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Men who are satisfied in just satisying a woman

Jun 07, 2008
charm069   Woman 42yrs
My apologies if this thread has been done before. but... I am meeting more and more men who claim they derive their satisfaction by seeing the woman completely satiated and are happy not to finish themselves as long as this is achieved. I can understand this maybe in more S&M situations but what is the common thought out there, would you prefer to be left "hanging" as long as she's had enough and begged not to go on?
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Ford_Fiend

one way satisfaction.

My Answer. Hell Yes For one its great that the woman gets off so much she cant possibly take anymore, secondly if she is at the point pleasure is turning to pain you dont want to take it any futher because thirdly if she enjoy's herself that much she will want more and or recommend you to her friends. Now having said that if it became a pattern eg everytime i had sex with a woman she would cum her maximum times before i could complete my sexual gratification as well then i might be inclinded to find someone else. With every sexual encounter ive had during my sexual career the main focus has been to make, coax or help the woman to orgasm. ( something im proud and with only a little trumpet blowing to say ive been very succesful with so far ) hope that helps a little :D Fordy
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daytimeme   Man 50yrs

the girl first

I also have that thought, if i see my sex partner having pleasure it also adds to my pleasure if not it makes it all the better for me..... So to say I,m left hanging is not a phrase i would use, more it makes the experience much better than the girl not getting off and the male roll over and go to sleep.... Not me.... But Charm i would love to show you... Daytimeme
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Muppet_Slapper   Man 42yrs

Men who are satisfied.......

Hey Charm..... Remember that night a year ago when I made you cum in my shower, squirt in my bed and you did the uninmaginable by making me cum twice in 5 minutes?? Neither of us were unsatisfied and I'd LOVE to see you leave me hanging...... Blake      xox
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Mananachronism

Sometimes...

Sure, once in a while I'll be in the mood to do that.  Life can be boring running around satisfying all ones desires ALL the time; it can be fun just satisfying her.  But most of the time I prefer mutual satisfaction.
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xxTinaxx

satisfaction guaranteed

Yep Im all for mutual satisfaction... I like to see my man satified as well as I myself like to feel sated at the end of a session. Has to be both ways for me. Tina
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charm069   Woman 42yrs

Satisfied.

Tina I'm with you which is why I supposed I'm a bit puzzled, I get as much pleasure seeing my partner as satisified as me if not more. I guess why I'm putting the question out there is to see if this is the 'new' line that men are maybe trying on. Blake .. a year already, never leave u hanging babe. Hope to see u Friday at the Bump n Grind xxx
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karrinyupDavid

MY 2 CENTS WORTH

well i do enjoy pleasuring my partners. and i dont mind if shes the only one who ... to quote a phrase"gets off" as if that is the case u can be sure im having a great time too. i dont have to cum too. the pleasure of pleasing is good enough for me . but i do enjoy being pleasured too. what guy doesnt. mutuall is great but its just not somethin that happens too often. so i do enjoy just giveing after all getting others off gets me off...
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2young   Woman 42yrs

OMG Muppet Slapper

I so hope you and charm are VERY good friends and your post was just a friendly joke! If its not it would have to be THE lowest dig and ploy for attention that I have ever seen posted in the forums and I hope the moderators have the decency to remove it!
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Muppet_Slapper   Man 42yrs

Men who......

Bump'n'Grind...... I'll be there Fri nite hon........doing the same job I was doing when we first met.....      ;-) Blake          xox
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Muppet_Slapper   Man 42yrs

Men who......

Well spotted 2young.... We ARE good mates actually......been so for a year or more........... M_S
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panda__car   Man 42yrs

silly saying

I always thought that the "I'm just interested in seeing the woman pleasured" thing is just a crock that guys somehow think will make women swoon at the thought of some guy lavishing them with their every need. It's not just about proving how much of a stud you think you are, it's about the to and fro of giving *and receiving* pleasure. It's ok to like being pleasured if you're a guy! It's not wrong! It doesn't make you a selfish user to want to sexual pleasuring to go both ways! And let's see how many of these guys out there are really willing to walk the walk and forgo ALL future orgasms if, as they say, it's all about pleasing the woman. That means, no cumming when in the company of a woman, ever. It might come as a revelation but some women like to see their guy getting off too...
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perthman000

yes

i like cumin  and then talkin-- isnt that something nice:):)
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xxTinaxx

agree

Panda_car I agree with u ....  Its is equally as important to me to see  my man get his rocks off - that is a big turn on for me ... to place my hand on his chest and feel the heart rate change... MMMmmm . I had a lover once who used to jerk off everytime! before he came to see me so that he could 'pull an all nighter' ffs i soon got sick of that,, and he wouldnt listen when i told him this is not what i want .. he didnt last long lol
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skinny1   Woman 49yrs

mmmmmmmm

MMM when ever I get an offer of I just want to please you I want nothing in return. WARNING lights go on is this guy all there. Personally if I don't orgasm during sex I feel riped off, and I find it hard to believe a guy would go to all the trouble for nothing. I don't mind laying back doing nothing getting the full treatment, but whats 5 Minutes of your time at the end of it to get the guy off and then we all feel like a good days work is done. And personal preference cum at the same time.
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kellyanne_521   Woman 32yrs

ahuh

yeah they say they're into pleasing you and they want nothing in return then they cum on your face :P porn style bwahahaha
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panda__car   Man 42yrs

Rock spiders

I always thought it because they both get into small cracks. But I could be wrong... I often am!
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girtholemew

bit one sided...

i love making a woman cum hard but while i can accept that were' too tired/out of time/about to be sprung by the cops etc i really do feel like i've missed out if i dont get to cum too. i'd prob have to finish myself off in the car on the way home.... ;)
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panda__car   Man 42yrs

Ohhhh-kayyyy

I'm not quite sure how my answer to the rock spider question ended up in here... it seems the reply button got itself a bit confuserated.  So if you read it and thought "WTF?", that's why.
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tinks65   Woman 46yrs

mutual satisfaction...

I like to see my man satified... and me also... who comes first....makes no matter.. its the final result that counts...lolol
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Spankluvr

No BS

Ha ha - I'm not going to bullshit that I am not interested in finishing off too but my biggest kick by far is from her release(s).  The quickening of breath, tension in body and toes and then the finale... mmm..mmmm - delightful and always makes me harder. Being left hanging is a bit ordinary and seflish though...  Does she think she is a bloke or sumpin?  ;-)  Once in a while if she is totally spent is understandable, but regularly, then time for a trade-in...

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