would someone please answer this as my dumbness has just got the better of me...

I will discuss from a couples point of view...

All you can do is your best and to reinforce your appreciation for letting YOU play with THEM; for allowing you to enjoy their bodies..might need to do it often until they know you better.  Might be that the ppl you've chosen are not really ready to play..might be that they were pushed into it by a partner?? A number of reasons...a woman might feel threatened by something...they might not feel as attractive as you...or feel rejected because their partner has not spent enough time with you...

Hi MegaMinx

 

It seems as though you have meet a couple where it hasn't worked out how you had anticipated.

 

Just move on to another, there are many easy to get along with people who do not have such issues and are grateful for your input and would tease & please you without the bullshit.

 

Good luck & cheers

 

EC