Laws of attraction, are there any?

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Laws of attraction, are there any?

Sep 21, 2012
keepingkarma
In general I'm attracted to people who share similar morals, humour and qualities to myself. Gender and sexuality only comes into question if I am interested in a person as a potential mate/partner. As a straight woman I am only interested in single male partners in my age group . However online I get a lot of contact from couples and in the real world I attract a good deal of attention from gay women and men in their 30's and early forties. It certainly is a puzzle to me. I am curious to hear your experiences on and off line. KK xx
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feloniusfossil

Opposites!

if your a magnet.


Otherwise I don't think there are any.


Some people take your fancy and some don't,

and then it gets tricky because the one you thought you

were attracted to, you realise your not after all, and

vicey versy.


Its not about physics its about chemistry, and sometimes a little engineering.


You shouldn't be puzzled, their attraction to you just sometimes overrides

your desire that they keep their distance.

Afterall we don't want those pesky little valence electrons doing their thing.



Cheers FeloniousCooper






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keepingkarma

lol Felonious

I gotta find my nerd hat! And to think I was top girl in the sciences at school! I'm really interested to know what your own personal experiences are though. Call me nosey ;-)
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Jay_Me   Man 53yrs

Of course there are...

laws of attraction... its pretty hard to explain.. Its just one of them things that happens..

Earlier this year, I was standing at a set of traffic lights and a girl across the other side caught my attention.. We locked eyes and smiled as we passed. I looked back' she paused and looked back to me then smiled waved and went on her way... that was a nice mutual attraction..
I always seem to find someone who catches my attention somewhere.. There are so many good looking girls in and around Sydney I dont always know where to look ... lol.. but swapping glances and smiles is a rather nice way to start the day...


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keepingkarma

Jay_Me

I love "those" glances and smiles too. But oh, how to take it one step further? Now that I would love to know ...
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keepingkarma

DG loved

... your 2 cents worth :-) and your little friend is so cute. He's not free tomorrow night by any chance ... ;-)
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bobtail_3   Woman 63yrs

Sheesh

Wait until you are 10 years older kk.

 

But, but, but ???????

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keepingkarma

ha ha bobtail

... gawd, now I'm gonna go stir crazy deliberating that!! KK
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Freya13

rules?

there are certain factors that contribute to attraction...looks,smell,taste,touch,all creating the environment for the chemical cocktail of endorphins.and the sussing out of DNA compatibility.

If I stare into your eyes,focus on you,reflect your words back to you,then yes you might be attracted to me ,at least in the short term..and as we get to know each other the attraction may or may not continue....because relationships are fragile.... we don't show all aspects of ourselves to another....at least not initially...

If someone finds us attractive,is attentive to us ,then that in itself can be attractive.....confidence is attractive,enthusiasm is attractive,emotional intelligence is attractive...arrogance,negativity,and ignorance aren't....just my thoughts KK

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keepingkarma

Thank you for your thoughts Freya

... and yes, I probably would be attracted to you as a friend (for all the reasons you stated). I've always loved men and have never been interested in women but for some reason they are interested in me. So wish I had that affect on the 50+ males!! I live in hope :-) xx
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keepingkarma

DG

I lub bites ;-)
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MadamDragonfly   Woman 62yrs

Laws Of Attraction Is there Any..

Hi! Keeping Karma:)

I can relate to your situation other than I'm not Interested in a Guy around My age 60 to be My Significant Other Lover or Partner...

My Opinion is that People cross our Paths when they're meant to .. ..for what ever reason Friend, Lover, Partner .. so we can both grow, Learn Pos. Lessons from the Experience hopefully ...

Overcome, Grow, move on....

Then repeat with the Next Person ..Someone more suited to the Person we are now..

Yes it has to do with Feremones too part of the attraction he!he! ..

So Embrace the Journey.... Enjoy those who come Into your Life whatever age etc for however Long..Enjoy Lu :)

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Dragonfyre2010   Woman 56yrs

It all comes down to chemistry

There is something beyond the written word that attracts people to others, sometimes there is a connection on both sides and sometimes just a one sided affair but if the two are connected physically, spiritually and or emotionally there are certainly sparks flying everywhere and the chemistry is electrifying, it does not seem to matter whether a person is attached or not seems like it cannot be helped and it was meant to be.

 

I have been on some dates here and absolutely no chemistry whatsoever, the guys were nice enough but just no spark and no doubt vice versa but there have been others on here and upon meeting ..... well the rest is history, it is like all the stars and planets have aligned and the connection unbelievable, or as mentioned just meeting someone in the street, in conversation there just seems to be that connection, it doesn't have to be sexual, it is almost like a soul mate connection, and one walks away feeling so content and happy inside

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Jay_Me   Man 53yrs

keepingkarma..

Yes' taking the glances and smiles that one step further is sometimes the tricky part.. There have been times when I hold back because of that nagging doubt I might have misread the signals and dont want to take the chance of making a dick of myself.. Depends on the person of course..
As a unashamed flirt who loves the thrill of the chase.. I dont think twice about chatting if I feel a attraction, once I start a conversation ' more often than not, we end up sharing a coffee or drink somewhere.. Not that Im a Romeo , but once I feel at ease the conversations just seem to flow..
I guess its the law of averages, some days we feel it ' and others we dont...
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0zboy

Generally speaking

Online I attract women that are my age(ish) or to old.
Offline more young women find me attractive.
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Jay_Me   Man 53yrs

Ozboy..

Spot on. Me too... l find its the 30 to 40s online, and in the real world anything from early 20s to 30s
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0zboy

Perhaps Jay

a lot of the women online in our natural selective age range are hooking up with all the young boys, therefore leaving a shortage of horny boys in the real world for the younger woman?

GO THE MIGHTY GOUGERS! RAH RAH RAH lol

I think Im going to lower my age on my profile :D Whatdoyarekon? 44?
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0zboy

cougars I mean :S

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