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    | Oct 29, 2007
Kat_and_Country   Woman 36yrs
What is it with guys playing mind games and why do they do it for?
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iama_sweetgirl   Woman 37yrs

Are they playing games...

Or is it simply that men and women are so diff, that what we see as games, they just think is normal... in otherwords, perhaps they are just clueless!
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paulas   Man 45yrs

Mind Games

I don't know why either but the girls are just as bad you see some dont even bother to read the messages or even reply. Maybe they should start a list as to who are guenuine.
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Neva_Ending_Love   Woman 26yrs

mind games..

i think often it is a misconception or misunderstanding.. guys could say that girls play games and girls will say that guys do... but my opinion is that one dosnt understand the others objectives.. i could even be thought of as someone who plays games because i will ask alot of questions but wont always meet someone if they dont seem to be what im looking after.. sometimes it can be a test... ask different questions to see what the answers are.. you mind games but sometimes they can be informing and fun... i either tell someone to quit playing around or i play back just for fun... well thats just how i see it... its not always done to hurt people or anoy them... if it hurts you or anoys you tell them to stop...? hope you find your answer
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platinumblonde69   Woman 49yrs

Men

Well i think men like to think they are in control and in their ideal world would luv a lady who does what she is told. God forbid if we have a brain and challenge them on any issue. Not all men though. I need to stress that. Some men are very genuine and think a woman with a brain is a good thing. (If any are reading this..email me...hahahaha...)
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delete_this_acco

a man with a mind... really??

is that what the women on here are after... lol... guess i've been going about it all wrong... trying to appeal to the female brain and all... i mean look at my profile... i'm all about sex ( i think not )... so plat tell anyone why i am not inundated with messages and flirts? the eternal enigma if anyone has an answer email me phil
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shuckme

women plus brains = hmmm :-)

Women with a brain are indeed a good thing :-) Even prepared to state as much on my profile.
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escorpion   Man 35yrs

who plays mind games?

Don't tell me that girls don't play mind games... you girls are worst than guys! A simple example: a yes means no, and a no means yes. If the guy you are talking about is playing games, sometime is wrong, shouldn't u be the one playing games?
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Good_ol_Davo   Man 38yrs

It depends on the person as to what they are up to...

It's also about motive, some play mind games because they think they are smart and have the idea in their head "Treat them mean, keep them keen" Others have merged Stupidity and Arrogrance into the same thing. Or have an ego so big they need to feed it themselves. Then some are playing the flirting game, or are at least trying to, and in the process are being too smart for their own good. It goes to motive and an expectation of a response. (Translation for some of the guys: That means Action and Re-Action) Personally I don't think I'm smart enough for mind games, I always loose. hehe
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Gold_Edition   Man 37yrs

Mind games

Everyone plays games. No one is genuine 100% of the time. You should know really early that you're not hearing and doing what you want to. There must have been at least one time where you've broken up with a guy, but dragged it out way too long because you didn't want to hurt his feelings. Now in the time before breaking up, in your mind it was over, in his mind you were still ok. If this is a situation you can relate to....... in that time, were you playing mind games with him? Of course not. But he'd think so.
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Ruggedly_Rugged

Is this thread a mind game?

I think the original question is so vague it's a mind game. A more specific description of whats bothering you might be in order. Generally speaking men aren't all that good at mind games, they start them alot later in life than women and men being the way they are struggle to keep the game going. On the other hand men can be cunning in the way they go about getting what they want. Generally a guy will be everything you want him to be until he gets what he wants, if he wants more he'll continue being what you want him to be but should he lose interest its all over lol.
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litle_red_engin

because....

we have to play mind games because women never do.. you ppl really let the side down.. if you played a few more mind gmaes your self (or any even) we would not have to ballance the chi buy doing your share.. sheesh.. easy answer really.. my fave mind games are.. mastermind, majong and carcassonne.. LRE.
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DJuan

Why do we play games?

I play games to keep things interesting. It's human nature to be attracted to the "out of the ordinary" and what some would call games. It's a push/pull that ultimately keeps things alive and passionate. Human's will adapt to any constant, and eventually we will take even our true love for granted. "You don't know what you've got till it's gone." Sometimes playing a little game can re-ignite some flames that may have died down over time. Even the physical act of sex requires this "push-pull" game. If a guy just stuck it in and left it, there wouldn't be much excitement or arousal. It's the penetrating deep and then pulling out, varying the speed, depth, rhythm and angle. It's the changes that excite us. You may not always like the games, but they do arouse... -DJ
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iama_sweetgirl   Woman 37yrs

CLUELESS

I find it very sad that guys still dont get the fact that girls dont like being fucked around! If you want to get some, then guys, i suggest u wake the fuck up & have the balls to b honest & straight up!!!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, ok i'v had my little vent, all good now. big wet kisses to all who want them... xx iama xx
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mattym85

Mind Games

i think it isnt just guys who play mind games i have been fucked around by girls in the past and it hurts a lot if you do care for them like i did so i know how you feel on that level i cant speak for every bloke here but i am not iof the habit of srewing with people and playing mind games if i say soething i mean it good or bad Matt
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gongman4u   Man 45yrs

re clueless

if i was anymore f...en honest i would be a boy scout! my balls are full of honesty! and i get nowhere!!!! poor me. lol a lot of ladies are confused with the concept of playing mind games, oh sorry they NEVER seem to mix up mind games with prick teasing??? ok ok i suppose teasing is an art form and no FEMALE would dare do that!! lol guys as long as the ladies have that weapon between their legs then they can pretty well do and pick whoever they want! that weapon of mass destruction is the ultimate guys mind fuck!! um.. big hug to those that i may of offended
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bender_is_back   Man 35yrs

RE : Mind Games

I think the Girls Play more mind games, I know personaly I don't play mind games I like to get down to it......
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jewel82   Woman 32yrs

Mind games

depends what you define as "mind games". Does each party always have to be 100% sure about what they want? Maybe "not knowing what you want" is sometimes misinterpreted as mind games by others. J
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DJuan

You guys crack me up!

Do you really think that a relationship can exist without games? It's all a power struggle for the first few years of even the most committed relationship. My parents have been married for 33 years now, and my grandparents for almost 60! The games keep everyone on their toes and guessing. Maybe I'm misinterpreting the original question, but both men and women play mind games and there's no way to change that. Some people play dirty, and maybe that's where the confusion and hurt comes in. If everyone was perfectly open and honest about everything then maybe games wouldn't be necessary. Anyone who claims to be perfectly and totally honest is definitely a liar. -DJ
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upichku

Mind games?

I think mind games are a result of two things in sane people! 1. Fear of rejection/failure 2. Not sure of what they want
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dazzler85   Man 29yrs

Mind Games

Combine what both DJuan and upichku have to say (and I'm sure others have said if I had the time to read the other replies) and you have your answer. There are good mind games (DJuan's argument) and 'bad' mind games (upichku). The former are for the purpose of having fun and maintaining that feeling of adventure and unknowing that you often find early on in relationships (think flirting). The latter are more a form of issues that someone may have - those issues causing them to carry out actions that deviate from what would be normally accepted (perhaps not quite insanity, but I wouldn't call it completely grounded). Then of course you have the middle ground. This is in the grey area situated between 'good' and 'bad'. It could be thought of as good for oneself and potentially bad for the partner. This area would be occupied by those mind games that are played by one party to test the reactions of the other party. If the reactions indicate that the second party has the attributes that the 'tester' wants in a partner then bonus points are to be had for that party. Otherwise... well you know the story. So in short... Are mind games good or bad? Well.... it depends on how you want to look at it.

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