....well all I can say it happens lot more often to men...the BJ part that is It seems to be more a trust/comfort thing just like condoms :)

there's guys that won't go down on a pussy? fuck me dead they don't know what the're missing out on!

One word kiss... DUST. xxSoubiii

If they don't go down on you? mmmm ditch 'em, i do if a girl doesn't smoke the pole cya later. There's nothing finer than eating vagina. If they don't bite the beaver do they really care that much about you and your sexual needs/desires! or are they just after another notch in the bed head? The more you put in the more you receive. (Effort i mean not the more dick you put in.) In summing up no oral kick 'em into touch, game over.   Michael

My opinion, hey if you get a Head Job out of me the least you can do is recipricate shy

They don't know what they're missing out on. I LOVE eating pussy, can spend hours down there if the woman will let me. Heh, heh, heh. But I guess it is a personal taste, so to speak. A

i know u asked the girls for an answer kiss i hope u dont mind my input; well , its personal prefferance  Kiss  , but personallyi preffer to start the event off bye doin just that. i mean i do enjoy a nice passionate session of kissing and fondleing to get the blood pumping. as i do enjoy a good kisser just as much as i love going down on a girl. i dont mind if i dont get one in return , dont get me wrong im a guy i love a good hj but if the girl dont let me go down on her the dont get anythin else from me that simple. start with the most pleasurable thing and finish with the same too nuthin more yummy. besides if it was u i was goin down on kiss u would have to ask thats for sure hehehe mwah.

I think the least a guy can do is reciprocate, im choosy to i wont just suck anyone and i wont swallow but still get the job done and have had no complaints so far but its just rude not to even adgknowledge that they havent done it and after a few times it just gets frustrating. I dont know about other chicks but i start to think and analyse all the reasons and "whats wrong, why dont you want to?", I am very clean and would always respect a guy if he wanted me to shower first but again normally its not an issue, I can drive myself crazy over some lazy selfish piece of shit. Not lately tho, my whole mission at the moment is not to care but still have the self concious thoughts. I dont know what to say here, i guess it really depends on the guy and what he means to you. Also i find that can be the bonus of having a regular as you have the chance to have these conversations and both adapt to make it all the more satisfying. If id asked and been told no never unless there was some significant reason why not i would be pissed especially if i had been doing it. Other than that, i say dont do it either and maybe your message will get across.... Then, this is where i start thinking in circles....Do i want a guy to do it if he really didnt want to, wouldnt it be less satisfying if he was hating every minute wishing you would hurry up. Sorry all dont know why i bothered posting, I over think, over analyse and frankly its not meant to be that f*"king hard...and since when did this become a problem, back in the early days for me it was a given, sex without oral...whats that?????

If you get something good, and there is nothing better then a girl who loves giving head and cum, then you rely don’t have an excuse not to, and besides what’s better then putting a big cheeky smile on a girls face and more to the point sex should be a give and take experience. Though there are those girls who don’t go down, won’t let you go down on her, and wen it come time to cum your dick becomes some kinda acid spitting alien and want nothing to do with it, I have only been with 2 girls like that, 2 to many talk about boring sex. Anyway Kiss I guess if they wont keep you a happy girl, then don’t give them any fun ether. keith

Mr lips here. It's not just about the guy. A lot of men blow their load, roll over and go to sleep. Not here. The woman is just as, if not, more important. It takes about 20 minutes for a woman to reach sexual peak, (orgasm). A bloke, (everybody knows) LOL. I like to please the woman beforehand until she can't take anymore and just wants you inside her. But that's just me. There is nothing like making a woman cum with your mouth and sometimes, in your mouth. Stay Horney People. PS. Would love to go down on you kiss.

I just took my tongue to the renew store and its bigger an better than before- I took my lips there as well and they boosted them up and I got me a straw the size of montana------- so wheres the tastee treat?????

if a man does not go down on a woman he is gotta be fuck1ng gay. but still in the closet. all true straigth men love pussy thats a fact hope it helps

I have had a guy who didnt like licking .... he just didnt like it. He did it a few times cos i made him feel like he had to but in the end what right did i have?? The sex was still good and i could always get a good lickin at home lol. Its the same as anything in sex some ppl do things that others dont and i dont think they should  be judged accordingly. I know that the things i choose not to do - no one could force me to do... at least he tried. Anyway each to their own ppl always find what they want from different ppl. cheers Tina

I would never miss out on the chance to go down on my partner. It my fav part of foreplay.

well im guessing it a personal taste thing to some ppl just cant see how much fun it can be. tho if the lady is a heavy smoker its not much fun really cause as a non smoker it just tastes like nicotine might as well swirl me tongue around a ashtry. tho a good clean pussy is to die for, its just been to long since ive had the pleasures of the mutt mal

Hard to imagine Having sex without going down ??????????????????? how do you do that? Would be like having a shower with your clothes on whats the point. Sex without going down first couldnt it I dont think..........nah def couldnt Thats just weird And besides I love doing it and it does have to be returned as long as i can make you feel good thats all that counts Darren

If they don't enjoy it, fair enough.  Its their right not to do it. I know women who don't give head jobs and that's their right not to too. Personally I wouldn't go there again with someone who isn't into oral . 

Personnally I think that going down on a woman is one of the most enjoyable things to do when having sex.... I Love the taste of a warm wet woman

oh this is such a silly thing not to like or do for that matter, its essential to gr8sex i recon. mind u i dont mind if i dont get any but i do insist on giving (but i do love to pleasure others) i could even just go down on a girl and expect nuthin more and i would still be happy. not that i dont like a girl goin down on me i do . but im a giver of pleasure so its not that important that i get more important i give (well to me anyway)

Hint ladies,maybe somegirls dont smell so good down there.... u know ammonia is not a turn on.Try wash after piss.(just know I'm gonna cop it for this)Guys too should wash up.