myself up took back control of my life and didnt worry about having another woman in my life for a while and then somehow stumbled onto Mrs Zsuza. i wasnt on any site at that time it just happened like fate.
My advice to you would be forget about RHP for a while until you have sorted out your business and in particular your mind.
If you came in here to find a life partner i say forget it your here for the wrong reason. RHP is for fun and having great sex with great people if any negativity is shown look out lol
If your looking for a good time with no strings then yes stay on rhp but leave your problems out of here.
If your looking for a life partner find her outside of RHP and then bring her into rhp for extra fun for everyone.
I know there are alot of single women on RHP but are they looking for a life partner???? i'm not sure but one would think not but i could be wrong.
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LittleRedEngine   Man 50yrs

Mate you're young so it's no biggie

Provided you're not riddled with debt you'll rebuild in no time.

Oh and women?  It's pointless looking, they seems to just come along out of the blue when you're least expecting them.  It's a patience game.

This is a bad place to fix your self, but a fine place to flirt and make your self available :-)
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wowwow11   Man 40yrs

get ya cock out

Your 29      shit hasnt happened YET

 

 

and just saying its Not always someelses Fault

 

Sit down , Belt Up and Hang On  RHP can be a fucking awesome ride

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SirMick

Cheers Krissy

Quoting 'Krissy_G'
   

:)

Im finding you interesting.

xx

Krissy

But seriously. I think you have a mind that is quite extradinary and it will be very interesting to see how you progress.

   

Haha Thanks Krissy!
I'm not letting the sitch get the best of me, I'm channeling my rage over everything into loosing weight and winning all round! =)


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SirMick

Indeed!

Quoting 'Waterbabes'
    If you are looking for a good time, then you are in the right place However, this can be a roller coaster too so perhaps make sure the milkshake in your tummy has settled a little otherwise things could get messy. XXX    
Haha of course! That's all I'm here for. Life partners I'm sure would not seriously come here ;)
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SirMick

Cheers!

Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'
    Some people think finding someone to fuck is going to take them from a negative place to being happy. The thing is, when you're done fucking and they've gone home you're back to where you were before - alone with your thoughts. It can become a bit of a vicious cycle if you only do it to snatch a bit of good feeling out of an otherwise low period.

I prefer to fuck someone when I'm in a good mood, if I find myself enjoying their company and having fun, the sex is a continuation of that good time, that way afterward I can look back on it as an enjoyable evening rather than just a distraction from negative thoughts and feelings.

xx Sarah
   
Cheers Sez, only here for fun, I've got plenty of great friends around me who have come out of the works to help :)
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SirMick

Band time

Quoting 'tuscanred'
   

Are not addressed on RHP

 

Get your shit together offline first.

 

Ass for women, your in a band so just pluck up that one in the front row , who is swaing to the band and sucking her alco pop straw like she thinks its your dick

 

apart from that , well sure make friends off here

 

I mean female friends that you do not need to stick your cock in and get some clues would help

before you dive into the deep end of RHP pussy land.

   
Yeah, looking forward to getting back on stage and playing Granted Death. A song about the first time it happened that I forgave. So much hate/anger/aggression in the song, I love it!

FYI the guys name was grant. ;)
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SirMick

Got a bit of debt, but...

Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'
    Provided you're not riddled with debt you'll rebuild in no time.

Oh and women?  It's pointless looking, they seems to just come along out of the blue when you're least expecting them.  It's a patience game.

This is a bad place to fix your self, but a fine place to flirt and make your self available :-)
   
Cheers bro, I do have some debt, but once I get to the stage I'm aiming for, its going to be quite laughable.

Be doing a job that would be able to 1/4 pay it off instantly very soon. (Just from profits :)

But you're right they seem to come out of the blue


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SirMick

Totally

Quoting 'wowwow11'
   

Your 29      shit hasnt happened YET

 

 

and just saying its Not always someelses Fault

 

Sit down , Belt Up and Hang On  RHP can be a fucking awesome ride

   
Understandable, but surely it can't get worse, maybe along the same lines sure. I don't think I've ever hit rock bottom like that before. I feel so fucking strong 2 weeks after it though!
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SirMick

Awesome work mate =)

Quoting 'Zsuza69'
    You just described my (Mr Zsuza)  life about 6-7 years ago.
I too lost my business, house, wife, family all to a couple of bad decisions and the snowball effect to hold and sent me onto the downhill rollercoaster of life.
What i did however is picked myself up took back control of my life and didnt worry about having another woman in my life for a while and then somehow stumbled onto Mrs Zsuza. i wasnt on any site at that time it just happened like fate.
My advice to you would be forget about RHP for a while until you have sorted out your business and in particular your mind.
If you came in here to find a life partner i say forget it your here for the wrong reason. RHP is for fun and having great sex with great people if any negativity is shown look out lol
If your looking for a good time with no strings then yes stay on rhp but leave your problems out of here.
If your looking for a life partner find her outside of RHP and then bring her into rhp for extra fun for everyone.
I know there are alot of single women on RHP but are they looking for a life partner???? i'm not sure but one would think not but i could be wrong.
   
I know what ya mean mate, I'm picking myself up too, I'm all into the motivational shit and the "for things to change, first I must" stuff. I'm doing that now.

Def not here for the life partner, my requirements for one would be too strict to be able to know by looking at a half profile hehehe
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SirMick

Of course! hehe

Quoting 'beachbelle'
    So do you need any groupies SirMick?    
How could I say no to that? haha

Cant wait to get back on stage! Everybody will be shouting Knightmare once more ;)
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neptune_drift   Man 29yrs

Ok

So I'm officially making this one of my favourite threads I've read on here. Not for your crappy situation, which is rubbish, but for the ensuing montage of psych-ups and good-will that's flowed on from it! The internal voice I've given you in my head is Rex's from Napoleon Dynamite*.

Conventional wisdom is exactly what tuscanred says: if you've got more issues than a subscription to Who Weekly, get them sorted first and for the love of Springer don't bring them up here. Yet reading your responses, I feel like if 'conventional wisdom' tried to hold you back you'd give it a roundhouse kick, and perform a rockin' axe solo over its limp and prostrate body!

Rock on, my good sir. I'm sure you'll do just fine

Drift

*Here's a mind-blow for y'all. Deb from Napoleon Dynamite is the little girl from Waterworld. Whoa, right?!
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SirMick

Profile unavailable

Quoting 'beachbelle'
    So do you need any groupies SirMick?    
Cant get on to your profile because it says its unavailable?? Maybe send me a PM first and i'll respond. No gigs planned JUST yet, our bassist is over in America right now getting his triple cheese bacon sandwiches on!


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SirMick

Haha!

Quoting 'neptune_drift'
    So I'm officially making this one of my favourite threads I've read on here. Not for your crappy situation, which is rubbish, but for the ensuing montage of psych-ups and good-will that's flowed on from it! The internal voice I've given you in my head is Rex's from Napoleon Dynamite*.

Conventional wisdom is exactly what tuscanred says: if you've got more issues than a subscription to Who Weekly, get them sorted first and for the love of Springer don't bring them up here. Yet reading your responses, I feel like if 'conventional wisdom' tried to hold you back you'd give it a roundhouse kick, and perform a rockin' axe solo over its limp and prostrate body!

Rock on, my good sir. I'm sure you'll do just fine

Drift

*Here's a mind-blow for y'all. Deb from Napoleon Dynamite is the little girl from Waterworld. Whoa, right?!
   
Haha, I think you've got the right idea mate ;)

I kind of felt like I had bi-polar at first getting back to the powerful self that I am at heart, the way i did. =D
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redjuno   Woman 42yrs

MISSFRIDA

are you healthy?
thats all it matters
.same situation last year, on top tried to commit suicide , got two little ones, no good!!! put myself together again and I found a great man on the site !!! not everyone here is looking for just a shag, I wasnt I  never had problem to find a man, just not right one.I am sure that everything else can be fix, the finances is just one of them, and for the mean ladies here who tell you that you should not come here before putting your shit together, just ignore them, you sound real and genuine, even here you can find genuine people, the problem in this time and in this society is nobody cares anymore, when in mental hospital for a week met real people real issues, I make crafts out of anything, did dreadlocks for others , bracelets, and all sorts of things , at the end of the week with speeches and a card signed by everyone even tears they said thanks to me.
I said 'i DID NOTHING " AND THEY REPLIED yOU DID  " YOU CARE ABOUT US " .  in this moment an smile a genuine hug from a friend , just sit down and talk helps,.BIG HUG from someone real, caring and genuine.
Paulina

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