I find i go through times where i am watching porn regularly enough (too much maybe) to start finding a lot of it the boring same ole, and then need to explore kinks i never would have imagined i'd explore, let alone be turned on by! Then that gets boring and i go for something more shocking to stimulate my desensitised viewing capabilities, and on it goes... I have a break, when I go back to it, I have a greater appreciation for ALL of it and not feel that boredem.
Same thing when i start stepping up the naughtiness in real life, I can get carried away there too and just want MORE MORE MORE!!! Which leads to more risks, more encounters, the thirst to try it all!!I can see how both of these behaviours could become a little obsessive and become habitual patterns without maybe realising it?
Lucky for me I am easily distracted and I suppose I eventually realise that both the overdose in porn and the taking increased risks in my real life, is now tipping into the TOO MUCH zone, where you seem to be so caught up in the MORE and the NEXT, that you don't take the time to actually assess whether or not you are still getting what you actually want/need/desire to make you happy. Risk vs reward for real life. When you are not getting the same level of pleasure and have turned up everything and it still isn't there, time to back off i say.
If we just keep looking forward and go harder and harder, try the next new thing and the next, we may forget how to just take a step back to enjoy the simplicity of just taking the time to enjoy one another all kinks/porn moves aside, just the ole fashion slow and senual. Remembering that just touching someone can be powerful.
Gawd rambley eh!? Maybe i should have just said: balance, too much of anything in life isn't healthy!
I do find if Im watching a lot , it gets dirtier and dirtier LOL
thats when I have to stop watching for a while, and start back at basics......not all the way back at vanilla basics
but just so that I can appreciate the simpler things once again.
Mainly because I dont watch much porn.
I dont mind the occassional look see but then I tend to fast forward past all those yucky things like anal, rimming, spitting on people, cumming allover the other person, one slap on the arse and I click off the computer as well as one fist full of hair. Oh and I can not stand the over acting...you know...all that moaning and groaning when it is obviously fake. She is getting all her jollies from giving him oral while moaning into the camera. Love it when they are going hard at it and the guys cock slips out...it is soft. Cracks me up every time.
Yep. Porn certainly has its moments.