Why do blokes feel the need to play games with girls who are genuinely here for fun and actually meeting people?
I find myself sexually frustrated and mentally frustrated at the lack of guys who actually have the balls... pardon the inteneded pun, to actually show up to a date, or to make the move towards meeting when a hick has indicated she is receptive to the possibility of having earth shattering, mind blowing sex.
I have spent the last week having conversations with various guys in my area, trying to find someone to help scratch my sexual itch. It's been a while since I've had good sex with someone.
It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack... someone who will make the effort to meet with me, isn't hoping for a supermodel and is disappointed when they meet me.... ie, has a fantasy in their head's despite the fact I'm always honest about who I am, what I look like and what I'm looking for. Someone who will travel 10 or 15 kms to meet with me. Just lazy.
They cannot hold conversations that don't involve saying, hey, wanna fuck....
They don't read my profile to get an idea of what I'm looking for....
They don't bother to reply to messages I have sent.
They think they must be so good or awesome in the sack that I should bow down in front of them and worship their cock.
Now if you want to play naked Twister, I have 20 years of yoga to astound you with.
If you want to play strip Trivial Pursuit... bring it on honey... Mensa....
If you want to have fun in and out of the sack... and I like you.... there is a fair chance we will get naked and rut like horny chimps, talk dirty and end up showering together... simple.
But I wish guys would stop complaining about the lack of girls on this site who never actually meet anyone. There are plenty of hot, horny girls who are out there and looking. We just choose to keep our private lives private and don't put it out there so much.
What do you think...
Most entertaining, I can see some valid points on both sides....
The truth is definetly the way to go....
If the truth is spoken no matter what and all the options are on the table then one can make a well informed decision about the choices they decide to take.
So if a guy says I'm after a fuck then the choice can be made, if a guy says i want regular sex with one person then the choice can be made but don't lie and say all the crap we don't need to here just because you think without your not going to get laid...
As for you boys you are as funny as fuckk...lmfao
Rish
you do realise that women do this too and all the time?
I have been single for most of my life i cannot get laid or find a girl for a relationship. I am a nice person, i am not full of anger or hate, i am always helpfull with people and extremely nicely spoken in person, in fact im very shy and a soft speak, but i treat people right, ie ive had friends from school for the last 20 years and we all get along well and they see me for who i am, and NOT ONE GIRL SEES THIS. I am fit and not fat i do have a big face but im not fat as ive been told.
this is my typical experience, i find a profile and respond to it...... i enver get a answer. repeat and repeat and nothing, i move on find another one and another one and another one. i then get sick of the rejections and change my profile and remove my pic, now i send messages and i get replys asking for a pic, so i send a pic and i get ignored, no response and they just stop talking to me like i am NOTHING.
when and if i ever ever get as far as getting msn chats going i try really hard to let my personaility come thru and i usually get comments like, i really like the way you talk and you sound like a really nice person but soon as they see my pic i get sorry your not my type...... and they dont even talk to me online i have to always initiate contact cos its seems so many women i speak to are speaking to many men online and im in a friggin competition wtf? so every woman in this site has rejected me and im not anyones type.. my god WTF?
im sick of the games sick of the lies sick of the women on here with unrealistc expectaions and sick of the assholes.
so stop blaming men for the game playing cos im sick and fukin tired of getting hurt by you lot, you dont even give a fuck how nice i am nothing i say or do changes anything, and i am not about to lie just to get sex cos i dont know how to and i refuse to be a low life scum.
are there any geunine women out there that are not judgemental and do not live in a fantasy world that actualy want to meet a nice guy. FFS nice guys nver get sex and always get abuse.
why do nice guys get abuse? cos i have been called a loser and many other horrible things when i question what women want after they reject me.