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Porn overdose.

    | Dec 08, 2011
CrackUp   Woman 53yrs
I thought it was a really interesting article that the resident RHP Dr's.. Geoff and Bessie, recently posted. It was entitled Porn Overload and was answering a question from a man who was basically saying ... 'the crazier the stuff I watch the crazier I need to be in the bedroom before I can get really excited!' (as quoted from rhp)

It went on to say that the brain chemicals which are released in reaching orgasm are the same chemicals of the brain responsible for the highs we get from elicit drugs (cocaine used in the example). Do many of the males or females who use porn heavily to become stimulated, find that it does in fact create 'burn out'? I know myself, that on acting on some of my fantasies and turning them into reality, they have lost some of their sizzle. I am assuming it is for the same types of reason that porn can end up numbing one to becoming stimulated (requiring crazier scenarios to help the porn watcher get off). Does anyone have experience of this.. and if it occurs, can it, in fact be turned around again?

Really good question and great response from the Doctors. Kudos to RHP for exploring all kind of subject matter xx.
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BoobaliciousFG   Woman 39yrs

I reckon it all goes back to trying to be a balanced person...

I find i go through times where i am watching porn regularly enough (too much maybe) to start finding a lot of it the boring same ole, and then need to explore kinks i never would have imagined i'd explore, let alone be turned on by! Then that gets boring and i go for something more shocking to stimulate my desensitised viewing capabilities, and on it goes... I have a break, when I go back to it, I have a greater appreciation for ALL of it and not feel that boredem.

 

Same thing when i start stepping up the naughtiness in real life, I can get carried away there too and just want MORE MORE MORE!!! Which leads to more risks, more encounters, the thirst to try it all!!I can see how both of these behaviours could become a little obsessive and become habitual patterns without maybe realising it?

 

Lucky for me I am easily distracted and I suppose I eventually realise that both the overdose in porn and the taking increased risks in my real life, is now tipping into the TOO MUCH zone, where you seem to be so caught up in the MORE and the NEXT, that you don't take the time to actually assess whether or not you are still getting what you actually want/need/desire to make you happy. Risk vs reward for real life. When you are not getting the same level of pleasure and have turned up everything and it still isn't there, time to back off i say.

 

If we just keep looking forward and go harder and harder, try the next new thing and the next, we may forget how to just take a step back to enjoy the simplicity of just taking the time to enjoy one another all kinks/porn moves aside, just the ole fashion slow and senual. Remembering that just touching someone can be powerful.

 

Gawd rambley eh!? Maybe i should have just said: balance, too much of anything in life isn't healthy!

 

 

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D_G_T

Yep

I do find if Im watching a lot , it gets dirtier and dirtier LOL

thats when I have to stop watching for a while, and start back at basics......not all the way back at vanilla basics

but just so that I can appreciate the simpler things once again.

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Fancylips   Man 42yrs

Porn no

I find too much porn gets me self conscious. Instead of saying 'hey human.. lets wriggle in our juices', I start trying to act out things I thought looked interesting in porn. And for me that leads to awkward fumbling that run against the natural run of play. Having said that, you do get some good ideas from time to time.
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justjuice   Couple Man 56yrs Woman 49yrs

Best sex is without it...

Watching porn regularly becomes a habit more then for the enjoyment.. theres no doubt.
Recently on a 3 week o'seas holiday with a few mates and minus a computer, I found that getting back to the basics by chatting up and going through the excitement of seducing a girl far more stimulating than anything porn has to offer..
Before leaving' I 'd been experiencing a notable drop in libido and a absence of the quantity of ejaculate, but after the second week of doing what comes naturally, that improved twofold.

Porn is like a drug, we do it because we can when we are bored.. and I feel it can take its toll on you by causing a low grade depression.. Meaning, when you shut down your comp ' did you really find what you were looking for or just watch for the hell of it. I did' and realising this I now resist the urge and try very hard to get back to the basics. Instead of the cheap thrills porn provides, I now look at things more innocently and feel much better.. Mr JJ

PS.. yes' Mrs JJ knows what I got up to on our holiday... she's not the insecure type..
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MistressT   Woman 48yrs

Never been an issue

Unless I am in the mood in the first place I find that regular porn does absolutely nothing for me. BDSM porn does give me a few ideas from time to time but otherwise I don't find it much of a turn on.

Maybe it's because I have been to parties where I have watched the same activities taking place that takes the shine off it a bit.
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fionabee

Never been an issue

Mainly because I dont watch much porn.

I dont mind the occassional look see but then I tend to fast forward past all those yucky things like anal, rimming, spitting on people, cumming allover the other person, one slap on the arse and I click off the computer as well as one fist full of hair. Oh and I can not stand the over acting...you know...all that moaning and groaning when it is obviously fake. She is getting all her jollies from giving him oral while moaning into the camera. Love it when they are going hard at it and the guys cock slips out...it is soft. Cracks me up every time.

Yep. Porn certainly has its moments.

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mikeandshel  

Couple Man 51yrs Woman 53yrs

porn?

yea have a bit...all free off the 'net (no parrott = no pirate right?).... but dont get to watch any...teens at home makes it difficult at best.... kinda over the basic fuck suck n blow vids tho.... i mean, how many ways are there to do it?? story line, acting and decent dialogue makes it a little interesting.....otherwise its all a bit ...meh...... nowadays
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couplz_toy

...Porn?

I don't watch it.
I've found that porn does anything for me at all really, well not since I was 16 and first saw some.
I prefer to use my own imagination in the bedroom, rather than relying on those of actors and writers.
I find the bodies and minds of those around me in person much more intriguing, than two-dimensional images portraying concocted scenarios.

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