Why do blokes feel the need to play games with girls who are genuinely here for fun and actually meeting people?
I find myself sexually frustrated and mentally frustrated at the lack of guys who actually have the balls... pardon the inteneded pun, to actually show up to a date, or to make the move towards meeting when a hick has indicated she is receptive to the possibility of having earth shattering, mind blowing sex.
I have spent the last week having conversations with various guys in my area, trying to find someone to help scratch my sexual itch. It's been a while since I've had good sex with someone.
It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack... someone who will make the effort to meet with me, isn't hoping for a supermodel and is disappointed when they meet me.... ie, has a fantasy in their head's despite the fact I'm always honest about who I am, what I look like and what I'm looking for. Someone who will travel 10 or 15 kms to meet with me. Just lazy.
They cannot hold conversations that don't involve saying, hey, wanna fuck....
They don't read my profile to get an idea of what I'm looking for....
They don't bother to reply to messages I have sent.
They think they must be so good or awesome in the sack that I should bow down in front of them and worship their cock.
Now if you want to play naked Twister, I have 20 years of yoga to astound you with.
If you want to play strip Trivial Pursuit... bring it on honey... Mensa....
If you want to have fun in and out of the sack... and I like you.... there is a fair chance we will get naked and rut like horny chimps, talk dirty and end up showering together... simple.
But I wish guys would stop complaining about the lack of girls on this site who never actually meet anyone. There are plenty of hot, horny girls who are out there and looking. We just choose to keep our private lives private and don't put it out there so much.
What do you think...
and people usually do.
Cynical... the thing is I usually do block, delete, etc.... but there are still stupid women out there who pander and put up with this sort of behaviour. So men get the idea that treating a women like shit is acceptable. That manners don't mean bullshit... well if thats how women want men to behave and treat them, then I may as well dig a deep hole and not even bother....
I guess I am just looking for someone who is willing to do what they say they want to do. I'm not a frigid bitch, or an ice princess, just a chick that doesn't like being used.
If ya want a one timer, cool, be honest, if ya want to be FWB then say that at some point, but don't throw it out there and not mean it because you think you won't get a shag.
I appreciate honesty.
I also appreciate a contact number from guys who want to shag with me. Not endless email ping pong.
Ridge.... I'm here and waiting babe.... always like a man who can use his tongue for more than pleasure....
Stalky, your a naughty, naughty boy...bend over and prepare to be spanked.
DRJG.... old man emu suspension is apparently the best a man can get....at least up here...lol.... and the wet season is almost over.....bring on the dry....
Awwwhh Ok Jinxy.. you're absolutely right. I meant to say "spit roast". Well at least Frack_Me seems to have devised a suitable punishment and I am vewy vewy sorry if I caused you any twuble. :p
Jean, get the van ready.... wooohoo Road trip, Ridge.. .we're going to get a spanking!!!
Hugs
Stalkyboy
Im loving your attitude there Frack... well there will be three of us.. so I suppose you better keep all those options open... Not sure exactly which way Doc Jean leans.. but I have my suspicions that Ridge is a whip man... I mean look at that grin. :p
Gaz
We don't need to be told twice boys...
Jean, how's that suspension coming along? Something about and old man and an emu... Sounds kinky.
Sounds like you're in a little bit of trouble Stalky...
Soph, social interaction always involves manipulating the senses, the opinions and the will of others by one means or another, by assertion or by co-ersion that's how people get their way. Self-determination is all well and good.... but we are, all of us, susceptible to these external forces even though we may not like to admit it. We may like to say we're NSA yet we all have our strings waiting to be pulled. lmfao... And as I see it, women are all about strings.... if a guy pulls the wrong string her legs will slam shut faster than the doors on a Death Star... hehe. Seems to me that guy's strings are usually buzz cut and so considerably less tangled. Our buttons are easier to press.. our strings are easier to pull. And there's plenty of influence from the outside for everyone..... our decisions are influenced by all kinds of things, not only by other people.. by our environment or whatever it is, your particular set of influences are what make you unique....
For these reasons, it's not true that the stuff a woman has no control over is all of the stuff that the responsibility for which she has relinquished. And rest assured that men are manipulative mongrels, some more so than others.... But as you are fully aware, this is not a trait that is limited to my gender.
Seriously, the games men play to get their way..... are the same games women play except that women are obviously much more adept than is Stalky.
Stalky
Instead, I support the emancipation of men from the clutches of all things matriarchal... Free range men. It's the way we were meant to be. Isnt that right Ridge. Ridge? Are you there buddy? Whitey?
Stalky<<< thinks Whitehawk too long for a name and from here on in shall refer to him as "Milky".
She doesn't stop at just "Single guys don't bother"... She really lays the slipper in doesn't she!!! Wow!!.
We shouldn't be so quick to re-route (although the other route is through Kalgoorlie, so I guess we should auction it off and see what sort of excitement or anger Kal has to offer). Jinx is only knocking back single guys. There's like umm... one, two... three.. Yep three of us. So we're a couple... well not a couple - are we a triple?
PS - FRACK - Old Man Emu LOL... You don't know us. Off the shelf shit isn't going to be able to cope, not even OME. We're talking remote caninster, Paris-Dakar type suspension.
Sophie, excellent comment!
Too many people - and I am talking about both men and women here - just aren't true to themselves. They get online in hear and portray themselves as someone who is liberated, out there so to speak. They talk the talk, get in the flow of what is going on. But they can't back it up in real life. Some spend so much time online that they create a persona that they know they can't replicate in real life. Yet they persist with this persona and eventually, they will get caught out. Someone will call their bluff, expecting to meet that person they see online, not knowing that the person only exists in cyber space. Then of course, these people who have created this persona blame and bitch the poor person who accepted that persona as actual!
Consider what you do online is like an advertisment for yourself. You do the wrong add and you will attract the wrong response. You do reap what you sow.
mooka
Jeeese Jean... you really are a genius. I bags the middle. :p I also love how you undermined the system there and saw a shadow of hope where we saw none. Skilled man!
I've been taking your advice.. you know... trying to humour up my posts as you recommended.. trying not to be so serious all the time. Did you see how I took that women's lib movement quip.. and coupled it with Libra... ? I mean.. the burning bra v's the Libra... was I too obvious? Maybe I need help with the delivery Doc. You don't mind if I call you Doc do you? I just noticed other people were starting to call you Doctor Jean Girard.. and ... well, I'd hate to assume too much... I kind of thought you were Prof JG actually.. or maybe even Dean? Head of School at least. OK what?
It's not possible. Whatever you present here is still you. Whether you are being truthful or not, it is still a fragment of you that is exposed. Your lies expose you and your honesty exposes you. It's probably that when you meet someone in person you will "see" more of them... or rather sense more of them... especially if that person intentionally lets that happen by letting you in. (see my post on armour and the barriers people create around themselves).
Here on line you see a fragment of someone.... usually an anonymous fragment... but an actual fragment none the less. Role play here.. role play in real life... there's no difference. The purpose of actually meeting someone is to know them better... and smell their pheremones. :p An individual may not be the person you imagined them to be.. but that fragment that drove you to investigate further still exists. Well I think so... and their pheremones help you determine if that attraction is real or imagined. THat's why it is important to root first and ask questions later. :p
Oh I reserve my right to differ! I have met women who have been the life of the chat room, the wittiest voice in a forum. Yet in real life, they are like church mice, timid, afraid. They know they can't be that person online.
I was a member of another site who use to hold regular drinks nights. Now these drink nights were a revelation. Only about half the people who actually turned up were in anyway like there online persona. Yes all the classics were there: the woman who was the darling of the room, the one who was the most outlandish in chat, spent the entire evening hiding in a corner; the guy who always talked himself up as the baddest guy in town turned out to be a little wimp.
You may be right Stalky, there is a little bit of that person in their larger than life cyber world but who the hell is going to wait for the true person to turn up. You organise to meet them and they turn out to be totally different from what you imagine. Would you hang around to see if they improved, would you ask them out for a second, third or fourth date, hoping they get their act together enough to open up? If the woman you expect to meet has portrayed herself as a sex goodess yet acts like a nun on the meet, would you hang around and take that time to get to know her????
As always Miss BJ.. it's impossible to find fault with your line of argument. Which reminds me... exactly when is the annual general meeting of the MissBJ Fan club meeting? It must be soon!
Stalk
both on line and in reality.... all the fragility and crassness, the good girl and the naughty bitch, who wants respect both in the chatroom and in the bedroom.
Having manners and treating a women with the respect she deserves is not an old fashioned notion and should never be... in the same way that men deserve being treated with respect as well.
I guess i'm saying, I'm with BJ.... be honest, if a girl wants a hot shag, she's probably gonna say yes, but don't treat her like an idiot and lie to her.... like BJ I can be as nice as pie, but shit me off and I'll name and shame ya from here till armagedon.....and I'm not talking about the Bruce Willis version....
That profile is me.... those pictures are me.... I like gentleness to begin with so I get comfortable with a new man, and then I go off like a frog in a sock on a BBQ....
And Dashie.... I am no dead root..... believe me when I say it. I just choose the wrong men to waste my energy on.
You gotta kiss a lot of frogs to find the priince, right!
Games guys play
I bought a packet of soft toffee lollies... the kind I know my wife loves.... so when packing her lunch today (she works in the fashion industry ~ you should be able to tell by my clothes :p)..... I put a dozen of the toffees in a lolly bag.... and on the lollie bag I write.... "each time you eat one.. "think of my stiff cock"...
Games girls play
Thanks for the lollies, Todd. (her name for my dick). I thought of you all day... and the in house model also loved them.