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Not a couple but we still want to swing

Jul 02, 2012
Hindsight   Man 27yrs
Hi all! Was just wondering what peoples thoughts are for a swingers couple who aren't technically a couple. I've been casually having sex with a friend for a while now and we've been pondering the thought of doing some swinging, is it considered rude to advertise as a couple when we're not really? I see no other way of creating a joint profile without stating that we are not a couple, interested to hear opinions
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Otori  

Couple Man 30yrs Woman 30yrs

If you are playing as a couple on the night...

Then yeh, make a couple profile and list yourselves as "attached" or "ask me" but in your profile description you may want to state that you are fuck-buddies or friends-with-benefits.  I think it could put some people off-side if you don't clarify.  I don't think it's rude as such, but I could see how other couples may have reservations about two singles playing as a couple.

I think the important thing is to ensure that you both communicate with each other, ensure that she sees the casual thing as just that, a casual thing, not a potential relationship.  That could cause some major jealousy and dramas that everyone wants to avoid.  But if you're both on the same page, have some fun!
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Chasingmytail   Woman 46yrs

Swinging protocol

Wash and dry your hands, position them  so that you have a firm grip, do your best to remain focused and hold on for dear life ...try not to get distracted by the passing scenery, unless you have a safety net or lots of padding below you to cushion your fall


One a more serious note - don't leave home without clean underpants :) and a clear conscience. Be honest about your situation and other people will get in touch if they are interested. Be prepared to answer their questions (within reason) and potentially both be available to chat to people over the phone, so that they know you both genuinely interested in meeting people  (not a single man pretending to have a partner/companion).
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Paradisepair   Couple Man 40yrs Woman 40yrs

It would turn us off

But we're not really your age bracket... Part of our enjoyment is being with a couple who have genuine love and respect for each other. It's hard to describe exactly what that brings into the experience but for now we'd have no interest in fucking fuckbuddies. But I reckon there are many out there who would dig it. As mentioned before just be open in your profile about it.
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curiousgirl_MR

you'll find....

that there are heaps of other "couples" here in the same situation. We've met up with a few and found that they are less likely than a 'conventional' couple to have jealousies or other hang ups.

 

 

 

 

 

Nat ;)

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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

No dramas

Hey Nathan, I don't think that it's a problem. I would just explain that you are very good friends with benefits and that you have played together for a long while. Otherwise you should go check out the events section and hit some swingers clubs, sex parties or social events.


I occassionally go to sex clubs with a good buddy of mine and people assume we are a couple as we obviously know each other well and it's a natural assumption to make. It's all good :))


Meeka xx
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WHY_NOT_LOOK   Woman 40yrs

partypair

Yes make a couple profile but only use it when your together, best to be honest before you meet up with anyone that your FB wanting to play with couples.

Ive had a couple profile before and was always straight up but we also had our single profiles to so most people knew us both from cam chat room.

And agree no jealous partners from this deal

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