Opening Message To Us From Single Guys!

Jan 30, 2012

Couple Man 42yrs Woman 42yrs

Just thought we would share a couple of new messages we have received in the last few months from people.......mainly single guys. Keep in mind this is the first contact we have had from all of these people......this is not a joke, they are cut and pasted straight from the original message.

Wink ;)

im your guy! No your not....but have to admire his confidence.

u up for a chat

u have a nice ass

Babe wana have fun

Ice pics your yum if u want sum fun let me know

luv that profile pic its fukn sxc xx

I'm interested in experimenting with you. I hope he is a Doctor, lol.

Lets hook up gorgeous xxx

I'm a single thawamma join u is that ok Not sure what this translates to.

r u guys interested in threesomes?

would love to mount you with my naked penis babe;) Its no good in his underwear!!

hi, i like ur profile and would b intrestd in fun, hope to hear from u soon

Hello beautiful can I meet u for some hot wild fun in the bedroom? Ou r so beautiful. I'm so horny my cock is SO SO HARD

Would so love to chat and see what kinky and or taboo sex you are into,as that would totally turn me on. So beautiful message me back and lets chat ok.

The thing that stands out the most to us is not one single person put a name to their message. Most seem to mean well but just have not put in any thought or effort.

Anyway....please share some of yours.

xx

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Ramakin

Man 41yrs

Let me count the ways

Spam or complete indifference... Mmmm at least spam lets you know the email systems working ;)

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mylittlethrill

Woman 35yrs

Uncouth rude

It is uncouth to publicly publish private messages sent to you.

It is rude to humiliate them publicly.

I receive messages like this too.

One man explained to me most males receive practically no messages.

I receive minimum of 5 messages a day at my empty profile.

We have no right to complain.

We are lucky. We have so much choice. We have no preeminence to publicly display private messages to humiliate men IMO.

xx

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blkcapricornday

Man 30yrs

Hahaha, sigh...

Quoting 'mylittlethrill'

We are lucky. We have so much choice.

Although I agree with 40 is fun, many thanks to mylittlethrill for sticking up for the little aussie battler! Its nice to have the benefit of the doubt for a change!

Yes, class, tact and basic communication skills sadly do not seem to be common traits among young males, (as clearly referenced in this post!)

As long as you don't become too jaded by the 99 rubbish messages, and miss that 1 good one ;)

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mikeandshel

Couple Man 49yrs Woman 51yrs

lol

Quoting 'mylittlethrill'

It is uncouth to publicly publish private messages sent to you.

It is rude to humiliate them publicly.

I receive messages like this too.

One man explained to me most males receive practically no messages.

I receive minimum of 5 messages a day at my empty profile.

We have no right to complain.

We are lucky. We have so much choice. We have no preeminence to publicly display private messages to humiliate men IMO.

xx

the guys would receive messages back...if they took a little time and made the messages to us a little more interesting, and a whole lot less rude....40-is-fun didnt expose any names...so theres no 'humiliation', nor anything uncouth and rude... these guys need to step up and act like adults... not sex crazed teens...My wife is messaged as an individual (even tho we r a couple) and the messages are entirely innapropriate.... and downright rude.... we should be naming and shaming these guys.... not allowing them to speak/write to women/wives/partners in language thats abrupt, rude, or sounds like they feel the womans a slut because shes on a profile at an adult site........

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wowwow11

Man 39yrs

???

I dont get it Are you un happy shocked or taking the piss..

But Fkn hwat pics babe wana have sum fun

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chasingsweetp

Woman 45yrs

I am not taking this post serioulsy...

Been laughin so hard

... Still trying to decipher what thawamma means.. HA!

Guys..take some notes what should not be sent... We all love our fun as consenting adults, but don't talk down to people you message. Would you like? Think not..

Love n peace
sweetp xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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ogrilp400

Man 56yrs

Nothing works.

Well the interesting, informative well written extensive messages that I send don't get a reply either. So its pretty obvious that messages don't get replies, full stop.

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MrsPeachyPear

Woman 48yrs

Names

Not neccessary on first contact.

Writing skills?... that's why I prefer the idea of meeting face to face, I'd rather their skill was elsewhere and some people don't translate well in writing...

Hugs... Deb

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jamesnp

Man 23yrs

Hhhmm

Surely Peachy, that for them to have learned a skill elsewhere, they must also be bright enough to learn to spell their own names or write one or two sentences which don't need to deciphered by a kindergarten teacher...

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40_is_fun

Couple Man 42yrs Woman 42yrs

You must be Joking Mylittlethrill!

It was never our intention to humiliate anyone, no usernames were published and not one message was from this website.....so the chances of the senders reading this is minimal.

Uncouth....we serious doubt a light hearted poke at some pretty poor efforts is uncouth. We actually hope that some people read this and improve their approach to people, who knows it might help them out a little.

Sorry if anyone has taken this too seriously.......

Mrs P has nailed it too.......we dont use msn at all, we dont play message ping pong.....we just meet for a chat, no pressure, public meetings for a coffee.......

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Handmaiden

Woman 49yrs

In my life

I have met some very influential, wealthy people and some not so wealthy people who have dyslexia and can not read and write. One self made multi-millionaire I know well actually left school at the age of 14 and can barely read and write. Does this mean that those who are not so literate or computer savvy should be condemned to a life of lonliness for something that is not thier fault?
Stop judging others on the basis of a misformed first comment. You may be surprized at the diamonds in the rough you just could stumble across.

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MistressT

Woman 45yrs

Uncouth messages

Quoting 'mylittlethrill'

It is uncouth to publicly publish private messages sent to you.

It is rude to humiliate them publicly.

I receive messages like this too.

One man explained to me most males receive practically no messages.

I receive minimum of 5 messages a day at my empty profile.

We have no right to complain.

We are lucky. We have so much choice. We have no preeminence to publicly display private messages to humiliate men IMO.

xx

The messages were disrespectful to start with so there is nothing uncouth in displaying them publicly as an example of what not to send. As they were sent to 40 is fun they are entitled to make use of whatever is sent to them as they wish.

We have every right to complain if we feel someone isn't treating us with at least a modicum of common civility. The messages above show neither regard or deference to the recipient. The writers have shown themselves to be too lazy to read the profile and compose a suitable message. Perhaps the 40 is fun should reply in the same manner that the message was written.

Let's keep free speech alive and refrain from telling others what they can and can't say.

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MistressT

Woman 45yrs

Simple solution

Quoting 'Handmaiden'

I have met some very influential, wealthy people and some not so wealthy people who have dyslexia and can not read and write. One self made multi-millionaire I know well actually left school at the age of 14 and can barely read and write. Does this mean that those who are not so literate or computer savvy should be condemned to a life of lonliness for something that is not thier fault?
Stop judging others on the basis of a misformed first comment. You may be surprized at the diamonds in the rough you just could stumble across.

I know of one gorgeous, highly intelligent young man that suffers from dyslexia. His solution was to find someone to type his messages for him and he also uses a spell check program designed for dyslexics. Spelling mistakes aren't the problem with the messages, it's the composition or lack of it.

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mikeandshel

Couple Man 49yrs Woman 51yrs

lol

we dont seek dyslexics (have one in the family already) or rude bastards either for that matter.... if they cant read or write, then isnt it a logical step that this sort of avenue for the meeting of others, might not suit... while we arent looking for alternates to the partner we already have...the ability to string four or five words together and form a complete sentence is a skill that too many seem to lack.... being able to read, write and speak the language of the land is desirable skill.... and certainly adds to someones attractiveness.... as couples...we have the choice to be as particular and selective as we wish.... and we certainly are, and have made no bones about that right from word one.... if a person, or persons, cant compose an intelligent introductory note to us.... there will never be any interest....and....if we spent every day sorting through the dross, looking for that diamond in the rough...we'd never get to an actual meet, let alone a playdate.... the diamond needs to come to us already cut and polished...or we'll ignore them and look at the shinier and more appealing on offer.............

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miss_cb

Woman 35yrs

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as a teacher I'm used to trying to decipher illegible and unintelligible writing so that really doesn't bother me as long as the message is ok but am I seriously expected to feel flattered by an opening message of "wannafuck?" ......ummmmmm.........."No! I really don't....... not with you anyway."

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tenacioustimmy

Man 25yrs

Disrespectful Ladies

Quoting 'mikeandshel'

the guys would receive messages back...if they took a little time and made the messages to us a little more interesting, and a whole lot less rude."

MikeandShel, I have to disagree with you - at least for the women of my age group in WA. In general I find the comments of users in this forum does tend to be somewhat different to that of the general population of RHP. I know when I had a couples profile last year (normal FM couple) we would always politely decline the messages of any suitors that we found to not be a match for whatever reason, even if they were completely outside of our seeking criteria.

But since I have joined as a single guy, even though I have followed the basic courtesy of a creating a detailed profile page, including numerous good facial photos when sending messages. Plus the content of these messages is only ever respectful and individual to the lady herself (no blanket messages). Then they rarely have the courtesy in return to reply or even acknowledge the message was sent.

I feel it simply comes down to the fact they the ladies on here have a large and varied pool of men to choose from, and they don't respect anyone that doesn't meet their incomprehensible high standards. Although I must admit this is generalised at the women I am messaging (under 30yo WA women)

Anyone care to disagree or agree?

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ChasingMidnight

Who cares...

...hell I'd be happy to donate to the Red Cross.

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It is tax deductble, right?

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MrsPeachyPear

Woman 48yrs

How much does it all have to do...

with the way RHP is advertised?... rather than rudeness or any such thing.

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MrsPeachyPear

Woman 48yrs

Those are our judgements

Quoting 'Mrs_PeachyPear'

with the way RHP is advertised?... rather than rudeness or any such thing.

but we must limit our pool of choice

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mylittlethrill

Woman 35yrs

"Entertain me"

Not joking 40-is-fun

Individuals who sent the messages published would feel humiliated when viewing this thread.

Writing a post about laughable bad decore in an anonymous house I visited for a hookup.
You recognise it is your house 40-is-fun.
You feel humiliated.

Many female profiles desire spontaneity, men try to provide it.

Most men are not Ernest Hemingway, most will not write a deep personal letter for a stranger on a swingers site.

Men, entertain me!!!!!

Just appreciate the good contacts you receive.

Not satisfied, then search for and initiate messages to the style of men you want.

Search 'Secret of Happiness is to be Thankful' on youtube, 4 minutes 14 seconds video.

A number of messages came to me thanking for my post.

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