We used to have rules for playing but Mrs broke them all lol. Only rule we have is we live happily ever after. Everything else is negotiable. Xxxx

Rules are good to have as long as you are open to the notion that rules can change. Also make sure both parties understand that any changes in rules should be discussed before implementation :)

As for actual rules, I guess you need to work out if a third party is to play with both partners or if one partner watches only. It's all entirely up to your personal sexual preferences I guess?

i think it is different for everyone, most important thing is to talk with each other and set out what will make you happy and then try and find someone who will respect those boundaries (good luck with this part by the way)

Rules will change as you go along, for us some things we said we would not do we have and things we would like to do are yet to be tried but we always talk about it beforehand as 2more4fun has suggested.

End of the day what ever works for you

Mrs GC curious xx

we used to have quite a few rules but now it depends on the person/people we are playing with.but.. safe sex always and if one isnt comfie or dosnt want to it dosnt happen
xxxMrs Bal

It seems as we get more experience and come accross more different circumstances the more flexible the rules seem to get. 

Our main rules that don't get broken are;

                safe sex

                no 'taking one for the team'

                be honest with each other and everyone else

                the primary relationship is the most important

everything else is open to negotiation as long as it is discussed and agreed beforehand.