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Jun 10, 2012
Offthebat   Woman 40yrs
Ok, so you find a guy on here that you are attracted to, send a message offering a night of NSA hot foreplay and sex..................., you even give him your phone number......................, BUT he totally ignores you!!??!!?? I don't get it!! I can't just jump into bed with any guy, there has to be an attraction, I've had 8 messages and 20 flirts in 24 hours and the only one I'm attracted to totally voids me:-((((
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Jazzxoxo

I'm hearing you honey....

They say its a woman's world on here....something like 6 men to every woman ???  WTF ???

I too have experienced messaging / flirting a guy only to be rejected.....or ignored.

It seems they have the final say.....not us women.

I am polite and try to answer every message / flirt I get but not the same can be said of the guys on here.

I don't get it.....probably never will.
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QLDtwo4fun   Couple Man 52yrs Woman 41yrs

That's Internet sex

Not every one on this site is really looking to actually play.    And I guess many of the 'single' guys here are not really single.  Given guys on this site outnumber girls, hang in there I'm sure you'll find someone.
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MsVelvetblue

The Mystery of Man

Ah...they both repulse and fascinate us....

 

God only knows whats going thru the poor blokes head, but trust me...you will truly never know...you have more chance of cracking the Riddle of the Sphinx or solving the eternal question of Is there life on other planets ??

 

.....look his probably just playing hard to get..and look its working, cause you've started  a forum about hime  which could attract his attention...so you have two choices..keep on chasing him..or alternatively...give him the flick and move on...as you can see 27 other bokes think your hot...and worth the effort....so let that be your salvation..

 

Have fun..

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Hesione

NSA

Men tend to be very visual,you give then nothing to look at,no face,no boobs,no butt.May be the reason,but as QLD24fun says,there are lots of men here,just wait.x Hugs H
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Offthebat   Woman 40yrs

Thanks girls:-))

Actually I've tried to put a pic on here (took a great face/cleavage shot) but it won't let me upload whatsoever - still working on it:-)
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ruby_blossum   Woman 54yrs

You may be attracted to him.....

but maybe he is "just not that into you"
Quite simple really.
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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

Someone better will come along

yep... typical isn't it!


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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

.

Don't take it personally though. His loss.
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feloniusfossil

Ok

If I have this right, you have'nt been on the site too long.

So lets start with the simplest thing first.


1/  Has he read your message?


2/  Some guys can find that women doing the hunting can be a  little intimidating.


3/ Now he's got you, he doesn't know what to do with you, some guys are pretty good at talking themselves up I think.


4/ He just hasn't had time to get back to you yet.


5/ Like the girls have stated.




Cheers Felonius

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Offthebat   Woman 40yrs

Ok

1. I gather he's read it because he's looked at my profile 2. I'm a typical hunter by nature, never been a gatherer! 3. I can give him plenty of suggestions of what to do with me;-) 4. *sighs* men are their own worst enemy at times!! 5. I know it's easy to say next (& I have done it before) but not this one.
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Running scared?

One further.  You're attracted to him, so you've seen what he looks like. Has he seen what you look like?  There are no photos on your profile. It might be that you have sent him a message offering NSA sex, and he hadn't even seen what you look like.  I expect that would be a little full- on for most. It might have put him off thinking you expect him to jump anyone just because they offer it up on a silver platter!
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Grabby

maybe

He's 'over promised' and now realises that all that's left is for him to 'under deliver' ......stranger things have happened on RHP
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wannabyummymummy   Woman 36yrs

my guess is

like Hesione says guys like to see who they are talking to (as do us girls mostly)

For me, a guy or couple with no pics is going to pretty much get a 'no thanks' reply for most when you read through profiles they will tell you, "no pics means no reply"

You state on your profile that you are "ample" put that with the no pic thing and this guy is probably conjuring up all types of images of what he THINKS you look like. Fact is you are probably of average size (us girls tend to think we are larger than we are anyway) and very attractive so put a few decent pics up, keep face shots for PG if you are worried about privacy and maybe you will have a better shot.
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50zcool

Not at all !

Quoting 'Meeka100'
    yep... typical isn't it!


   
Not typical at all, most woman won't do anything pro active at all, Kudos to you for sending the message !

Qld guys get with the program, damsel in distress !

P.S don't chase further, you've done your bit.
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Handmaiden   Woman 50yrs

Think about it a bit

Go and have a good long hard look at your profile. No pics...not even in pg's. Now, I dont know about anyone else but I want to know who it is I am chatting to, messaging.

Maybe you chose the ONE out of the bunch that just wasnt into you and maybe he hasnt been on to check his messages yet or is just thinking about his reply.

You can not jump into bed with just anyone, there has to be an attraction and yet you seem to think he can? He can not even see if he would be attracted to you. Further more...just because you are attracted to him...does not necessarily men that the attraction is mutual. You may not be what he is looking for at all....but he can not tell that can he? Just that you want sex and nothing more.

I know this is a bit of a smorgasbord for us single ladies but fair dinkum...give a guy something to go on.

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brightstar10   Woman 44yrs

lmao.....

Settle petal.... it's all ok

Upgrade your membership....then you'll be able to send another message to him "to please explain"

Just a thought

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xFunlovingx   Woman 52yrs

|o/

Quoting 'Offthebat'
1. I gather he's read it because he's looked at my profile 2. I'm a typical hunter by nature, never been a gatherer! 3. I can give him plenty of suggestions of what to do with me;-) 4. *sighs* men are their own worst enemy at times!! 5. I know it's easy to say next (& I have done it before) but not this one.
You haven't even met this guy and you are saying that you can't say next to him?  That is scary shit right there for any guy that is reading this Thread...
He changed his mind or is maybe even attached and decided not to contact you...leave the poor guy alone..I am sure he has his reasons...He has a right to say no just as much as you!  Go find someone that does want you and umm don't come of as too clingly or desperate and they might contact you!
Hugs...xFunlovingx
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eviltwin   Man 50yrs

the flip side of the coin...

My experience, and I don't hold myself up to be much of the general case, is that everyone on here tends to get a little judgemental (even me). We all get picky when emailed and more often than not find ourselves a little non-plussed by those who send us messages. And realize for most guys this happens not at all often... typically about once a year for me, so this is a real "just not sure" feeling and is for many, unless you've picked a desperado. Such is the way of chemistry/spark/the gods, whatever you want to call it.

Unlike some, I take the attitude though that if someone writes I'll usually do the coffee meetup... you really can't tell a damn thing about people from their profiles I find, for various reasons and if they were moved to write, maybe they saw something I didn't is my approach. Of course like I said I'm dealing with one of these a year. You girls getting dozens or god forbid hundreds of guys trying to attract your attention daily clearly don't have this luxury.

And for the record, not replying --> just rude. But, not replying promptly, sometimes is just life.

Either way, hang in there. Things can only get better right?

E.


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Offthebat   Woman 40yrs

I'm gonna yell NEXT!!!!

His loss;-)
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MissSarahCurious   Woman 34yrs

Put the shoe on the other foot

You get a "How about it" message from a guy with a phone number, right off the bat, and he has no picture.. yeah, I wouldn't reply either.

You can't expect every guy on here to have an "any hole will do" mentality. Put some effort in.

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