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Jan 28, 2012
samjaye   Woman 41yrs
Ok, Ive been seeing this guy for 4 months now...initially he was single, then got with another chic 2 wks into it..then moved in with her "for convenience" so he told me. Everytime Ive gone to call it off, he assures me it wont be long b4 he'll move in with me as he has a "connection" with me & he's sick of playing "pretend" with her!.He wont even admit to her being his "girlfriend" etc......Ive NEVA been the "other woman" & well, if I was reading this from someone else, Id think she was totally "niave"...but when they keep stringing u along its hard not to believe them...basically...what should I do now, as Im feeling more and more like "trash" & feeling guilty about his "girlfriend"
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zphinx   Woman 44yrs

Next!

 

the guys a dick and just using you and you are letting him do it, believing his crap.

 

Move on to another guy who doesnt jerk you around

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dazichane   Woman 55yrs

Just do it

You know what to do....Just do it
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goodgrlzsayplz

Honey

Guilt won't help anyone but do remember that what he has done to her he will have no problem doing to you.

Don't get hopeful

Don't get attached

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Art01   Man 36yrs

I agree with zphinx

move on, that's not the way to treat anyone male or female, you'll be the next one he will do it too
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Handmaiden  

Woman 49yrs

I'm with the others.

You know what you would say if this was a friend talking to you about her life. You are being taken for a fool as is the girlfriend. What does she have to say in all this? Does she have a different or same story as yourself? Maybe it is time for you both to kick his sorry arse out.
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cavey50   Man 52yrs

Wha???

This IS a joke isn't it???

 

Somebody tell me this is a joke!!!!

 

:)

caveman...

x

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lovemice   Couple Man 42yrs Woman 33yrs

hmm...

People stay in the relationship for a reason... What is it that is keeping you with him? From what you are writing he is a complete bastard...

If you are afraid to stay w/o sex, than what RHP is for?

:)

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Stalky

Change your phone number and move across town.

That sounds like a mind game to me. Who needs the complications. Frankly, this is exactly why I prefer anonymous sex. Hugs Stalky
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kittykat69er   Woman 44yrs

desperado

gee isnt this a sex site hun - didnt take him long to move in with her and know hes telling u he wants to move in with u - hmmm u must have pretty low self esteem if youre willing to accept wat hes saying - dont ya think hes only gonna move onto the next one when hes had enough of u or are u gonna become a couple and swing together- reeks of a needy woman - stand up for yourself and move onto the next one
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MrandMrsErotic   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 47yrs

Chain of events...

Reading the first few lines there...Was with you, then 2 weeks in started screwing some new chick, then moved in with this new chick for convienence, and you kept seeing him despite this...for the last 4 months hoping he will move in with you (inconvienient or not).

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I'm afraid you're not 'The other woman' but the (proposed) 'Host for a Parasite' by the sounds of things?

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mikeandshel   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 51yrs

umm

maybe..........the first 2 weeks his 'girlfriend' was away...so he was available....then...when she 'returned' he 'moved in' with her?........... i'd say she was always his gal, and you were duped....maybe??
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Meeka100   Woman 41yrs

Move before you get further involved.

Agree with Mike on this one... sounds about right to me.

xx
Meeka
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MrsPeachyPear   Woman 48yrs

samjay :-)


Quoting 'dazichane'
    You know what to do....Just do it    
Sounds to me like you know what you want to do too and you're after some extra support. It's hard when you want to believe in someone but if you're not happy with how you're feeling, I think that's the most important thing. :-)

All the best with that. Hugs... Mrs P    xxx

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mikeandshel   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 51yrs

yea

bail...take the lesson on the chin, and chalk it up to experience.... theres no happiness to be found with this guy...not long term anyway.... guys like this are a dime a dozen, they'll suck you in....take what they want....and discard you... do the same..... throw this one out with the old dishwater.... he's served a purpose, even if thats making you a little more wary and whole lot tougher...you deserve  better...go and find it, and make the finding into as much fun as you can!
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mmfcouplefun  

Couple Man 52yrs Woman 39yrs

Move on.

You know deep down you want to get rid of them, otherwise you would not have posted the question. Okay if you need validation her goes, piss him off, don't answer his calls, emails or texts and don't look back!
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Ramakin   Man 41yrs

There's an old saying

"Fool me once, shame on you! Fool me twice, shame on me!" ...avoid the "twice" bit and just walk away.
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Morticiaaa   Woman 43yrs

Gotta know when to walk away

You are worth more than his empty promises and bullshit lines. Remember that.

And as ALL the other peeps on this thread have said.....walk away.  Today.

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contemplating1   Man 52yrs

OMG!

No!

Forgive me!

Sorry!

I've read enough!

 

"Just piss him off now!"

 

 

I had to say that....(Forgive my language)

 

I've seen it all too often!

 

Much to be said for finding a 'lil honesty somewhere!

 

 

 

 

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MistressT   Woman 45yrs

First, take this advice

Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz'
   

Guilt won't help anyone but do remember that what he has done to her he will have no problem doing to you.

Don't get hopeful

Don't get attached

   
Second, get back out there and find someone worthy of your attention.
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Jean_Girard   Man 36yrs

Blackhearted Bastards....

I can't believe the advice you people are sprouting on here.  Clearly she should hang around. He's not in love with this other tramp that he's moved in with - and he's really truly in love with the OP.  That's what he said.  Isn't a man's word good enough anymore?  Sheesh!!

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I say stick it out, but take every opportunity to randomly bump into him at the shops, restaurants, motels that he might frequent with the tramp... just to say hi... and you know - freak him out a little.

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PS - Go through his rubbish too.  That's always fun!

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