MFM fun and Kissing?

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MFM fun and Kissing?

Aug 09, 2010
suncoguy69   Man 40yrs
Have been fortunate to meet and play with some great M/F couples for threesomes and I always like to establih ground rules about likes and dislikes.Most couples dont want the lady to be kissed and I understand that but rcently talked to another couple and kissing was part of the fun for them.Anyones thoughts?
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Cougarrr   Woman 42yrs

Kissing...

If I cannot kiss then I do NOT want to play
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cheekyboy_sa

pashes all round

kissing is such an integral part of the sensual experience I can't really understand why some don't want to do it with their playmates. I mean if you are going far enough to let them lick suck and fuck the rest of you then why not have some lips on lips action (of the facial kind)
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braedom   Man 37yrs

simple

Kiss us !

oh please kiss us !

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suncoguy69   Man 40yrs

Nice to know

Thanks for the comments.

Perhaps its just the couples i met, or maybe the husband was setting the rules of play.

As cheekyboy says if your goingtt o be licking everywhere else,and I love to lick everywhere else,then why not kiss!

Looking forward to some kissing encounters

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puppy   Couple Man 36yrs Woman 31yrs

No kissing?

Well why bother with swinging, a hooker would be easier to organise! There is some inherent intimacy with swinging (well there is with us anyway) and that's what makes it nice. Kissing is definitely IN!
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DonnaBrett   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 43yrs

Strange huh?

We have come across this only a few times over the years...no kissing during sex makes things seem very clinical..not fun!  Some will say kissing is too intimate and personal...WTF???  More personal than sucking a dick???  LOL
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back4more_1982

no kissing

As a personal preference we do not kiss other couples. We're happy for the girls to kiss each other when we play with cpls but consider swapping partners for kissing is much more intimate than fucking/sucking etc and hence don't do it. We have had no negative feedback from other people so it cant be that bad :)
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naughty3some   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 41yrs

No kissing? Not likely!

Hard to get into being intimate if you're not going to be intimate!
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Gislicious   TV/TS 33yrs

no no

Kissing is part of the fun and I love kissing too much.

I don't play with guys who don'tt kiss and who don't go down on me:)

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Libertine44   Man 48yrs

intimacy

Kissing is so sensual and intimate x i love all the kissing and such x i have had the experience with couples though were kissing was only allowed between them ! it made for a very strange moment when announced. . . . mid coitus x so it is good to find the kissing rules before play begins x Kissing brings that extra intimacy that personalizes sex x I love it ! Lips are very sensitive x well mine are LOL x
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mr_mrs_shy

Kiss Kiss Kiss

Oh yes, kissing is very important to us!

Kissing will get me in the mood the fastest... hold on .. correction...good kissing..hehe.

We are all for kissing!!

Mrs Shy xxxx

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newyboy70   Couple Man 42yrs Woman 42yrs

no

My wife is the one who made the rule no "kissing".  To intimate and i agree.

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mr_mrs_shy

Intimacy

I am not judging..because heaven forbid, anyone who knows me personally...and i mean personally...knows that i see other things as more intimate then kissing...so it all depends on what you as a couple deem as too intimate.  I dont deem kissing to be too intimate, but there are things that i do.

Mrs Shy xxxx

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CheekyCouple82  

Couple Man 30yrs Woman 30yrs

Now on the swing, pardon the pun

Our vote is now officially swiniging, pardon the pun :P

We were a 100% no kissing, ever, couple............ but we recently met a new couple who encourged (moreso him) to kiss......... it was FANTASTIC!!!!! Now I don't think we could have it any other way!!!!!!!!!!!!

Try it I say, your obviously on here because you are open minded and/or extremely comfortable in your relationships!! If your relationship can survive sex with other partners, give kissing a go, you won't regret it!!!!!!!!!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx DnK xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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GunnaBHot  

Couple Man 46yrs Woman 45yrs

mfm kissing

We made the rule of no kissing before we had our first mfm - but once we'd started kissing is natural makes it just that bit better.
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niceguy0068   Man 43yrs

Ground rules

have only had the chance to be part of an MFM once before... I was most nervous about how hubby would react, but wifey was very accommodating in making sure that we were on the same page and ultimately when it happened it was a blast.  Hubby was a niceguy too (gave him an honorary Doctorate into the NiceGuy Academy) and he did well to make sur eI was relaxed too.  Me being a very straight guy was kinda nervous on first meet/first play, but the couple were and are a wonderful couple..  lots of good memories there.

As for kissing - I'd not even considered to ask if it was part of the game or not - I just assumed... and the wifey helped lead me... basically there rules were pretty open (barring guy on guy stuff that is).  I think the secret (based on my ONE great experience) is to ensure that you talk bout it in a relaxed way before the play date...

hugs

Wayne

x

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mr_mrs_shy

Give kissing a go!

Quoting 'CheekyCouple82'

Our vote is now officially swiniging, pardon the pun :P

We were a 100% no kissing, ever, couple............ but we recently met a new couple who encourged (moreso him) to kiss......... it was FANTASTIC!!!!! Now I don't think we could have it any other way!!!!!!!!!!!!

Try it I say, your obviously on here because you are open minded and/or extremely comfortable in your relationships!! If your relationship can survive sex with other partners, give kissing a go, you won't regret it!!!!!!!!!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx DnK xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


I have to agree...give it a go...we have always been a couple with the kissing is fine rule...in fact, we have realised it isnt just fine, it is essential for us to be relaxed and enjoy the experience entirely.  I agree with DnK...if it is your boundary, give it a go...if your relationship is open minded enough to allow swapping or different partner play, it will definately survive the kissing...and we all know how much kissing can spark arousal in other parts of our anatomy...hehe

Mrs Shy...says yes yes yes to kissing..hehe xxxx

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wackydi   Woman 35yrs

Kissing a must

Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010'
                                 

Life is too short for second rate experiences or 1/2 arsed actions


If I'm to kiss other body parts then my mouth should get some off the action 2, LOL no fair if there's no kissing involved

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discotrash   Man 41yrs

love kissing!

i was so lucky to have an amazing experience with a couple last night and kissing was on and it just made the whole thing a million times better and more memorable. i need kissing to get off, no kissing no big fun for me. infact whenever wife and i have played i'm happy if i don't get to do anything so long as there's a few really yummy, tender pashes involved.

i so agree with puppy, get a prostitute if you don't want to kiss cause without that intimacy (for us anyway) it can really make for a forgettable and sometimes regrettable experience.

disco

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Lookingtotryfour

its fine

Tonsil Hockey with the tongue or cock no

Ladies are 100% in charge

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