Yes I like to use my energies to see a woman orgasm in various ways. Yes they should be satisfied BUT
when its my turns in a session do I take. Bear in mind (although young, horny, virile) I peronally comonly 5 or 6 times typically in a session - so limited - I just about dry cum after 3. Whereas women can have heaps more. My best cum is the first because I always power thru - remaining hard and throbbing in the woman.
I am interested in developing strategies to extend my orgasms as well as holding back. I only have the one mental thought that I use right now - to be able to stay hard but backed off from that pre cum sensation. I wonder if the vitamins I use to increase semen, i wonder if they have an impact.
In summary I like both - equality.
How to use control techniques - your methods
Sometimes (not always) we (guys) loose control. Sometimes the Testosterone and Oxytocin levels are so high its not an issue for quite a while.
Other times I (and I am sure most guys) feel two sensations.
So in time order:
Cum I guess is 3rd sensation
In the case of the second sensation and feeling I know that cum is the only way forward. Either pull out or cum. Cum can be over powering and nature takes over.
There is a first signal which we feel where we know that control or backoff is needed in order to progress to the second sensation when it becomes too late.
Pause / Extend/ backoff:
My techniques for backing off at that first signal are a) a powerful mental thought (semen dam in balls) and at the same time b) keep going but put energy into sliding botton side of cock. Both giving a more relaxed penetration.
I guess you can pull out as well or just be stationary. (but not what your woman might like)
Share your methods: