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Jul 09, 2012
meet2plzu
Hi guys and girls,

I have just recently started dating a woman, who is 6 years younger than me, very sexy and a VERY fit dancer.  I am also quite fit and so we have sensational, breathtaking sex every time that usually ends up with both of us very hot and sweaty and gasping for air afterwards.......... that's it, just wanted to brag.... lol

jus kidding, there is one small issue, she could be tighter... lol i am thick and i still fall out often.  Now i definitely don't want to offend her or make her insecure about this so how the hell do i express to her that for her (and my) benefit she could/should be doing some exercises?

Ahhhh please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sex
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Jean_Girard   Man 37yrs

The direct approach here....

Ladies are very receptive to feedback as long as you deliver it with a little tact.

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In this sort of situation it pays to illustrate the problem, then provide a few hints as to what you think might have caused the problem, then offer a resolution.

.

So here's what Dr Love suggests.

a) Have some toys on hand, the more the merrier.  Slip two or three vibrators inside her, and then yourself. 

b) Turn them on and just enjoy the moment for a bit.  Turn them off, it's now time to be serious.

c) Point down at the menagerie filling her and say something considerate that highlights the problem like "See that, I don't think that's normal.  I'm not saying you're easy, but clearly, if your vagina had a password it'd be 1234.  Have you heard of kegels?"

.

That should pretty much take care of it!

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Waterbabes  

Couple Man 35yrs Woman 32yrs

BWAHhahahahaaaaaa - yep, that'll work!!

Quoting 'Jean_Girard'

Ladies are very receptive to feedback as long as you deliver it with a little tact.

.

In this sort of situation it pays to illustrate the problem, then provide a few hints as to what you think might have caused the problem, then offer a resolution.

.

So here's what Dr Love suggests.

a) Have some toys on hand, the more the merrier.  Slip two or three vibrators inside her, and then yourself. 

b) Turn them on and just enjoy the moment for a bit.  Turn them off, it's now time to be serious.

c) Point down at the menagerie filling her and say something considerate that highlights the problem like "See that, I don't think that's normal.  I'm not saying you're easy, but clearly, if your vagina had a password it'd be 1234.  Have you heard of kegels?"

.

That should pretty much take care of it!


Try some vibrating beads (sex toy). She can have them in during the day or even dancing.....They apparently help to tone the internal muscles according to the marketing material. Keep in mind that all women are different just like blokes and perhaps there is not a lot she can do about it.....XXX
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Otori   Couple Man 30yrs Woman 30yrs

hehe

Quoting 'Jean_Girard'
   

Ladies are very receptive to feedback as long as you deliver it with a little tact.

.

In this sort of situation it pays to illustrate the problem, then provide a few hints as to what you think might have caused the problem, then offer a resolution.

.

So here's what Dr Love suggests.

a) Have some toys on hand, the more the merrier.  Slip two or three vibrators inside her, and then yourself. 

b) Turn them on and just enjoy the moment for a bit.  Turn them off, it's now time to be serious.

c) Point down at the menagerie filling her and say something considerate that highlights the problem like "See that, I don't think that's normal.  I'm not saying you're easy, but clearly, if your vagina had a password it'd be 1234.  Have you heard of kegels?"

.

That should pretty much take care of it!

   
Bah haha!! But seriously, that is a hard one! Maybe suggest she take up belly dancing? That really works the pelvis area and keeps you nice and tight down there. Maybe you could suggest it as a "fantasy" of yours.  But if you're having such awesome sex, is it really that much of an issue?
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Hesione

excellent

advice J_G,but perhaps OP you are not as thick as you think you are.Have you compared your thickness with other thick dicks?

That may be a good start,x Hugs H

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amuse_bouche  

Woman 23yrs

Pelvic floor

Sign her up for a month of Pilates classes. Pelvic floor workouts for the win :)
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Other thick dicks...

Oh fuck Hesione.... Good one.  I think you just made my stress incontinence when I laugh controllably come back.  Thanks for that. OP - Id say your dick just isn't as big and impressive as you seem to think it is.
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missopenminded

hahahaha

so your saying she is to tight for you??

well you could be honest with her...she will most likely take that as a compliment anywayz I mean what girl wouldn't like to be told that she is too tight? :p


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missopenminded

WAIT

lol .... I misread that you said she could be TIGHTER hahaha my bad..

ummm shit thats a tough one umm yeah no girl would like to hear that she is not tight enough!!
I don't really know what you can do without being direct about it..
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SubNymphette   Woman 26yrs

hmmmm

Maybe you need to work on your technique :P
(LOL Hesione)

I am very tight and often push guys out. cant win all the time! hahaha

But seriously, if she is that loose, prob not much that can be done about it. Sure, kegel excercises may help but only to a certain degree. Just like a guy with a really small penis. sometimes, just these things just need to be accepted.

If the sex is great, what does it matter? Maybe try some anal if you want something a bit tighter ;)
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Ramakin   Man 42yrs

if the mountain won't come to Mohamad...

...then botox your penis. Do her a favour
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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

Definitely technique!!!

It's a poor workman who blames his tools.

 

Adjust your length of stroke and angle of insertion. If this problem is a regular occurence, she may already be complaining to her friends that you can't do it right.

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Dark_Moon_Lilith

pelvic floor

as a lot of the above, but also Google "wave brilliance Australia" quickly changed my situation.
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xFunlovingx   Woman 52yrs

Muscles

Has everyone forgotten that there are very strong muscles in the vagina walls? Maybe you "fall out" (as you so eloquently put it) because the more excited she gets the stronger her muscles contract! Push it in deeper and stronger and you should find that things work out! Stop being such a woose with your cock!

Hugs...xFunlovingx

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meet2plzu

;)

Quoting 'Hesione'
   

advice J_G,but perhaps OP you are not as thick as you think you are.Have you compared your thickness with other thick dicks?

That may be a good start,x Hugs H

   
i have...  but, that isn't the point of the thread Hesione
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meet2plzu

;)

Quoting 'missopenminded'
    lol .... I misread that you said she could be TIGHTER hahaha my bad..

ummm shit thats a tough one umm yeah no girl would like to hear that she is not tight enough!!
I don't really know what you can do without being direct about it..
   


lol thanks missopenminded... very unhelpful....
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meet2plzu

;)

Quoting 'SubNymphette'
I am very tight and often push guys out. cant win all the time! hahaha

But seriously, if she is that loose, prob not much that can be done about it. Sure, kegel excercises may help but only to a certain degree. Just like a guy with a really small penis. sometimes, just these things just need to be accepted.

If the sex is great, what does it matter? Maybe try some anal if you want something a bit tighter ;)
   
well, it is worthy of accepting... she wont do anal though... :(
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meet2plzu

;)

Quoting 'jensman1903'
   

It's a poor workman who blames his tools.

 

Adjust your length of stroke and angle of insertion. If this problem is a regular occurence, she may already be complaining to her friends that you can't do it right.

   

yeh nah, she isn't complaining and i've never had that issue with anybody else... i'm not blaming my tool at all...
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meet2plzu

;)

Quoting 'Dark_Moon_Lilith'
    as a lot of the above, but also Google "wave brilliance Australia" quickly changed my situation.    
thank you dark moon
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meet2plzu

;)

Quoting 'xFunlovingx'
   

Has everyone forgotten that there are very strong muscles in the vagina walls? Maybe you "fall out" (as you so eloquently put it) because the more excited she gets the stronger her muscles contract! Push it in deeper and stronger and you should find that things work out! Stop being such a woose with your cock!

Hugs...xFunlovingx


   
thanks for that FL, not exactly sure if it can be done deeper but will give it a shot...
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Jean_Girard   Man 37yrs

Communocation

Quoting 'meet2plzu'
Quoting 'jensman1903'
   

It's a poor workman who blames his tools.

 

Adjust your length of stroke and angle of insertion. If this problem is a regular occurence, she may already be complaining to her friends that you can't do it right.

   

yeh nah, she isn't complaining and i've never had that issue with anybody else... i'm not blaming my tool at all...

Oh yep... and she's telling her friends that YOU aren't complaining, so everything's fine isn't it?  Maybe you need to go through her text messages just to be sure.

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