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Jul 08, 2012
fletch19680
Why is it that many want only women and or couples. Why do people not want the single male anymore. So what happens to the likes of me who have been in a marriage for years and then become single. Do we then get left on the shelf. Is it that I am now too old and ugly at the ripe old age of 44. Come on. Somebody surely wants a guy like me...
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triunity   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 37yrs

Economics 101

Supply and demand.

What does a man do to impress a woman? Chocolates, flowers, dinner, and if he's desperate, pretend to listen.
What does a woman do to impress a man? Show up naked.

I'm sure you have some great qualities, but whining ain't one.
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Don't know where you're looking!

There are a plethora of single ladies looking single guys!  You just have to wait to be someone's cup of tea!
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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

Well, Fletch, the problem is that single men are an over supplied commodity.

It's not so easy to find swinging couples or adventurous females outside of these sites or clubs set up to cater for the scene. Single blokes are every where and also make up the majority of RHP's membership. The women, who are the unsilent minority here, get to pick and choose. No need to give up just yet but you will definitely need to be patient.
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Hesione

your profile

Is locked OP,so it is hard to give you feedback.However as other posters have said,there is quite a few single men on this site for single women to choose from.

Read profiles,tailor messages accordingly,and eventually as ApolloThirteen has said,you may find someone...perhaps she will read your post...but at the moment you can neither receive or send messages.x Hugs H

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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Ewwww

2 things.... Safe sex - If required.  That means 99.999% of people on here won't go near you. (However there is a lovely young African American gent whose traveling here shortly who would relish that prospect!!! - But, I digress...) 2nd thing - there's nothing in your profile! And that little intro - I've read that 100 times.
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Waterbabes   Couple Man 35yrs Woman 32yrs

Some of us....

have changed our search to only looking for women or couples because (at the risk of sounding up ourselves) we were bombarded with messages from guys who weren't even close to matching what we were looking for and it became impossible to manage (we try to respond to every message). So we changed it and now we look for guys and contact them, or some will read through our profile and find the section about single men and then contact us. So, my point is, some couples may actually be looking for single guys but they wont show up in search results because of my reasons above. Hang in there and stay positive! XXX
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Jay_Me   Man 52yrs

Dont take it to heart...

Its a fact most females on here hold the superior hand.  Saying pass or next is so much a everyday habit they hardly blink unless you look like Brad Pitt..  Girls love to play this game same as in the real world.  Thats just the way it is..

Personally' Im more successful in the real world.  I find chatting face to face brings good results and more rewarding.  I think this is because the real you is on show and not the cyber you...     

Jay...
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DeliciousCplBris   Couple Man 46yrs Woman 42yrs

We

We often play with single men! We find it next to impossible to find the 4 way attraction of couples, and neither of us will take one for the team ! Single heterosexual women who want to play in a non bi threesome are like unicorns , so that leaves us with the guys. Hubby is straight , he is more passive in the swinging scene than I am, so my choice is two guys and me :) I know lots of couples who love playing with single men ! Standing out from the crowd is the hard part .
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fletch19680

Feedback

To deliciouscple - if you play with single men - then you might be able to indicate what it is about me that stops people from contacting me. I have sent you an email in the past and have had no response. Is it too much to ask for some response from people these days.
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Listen!!!

Fletch - are you only hearing what you want to hear??
Almost every post has said why - the people you have contacted don't find you attractive for one reason or another.  Bottom line.

In relation to DeliciousCplBris - I would suggest that they could have the creme of the crop, and with some truly stunning men on here, sorry man - but it's a no-brainer.

They don't owe you any explanation, you're just not attractive to them! 
It really is just that simple!  If they find you attractive you will know - trust me, they will let you know.
If they haven't let you know - They're just not that into you!!!





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xFunlovingx   Woman 52yrs

Clearly ....

Quoting 'fletch19680'
To deliciouscple - if you play with single men - then you might be able to indicate what it is about me that stops people from contacting me. I have sent you an email in the past and have had no response. Is it too much to ask for some response from people these days.


You did not even bother to read the whole profile of DeliciousCpl....If you had...then  you would not need to ask "why" at all! Go back and read the WHOLE thing and it will be clear why she didn't respond!

xFunlovingx

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fleurtatious81   Woman 31yrs

aiming a little high??

I hate to state the obvious here but maybe you are aiming a little high? I mean deliciouscplbris---- are well.....DELICIOUS.... and in your profile you stated ( and its obvious in your pics) that you are a little overweight.... if you would not walk up to someone in a bar... don't bother contacting them here ... just because people are on a site such as this it doesn't mean they should lower their standards for every tom, dick and harry.... so maybe you should have more real expectations of who you should be contacting?? By the way I'm not saying this to be mean but I am being honest, best of luck to you x
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woody_pusscat   Couple Man 51yrs Woman 47yrs

Clearly

Quoting 'xFunlovingx'
Quoting 'fletch19680'
To deliciouscple - if you play with single men - then you might be able to indicate what it is about me that stops people from contacting me. I have sent you an email in the past and have had no response. Is it too much to ask for some response from people these days.


You did not even bother to read the whole profile of DeliciousCpl....If you had...then  you would not need to ask "why" at all! Go back and read the WHOLE thing and it will be clear why she didn't respond!

xFunlovingx


Remember folks men don't read profiles!!!

 

Pusscat xxx

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DeliciousCplBris   Couple Man 46yrs Woman 42yrs

Thanks

I just noticed this response :) thanks guys for filling in the blanks , I find it difficult and confronting to tell men I am just not into them especially when they continuously ask why I won't fuck them . We are on a swingers site , that doesn't mean I'm a hooker or desperate , I am kind but I am also fussy..... ....I'm sorry I didn't respond to you , I'm trying to get better at that x
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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

I missed something

What's with the African American Apollo13? Friend of yours?
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stonebudda   Man 27yrs

huh

hmm another 'i sent u an email u must fuck me' member.. grow on trees around here

forgot for a second you lovely ladies dont just sit around waiting for us men to grunt at you :P


Budda
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xFunlovingx   Woman 52yrs

Clarification....

Quoting 'xFunlovingx'
Quoting 'fletch19680'
To deliciouscple - if you play with single men - then you might be able to indicate what it is about me that stops people from contacting me. I have sent you an email in the past and have had no response. Is it too much to ask for some response from people these days.


You did not even bother to read the whole profile of DeliciousCpl....If you had...then  you would not need to ask "why" at all! Go back and read the WHOLE thing and it will be clear why she didn't respond!

xFunlovingx

I was not talking about your looks at alll...You indeed are not an ugly guy at all! I was more talking about the no bisexual men on their profile and also fit men (you admit in your profile that you do carry extra weight) and also they are wanting "well hung" men! Do not take this personal but all of us (you included) have our likes and dislikes! Don't give up, keep trying...You never know! My only advice is to really read the profile before contacting a couple/woman to see that you are what they are looking for! Good luck with it all! xox

Hugs...xFunlovingx

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Skanner

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Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'
    There are a plethora of single ladies looking single guys!  You just have to wait to be someone's cup of tea!    
There ar some of us that actually prefer beverages other than tea and we are happy within ourselves without too many evident insecurities. x lol
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

No, nothing missed.

Just referring to "Charming Profiles".  Thought it'd be a nice gesture to let the OP know that there are couples out there who don't require safe sex!
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fletch19680

clarification

I am not a guy that expects sex from a contact. I would like friendships from singles and or couples. If it was to progress further than hey I am all for it. To also set the records straight. I do nit contact members unless I have read the profile in full. If the age group is wrong or the do not state at top if profile they are looking for a man I do not contact. My whole point if this thread was to point out that so many couples want couples or single ladies as per the start of their profile. This is where the first information is given and if the match is not there I move forward. I was just highlighting this fact and asking why, not expecting people to assume that I read a profile send a message to someone outside the parameters of the profile and as one of the responses above so eloquently put it expect a Fuck. Sorry guys. You have me all wrong.
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