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Jul 03, 2012
Meeka100   Woman 42yrs
Where have all the kinky boys gone?


Sometimes, I wonder. I get messages from men saying they have no boundaries, that they are really sexually adventurous and want to explore. Yet when you look at their sexual interests and fetishes they are not into anything much at all. It's 1 on 1 sex, they are straight, sometimes they aren't into anal either, maybe soft BDSM and that is all. I dot get it... To me that is pretty vanilla.


What sort of kink or adventure can you have with that? Is this a fair comment or am I being unreasonable?


Meeka xx
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ruby_blossum  

Woman 54yrs

Dont think you are being unreasonable Meeka....

but I do know that I have nothing listed on my sexual preference.
The reason being, what can be fabulous with one person can be just very average with another.
I like to get to know the person and explore together what our boundries are once we are comfortable with
each other and a level of trust is there.

Is that a kink in itself?
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mikeysins   Man 38yrs

Pick me...

Meeka, I am still here....
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neptune_drift   Man 29yrs

Are you going by what they've got listed on their profiles?

Or what they'll actually do? You'll probably find there's a big difference.

I personally enjoy sex with electrodes hooked up to my nipples and short/high bursts of current. That wasn't on the drop-down list though, and I'm worried it might turn off the non-electrophiles.

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triunity   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 37yrs

Levels

We all have different ideas about what is kinky. Some think missionary in the lounge room is kinky, others, watching two men fist each other with studded leather gloves.

I think if you went to a lot of trouble to define a kinkiness scale of 1 to 10, some one (not looking at you specifically Meeka) would come up with 11.
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Wary of scary!

Maybe they're here they just dont want to flaunt everything.  Many people prefer to hint at their naughtiness- not ram it into people's faces.  A huge list of fetishes can be a total turn-off.  That alone might redirect a possible match-up to someone less full-on.  Not everyone is the kind of person who will do everything and anything with anyone and their neighbors with the dog watching!  Some people are wary of the scary! A cheeky hint of kinky is much more appealing.  Nothing vanilla about one on one if you're doing it right! That's what makes this site so good - it's a huge buffet and you never know what flavor is behind that good old vanilla!
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feloniusfossil

I'm with Rubes

I don't have any listed on mine either, for the same reason.


Lets just put it this way, there isn't a lot I haven't been involved with and enjoyed.


If I was to put all that down, women might think I was some kind of deviate or summin.lol



Cheers FeloniuslyPerverted




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Sensory_fun   Woman 51yrs

Vanilla profile leaving kinky as possible optional extra......

Prefer to keep things simple and vanilla in my profile and let the boundaries expand at their own pace if I'm comfortable with a particular partner. 

 

Besides I love the look of surprise and excitement on a partner's face when something they didn't expect happens

 

SFxx

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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

List it and they will come.

Well I do look at what they have listed in their profile... I want to know that we may have some kinks in common and I am sure I am not the only girl doing that.

Fair enough you may not want to list your kinks but maybe a comment in your profile saying why you haven't because I just  assume that you are a missionary man.

Mrs Tri..... how could we ever devise a scale? LOL. It would have to be a sliding scale that is for sure. Seriously, I don't think a person would probably call me vanilla as such but I am no where near kinky as some! No where near!!!!

Meeka xx
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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

mikeysins


Quoting 'mikeysins'
    Meeka, I am still here....    
Nice kinks Mikey!!! Very nice kinks. :)

Meeka xx
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triunity   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 37yrs

Oils aint oils.

Quoting 'Meeka100'
It would have to be a sliding scale that is for sure.
   
Love a bit of lube. ;)
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ruby_blossum  

Woman 54yrs

Slippery sliding scale.....

Gotta love that ! 
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Spice is nice, but

Meeka, you're right but that sounds like some excellent dialogue while getting to know someone. Bottom line could be that maybe a lot of guys really arent into anything that Neapolitan!
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Meeka100   Woman 42yrs

Spice girl

All true, but just because I have a certain interests listed does not mean that I do that with just anybody or possibly I may not have even done them yet. (should really go look to see what I picked myself. Doh!) I agree that when someone has absolutely every kink listed that is a little off putting sometimes.

I like naughty people. Can't help it. I love talking about it, laughing about it, being in your face lets gets down and dirty about it. Love watching people who really let go of their inhibitions.  Hey, I was brought up as a good Catholic girl. What else can I say.

With me, what you see is what you get.... if you have nothing at all listed in your profile and you don't state in your comments that you are very adventurous well then. I assume that you are not. Simple... I would say that is a fair comment?




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Lost_Focus   Woman 35yrs

Kinks

Last time I actually listed what my kinks are Meeka I got swamped by messages from people wanting a sub to play with, regardless of the point I had made in my profile about having a Master and not needing another.

 

This time around I just keep it simple and who knows what may come of it.

 

Though I do recall chatting to some seemingly vanilla profiles and finding some very naughty kinksters...their reasoning was that they dont have to advertise it...if it comes out within a few conversations then they know they have found someone worth getting to know.

 

Kisses

Focus

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Catriona72   Man 41yrs

kink?

One persons kink is another persons vanilla.
I dont dress often at all, but one of my female friends says im kinky and a perv (knows me well) ;)
yet the only male friend that knows i dress, couldnt care less.

But as they say..
Its all fun and games till someone gets knocked over, out or up :)
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feloniusfossil

Hehehehe

Yeah yeah, sure sure, we believe ya Krissy ;



Cheers Felonius

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trumper   Man 44yrs

Kinksters ...

... they're out there is you look for them, way out there!
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Hesione

Dear Mr.Drift

Are batteries included?x Hesione Electra
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someonefunto   Man 36yrs

meeka

Im 1 of the most continualy horny men  out there  ...I love girls riding over my mouth and dipping there pussy unto my lips ...I enjoy being dirty and secret in public..........well shit the list goes on

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50zcool

Kinked

I think Apollo has nailed it, basically you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.

It's a hard ask for a single man seeking a single woman here so.........inoffensive, lowest common denominator equals vanilla.

Hmmm could be time to differentiate !

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