seems obvious a lot of different people want different things.
some people are looking for intimacy, others just some naughty fun. some people don't need intimacy from others because they already have all the intimacy they want and need already.
us; we're just looking for fun.
that bullshit about 'no kissing because of insecurity' is nonsense. sounds like swapping talk not sharing talk. i like to pash my wife while she's 'having fun' with another guy. i certainly dont need to pash the other girl to enjoy myself because i have all i want already, but hey never say never.
Had a couple contact me as a result of my post on this thread... I responded to say thanks but that I'm not playing at the moment and offered to keep in contact... their response was that I should delete my profile then and they then decided to block me... I was never rude, nor disrespectful... sure I'd not changed my profile to say I was not playing right now, but even when I have no one listens.... I just thought it was very strange for them to have that reaction. Have others experienced that at times from people?
Wayne
Ps - have changed my profile now anyway :-)
Your comment about peoples reaction is something I have also come across.
I once received three messages from a couple asking me to contact them about meeting.
At the time I was working in a different city so politely replied that when I returned home
I would be keen to contact them and meet up.After this reply they said that why did I bother
with an ad if I wasnt going to meet and guys on here were w****rs and they blocked me!
I also was polite and dont understand.Having said that as previously mentioned have also
met some really gret couples here
Good on ya PBG - hope you taught em well now... I mean they'll go back to the country and ride dem dere tractors n stuff and be specting the local gals to be jus as good as you was......
hugs
x
I think that not kissing dosen't detract from the enjoyment of being with and exploring another person other than your partner but kissing makes it so much more intense and personal. I mean I use my mouth on most every part of the chosen playmates or mates body why not kiss them..
In some cases when getting with people that are not in the "scene" like meeting people in bars and clubs, kissing new "friends" in those situations in an attempt to move them onto more serious things kissing is a total must.. you can learn alot from a kiss..
xx