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Jun 14, 2012
brave__heart
I got a message from a man, and when I looked at his profile I wasn't interested. I wrote back saying ...
"Thanks for your lovely message :) I'm not interested in further contact but I wish you all the very best in your search."

He soon responded
"guess what u don't have a face so I was planing to fuck anything that had a vagina .u lucky I wrote to u coz look at my facy would u think I would pick u in a bar so sorry bitch have a good rotten pussy coz I not going to get fucked . U know where u t coz u I rooting website n u looing for prince charming haha now who is the joke happy new year"
So I know I'm not the only person that gets tasteless messages, disgruntled replies, etc, but seriously, I have to wonder what goes through someone's mind that they would write such a message to anyone. Any insights, anyone?
Interestingly, this man didn't seem like a complete tosser in his profile, though of course it's now clear that he is :)

messages
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amuse_bouche  

Woman 23yrs

Hmm

There are also some messages that simply don't make sense.

 

I got one last month that went: 'Hey. What did you do for Christmas?'

 

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neptune_drift   Man 29yrs

Bullet dodged...

Matrix style.

"guess what u don't have a face so I was planing to fuck anything that had a vagina ."

I hope this guy doesn't live near any farms or veterinary clinics.

What's weird is that this isn't even a standardised post-rejection rant. In a psychotically sweet way he tailored his response and put more effort into his unhinged diatribe than most put in their original message.

Who says men don't read profiles?

Ps. That was a private message I sent u, lil_bit. I can't believe u would share it on the forum like that.
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Hesione

lil_bit

Some people do not handle rejection well,and their mind is empty...no traffic goin'through that vacant lot...x Hugs H
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funknbay

Post his name is blatantly/code/charade style in Secret Women's Business.....

Us girls are pretty switched on.....  I'd prefer to be cyber assaulted any day than having the misfortune of having to deal with this creep if one was to physically knock him back.

It's a public service!!
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wannabyummymummy   Woman 36yrs

Dodged a bullet

by the sounds of it you were lucky!!

You obviously made the right choice in the first place, do what i do have a giggle, delete and move on!!

NEXT!
WBYM
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

tee-hee-hee!

Gosh, I think this is my favourite part : " U know where u t coz u I rooting website".  Just rolls off the tongue doesn't it!!


Funny isn't it....  So many of the guys on here complain about the ladies not responding yea or nay. 
Bottom line is - if it's a yea, you'll know it's a yea!!!  We really will let you know in no uncertain terms.
If you don't hear back - it's not a yea.

If it's a nay, some ladies will respond and have to put up with a barrage of the above, so I guess some decide to negate the abuse and just not respond and block!

Me?  I give them a mouthful back that would make a sailor blush and then block....
There's been many a response I've sent back to guys explaining to them they its guys like them that fuck it up for all the genuine guys.

Seriously - it seems the the brotherhood need to get their heads together and let everyone know that they're being their own worst enemies!
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curiousgirl_MR

block-delete-next

unfortunately some animals occasionally parade in human skin.....
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curiousgirl_MR

i forgot.....

'There's been many a response I've sent back to guys explaining to them they its guys like them that fuck it up for all the genuine guys.' from Apollo 13
exactly
Nat;)
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MsVelvetblue

Name and Shame I say

These tossers (and no I wont stereotype -male and female) when they are so pathetically disgusting... should be named and shamed...

 

And good for you Apollo Thirteen for giving as good as you get..

 

I used to be polite like Lil bit..but Im so over it now...my thanks but no thanks response is courteous but some people really cant handle rejection...god..how do they survive in the real world....????????????????????????? so now Ive taken a leaf out of Apollo's book...give as good as I get and block...I didnt want to go down this path cause basically its not instinctually who I am...but sheesh, Im sorry, when did my rite to say thanks but no thanks get taken away...???

 

 

 

 

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Mr_Outdoors   Man 43yrs

Bloody hell

That's just incredibly screwed up, some people are their own worst enemy. I guess some of us men will continue to suffer for the mistakes and shortcomings of a small minority for the rest of our single lives. Chivalry, good manners and common decency are truly on the endangered list.
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keepingkarma   Woman 53yrs

Hope

... you are O.K lil_bit_angelic KK x
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50zcool

Rejection

It's embarrassing being male when you read that drivel.

There are some sad, lonely, bitter, and damaged people out there, add poor education and alcohol maybe, and that is the result.

It's very easy to hold them up to scorn and rant and rave, its also easy to pity them and move on.

I'm sure if you wouldn't have to dig too far to find a response from a female that spat bile and poison in response to a respectable contact letter.

But really whats the point ?
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blkcapricornday   Man 31yrs

ew...

That's pretty hideous :( 

Its unfortunate that ladies have to endure that sort of contact, but are you really surprised?  After all, this place is open to any paying/non paying member of the public, a bit like a train...  If you could expect that sort of low life on the frankston line, no reason it cant happen here, lol.
 
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SensualHunk65

Name & Shame?? Here Here!! I agree whole heartedly.

Hi to Ms Angelic and the other ladies who've responded to this post.
First and foremost, you are all right. Guys like this particular scum bag do more harm then good for the genuine guys on this site such as me. I have taken time to go online in the chat rooms and my oh my I feel disgusted at some of the talk some guys come out with and I won't bother calling them men as I don't believe they measure up to that status. It's also fair to say that there are also some girls on here every bit as crass as some of the guys. That is the beauty of a site such as this. There is someone for everyone and everyone has their own reasons for coming on here and I think it caters for most peoples individual tastes and we all have the chance to choose who we wish to chat with or get to know further.

However, I've felt compelled to write and respond to this post by Ms Angelic, as you may remember I'd sent a message professing on how you had posted such a fantastic profile. For me it was recognition to a gorgeous lady who is no doubt one of very high standards and morals and has high expectations of whom she would like to meet. As you should. Yes it was a "oh how I wish" message from me but I also knew I was not necessarily the type of man you would find an attraction with. But to read such an honest and open profile warmed my heart and made me realise that this site isn't just full of deviates and there are other genuine people out there like me that want something more than just a cheap & nasty encounter.

Ladies, I received a response from this lovely lady in the form of a "thanks but no thanks. I'm not wanting to take things any further". As I was purely complementing this beautiful woman. I again responded with a flirt of "I just wanted to say that I loved your profile". I never expected anything more but again Ms Angelic replied to me thanking me for such a kind and sincere message. To me I was over the moon, as there is no doubt this lady would be bombarded with all sorts of messages and for her to take the time out to reply to me, twice was very much appreciated and respected.

So where am I going with this you may ask? Well it's a plea to the low life's out there who can't be anything but derogatory, mean and nasty pricks. Get over yourselves and man up and take the rejection on the chin and walk away. As I was once told by a very wise man, my grandfather. If you don't have anything nice or meaningful to say, bite your tongue and don't bother in wasting your breath by saying anything at all. All you do is show how weak and inept you are at being a decent person.

Keep your heads up ladies. We aren't all bad.
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Ryyyy

What a douche.

Wow. That guy is obviously giving the male sex a bad name. It's messages like that that make you want to say something else to them, but you realise that they're not worth it. And so you go on living the rest of your life, and he stays lonely for the rest of his.
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the_traveller49   Man 50yrs

Interesting

Interesting it is all females posting on this thread ? (so far anyway)

From the male side of things on this site, I have also had 'weird' mail and winks from both couples and females. I believe we are all adults, playing an adult game and this should not mean that manners and respect go out the window. We are here for FUN.
I always respond to a wink or message, might be yes might be no, but always polite. I always write what I believe to be polite mails to people. Never use the abbreviated 'text' talk. Most of the time I cant be bothered reading one's sent to me as I really cant understand half of them and are probably not people i want to meet anyway.
Why do people (all levels of membership) not respond. Common courtesy folks it goes a long way.
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brave__heart

Apollo

I did have some fun trying to interpret it :) Here's what I think he's saying. "you don't have a face but that's OK because I just wanted a vagina. You're ugly and I'm hot so you're lucky I even contacted you. You're a bitch who's never going to get laid because your pussy's rotten. You're an idiot for being on a sex site looking for love . Happy New Year." Funny, funny, funny :)
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Lifes_great   Man 45yrs

What a catch!

I just think 'If you can't play nice....then don't play at all'!  I thought you were very polite with your response and yet he handled the rejection like a 2 yr old.....then sentences even resembled a 2yr olds vocabulary. It is apalling that he resorted to being nasty....totally unjustified.  Best left to play alone.

 

Happy hunting Lil_Bit!

 

P.S...He was right though...you don't have a face

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babygirllovessex   Woman 22yrs

I have the same thing at least once a week!

I am finding its happening more and more, you try and be polite and get nothing but abuse. Grow up guys, not every girl is going to be interested, and likewise for us, not every guy is going to be interested. Its disrespectful and not required. Douchebags!
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adzy22

umm?

Shouldn't judge to harsh on the guy, like saying should be named and shamed. He probably has some built up issues or a lot of rejection. He seemed to be hurt and sent a defensive attack, a pretty messed up one. I just know last time I asked a girl out her and her friends laughed at me and I was publicly humiliated and I felt like saying stuff like that to her but I'm not like that, I just walked away and hid for a few years. The guy probably is a tosser or really hurt. I don't know if you have but I wouldn't take any thing his say personal you seem pretty hot for a chick with no face haha... :)
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