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Jan 06, 2012
Sexykinkycouple  

Couple Man 25yrs Woman 24yrs

HI&

 

We have been on rhp for about 6 months & over the time we have created our profile & updated it according to our likes/dislikes & photos etc..

 

Now we are looking for people opinions on our choice of photos to our description as well as what we are looking for?

 

We realise its a little more in depth then other & are a little concerned it may come off intimidating which is not what we want.

 

any feedback would be great.

 

s&s

x

profile
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goodgrlzsayplz

Sweeties

Great advert kids! You certainly get an A for marketing.

 

 

Look you're young and your gorgeous and you want to attract what you are right? Sure fire way of meeting the people you want to meet is to host a party. Pop it in the events section under "Young and Pretty" and bobs your crossdressing uncle......poof!...squillions of pretties to party with. The cool thing is that you can invite who you want to invite out of those who register their interest and this way have people "up to your standard" attend your party.

 

All parties have a certain age group, certain weight range and looks generally. Nothing wrong with your profile by the way, you're young, your hot and you know it. Hell i knew it when i was your age. (gawd, i can't believe I'm saying that)

 

 

Play safe and have fun kids xx Goodgrl

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Sexykinkycouple  

Couple Man 25yrs Woman 24yrs

cool

Hi Goodgrl,

 

Thanks for the reassurance, its just an honest profile.

 

We have just found we are being messaged alot less etc...although the ones that have been messaging us are of quality.

 

That sounds like a good idea (hosting a private party & all) & posting it in events.

 

We may just take that road.

 

Also do you think its silly to have a male as the main profile photo (as 99% have a photo of there girl)???

 

regards,

 

s&s

x

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rockercouple80  

Couple Man 32yrs Woman 23yrs

...

I think it needs more cowbell...
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goodgrlzsayplz

Not at all

The fact is that when playing with couples it's often the woman who drive who we actually play with. So advertising by putting the man of the couple up there and also having plenty of public pics of the lady of the couple is a great idea. All your pics are excellent. No need to change anything. Have fun! xx
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DonnaBrett   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 44yrs

Sadly..

It looks & sounds totally fine..but sadly a high percentage of people will NOT read your profile..they'll look at the pics & think..yeah..they're the ones and just msg or flirt anyway..thus wasting your time.  It's the nature of the beast..well the lazy beasts anyway!!
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Sexykinkycouple  

Couple Man 25yrs Woman 24yrs

feedback

Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz'
The fact is that when playing with couples it's often the woman who drive who we actually play with. So advertising by putting the man of the couple up there and also having plenty of public pics of the lady of the couple is a great idea. All your pics are excellent. No need to change anything. Have fun! xx


Thats good to hear, we are open to all opinions so keep them coming.

 

thx

s&s

x

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Thomas_Eros   Man 26yrs

on rhp you dont win

i have found that either way i lose. So my profile is just me being honest and if the fusspots that they are cant handle it and block me then that is their loss...
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mikeandshel   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 51yrs

ok........

job well done..... perhaps too well..... many wont read what you wrote (i did) and many wont even care you wrote anything at all....just stick to your digs on what you want...... and take everything with a grain of salt. we think you are well on the way to having a fun time.....
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rupamohan  

Couple Man 43yrs Woman 38yrs

Our exp

1) Profiles at adult sites should be treated like traffic signs - to the point and clear
2) The main pic of a girl ( not just showing genitals) is worth 1000s words.
3) Profile need to only tell what PPL as a minimum need to know before meet to greet. Most PPL don't want to know all about you in one go.
4) There is a false perception that if you say more you are closing options for negotiation.
5) There is a false perception if you describe more. It means these are all RULES.
6) One bad experience should not make others feel that you have to pass the whinge to everybody by putting all kind of warnings. Unless you had few bad exp or something you can't tolerate even once DO NOT PUT UNNECESSARY WARNINGS.
7) When members don't want to go ahead. There is no need for them to share the reason. Some members feel it is unfair not to give the reason but they also don't want to tell the real reason. If you say a lot in your profile don't be surprised they pick up something for a fake excuse.
8) If your profile is getting bigger consider dividing it in two parts..the second part can be  template for your first message exchange.
We don't like these kinds of profile much.
1) Where PPL will say looking for like minded person etc..where as there is nothing enough to say what is in their mind??
2) Where PPL say looking for same..PPL are not clones..we prefer PPL to say, what they are looking for and what they are, separately even if they plan to write similar statements.
3) Where PPL think fairness means forcing others to make same choice for e,g  if I show my pic you too have to show. No you tell your choice and let other make their choice. We do agree some choices have to be linked..but not all by default.
4) Where PPL use too many filler words ( words that will be anyway understood and  apply to most serious real members) - What purpose these words serves?? - for e,g intelligent, educated, honest, hot, not pushy, quality  not quantity, We don't sleep with everyone blah blah.. If something is really important to say.. use objective terminology for e,g quality is imp for everyone...but if it is more imp for you then define what you precisely mean by it...define by giving some examples...of what is good quality for you and what is bad quality for you...merely saying I am after quality..has little meaning...what makes you think others are not looking for quality. If others have not said anything about quality that doesn't mean they are not after quality..it can mean some quality is anyway understood. Assuming others are settling for less means you have not understood how to treat PPL at equal terms.
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MissSarahCurious   Woman 33yrs

It's good

It's detailed yet not too long

The only thing that makes me roll my eyes is the Sydney Uni warning. It's not only unnecessary in terms of the law and the TOU of the website, it's also a bit of an urban myth. When was the last time anyone actually had details of their profile USED by Sydney Uni or any such institution?
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RandomAgent   Man 32yrs

No No No!

1. Should have a fat guy on the main pic. Then everyone knows he doesn't love himself too much.
2. No one under 26 can spell that well. If you were 26 I would say 27. The errors that ARE there make you look like you faked it to seem hip and out of my league.
3. You didn't clap your hands. Everyone KNOWS if you sexy and ya no it clap Ur hands.
4. That warning to Sydney University wasn't comprehensive enough. I can see at least three loopholes to exploit your personal information for an assignment which I can then sell to Today Tonight. Make it longer before everyone knows you're on here. Everyone.
5. There is no cock shot. I don't care if its in your private pictures, I can't circulate it around my department's office computers via email. That makes me stabby.
6. You live too far away! There isn't a snowflake's chance in hell that I will come to see you no matter how much you beg me.
7. You saaaaay you want a mmf, but you don't have "Man" in your "looking for" heading. This makes me confused. Do you or do you not want to have sex with me? I've sent this question twice daily to you for the last two weeks. Have you got them yet? Check if you got them yet.
8. I'm homeless and using the computers at centrelink.. Can I stay at yours?

RA
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Angel_dreams

Fantastic Profile..

Perfect profile

If only others put the time and effort into their profiles as you have.


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DonnaBrett   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 44yrs

Urban myth

Very good point Sarah!!
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'
    It's detailed yet not too long

The only thing that makes me roll my eyes is the Sydney Uni warning. It's not only unnecessary in terms of the law and the TOU of the website, it's also a bit of an urban myth. When was the last time anyone actually had details of their profile USED by Sydney Uni or any such institution?
   

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Sexykinkycouple  

Couple Man 25yrs Woman 24yrs

Replys

Thanks alot for all your constructive criticism, oh & 1 not so constructive (randomagent)... I am not sure about the law of this site but the sydney uni thing sounded fair. Rupamohen could you specify what you meant by all that? S&s Xx
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Saturn65  

Couple Man 43yrs Woman 44yrs

I think your profile reads great!

You've been very clear in what you guys are after. You may not get as many hits on your profile due to the male main pic as let's face it the majority of peeps on here are after preferably and mainly female play, ( NOT ALL I know just saying majority..)You will get however I'm sure a few grateful females from a couple going "Phew..he isn't half bad...ok your more like 3/4s..ok ok...your hawt!!" as it can be a guessing game to couples as to how a man from the profiles looks like....ie: their hidden away in PGs..wonders why, actually I don't I know why.

 

 

Whilst it may seem like less hits you are recieving maybe you are actually getting the kind of couples you are after OR rather are actually prepared to see what the BOTH of you look like if MFMF couples play is part of what you seek.

 

Good luck

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MistressT   Woman 45yrs

Not sure about "kinky" in your title.

I was wondering what you meant by kinky. Some people could be put off if they think you are into BDSM. Otherwise I think Sarah is right about the uni warning.
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goldiefun  

Couple Man 35yrs Woman 31yrs

great profile

Hey guys,

 

I'll just say one thing - have a look at our profile then you'll realize that you have nothing to worry about.

 

Take it easy - have a good year.

 

Goldiefun

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RandomAgent   Man 32yrs

GIGGLE

The classy thing would have been, not to point it out. 

RA
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Sexykinkycouple  

Couple Man 25yrs Woman 24yrs

Hmmmm

Hi (mistresstud) well kinky for most is commonly defined as a form of unconventional sexual interests. im pretty sure being on rhp & being interested in mfmf & ff style situation would fairly label us as kinky. Although you are right about the possibility of its being misconstrude. What suggestions do you have on clarifying it? S&s X
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rupamohan  

Couple Man 43yrs Woman 38yrs

Re: our exp

We just shared our exp with what we like or dislike in a profile. If you found anything interesting in what I wrote but  it is not clear.. point it out and I will try to explain our comments. If nothing applies to you.. just ignore our comments....THAT SIMPLE!!!

 

ENJOY!!!

rupa(f)

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