...does not lead to eventual loss of sight and frees up both hand to ensure the even growth of hair on the palms of your hands.
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It could be worse I guess...you could just be ignored entirely and whimper like some of the men do on these sites?
...life's good so enjoy it. Just hit delete.
men cant read...lol they can barely even write half the time.... omg they see pics and its all over....you expected something different? just about everyone who messages us is 'an exception to a rule'...just ask them...suddenly we like smokers and guys from interstate, or further...and shouldnt worry about what the guys wife knows about or not...apparently its all ok....he wont tell if we dont.... oh..and it seems that we are now some guys...'kindred soul'...how this works when are a couple........we just cant work out..lol
looking at pictures and making an assumption is the whole point isnt it? if men spent an extra 15 seconds and actually read what was written, the the OP, wouldnt have a topic, and we wouldnt have a beef..... we have friends, workmates, neighbours and even family members on this site..... perhaps they might even make it to our friends list...we are nudists by the way, so are members of our extended families...if we've all seen each other nude, what would it matter? we clearly state the ages we seek...and say to not bother if they are outside of that...or attached...or whatever..and it doesnt matter..they send messages anyway...and its a piss off saying 'sorry but you are outside of what we seek' over and over, when what we really want to say is 'fuck off you pillock! cant you fucking read'?...........so we get the OP's frustration... i mean its not like we are so desperate that we'll change our minds and make exceptions for some 21 year old, when we really would prefer to meet his non smoking divorcee 45 year old father........... the 'pen pal' from interstate we get as well...guys who want to chat on msn and swap pics etc but never meet... we dont want that either........pfffft..
I never add anyone as a friend unless I meet em in the flesh and I find them ok. And it is not an indication I have had sex with them either.
I have a load of people on my list wanting me to add them as my friend and I have no idea why they would want to do that.
However one guy told me that its kind of like advertising for people, if they are on your list then sometimes people think you are bonking them or have bonked them. I know, I thought that when I first came to this site.
As for pple over east, well I do travel on the odd occasion but then I put that up when I am on the move.
I get nice comments re my art and that is ok, but I do not think I want a pen pal or a text sex pal or a phone sex buddy.
But if a guy is on business over in the west, and lets me know then that’s fine.
I do look at other people from the east but that’s just cause I am a perve. And I think, come west fella :)
No mikeandshel, it was not to cause a stir...the OP asked why men thought they were an exception to the rule...and I simply offered a reason as to why men, sorry, some men may read the profile and look at the friends list and come to their own conclusion as the OP may be a bit flexible with her rules...
Quoting the OP:"I realise that some guys probably don't even bother reading the profile, but those that do assume that they might be that one and only exception to the rule." This is what I was refering to - those that do read the proflie, and that may actually look at friends lists and think that they are the exception to the rule..it does happen, I have had messages from members wanting to know why I would not consider meeting them when I have had friends on my list that were not what I was looking for...
Alex2go - this was not a critisism, it was merely an observation as to why you may be getting messages and flirts from members outside your criteria...
And brizzyguy62...there are plenty of simpletons on this site...as per the OP's beef on the men that DO read the proflie and still send flirts and messages anyway...
dont worry...the sentiments mutual. you'd not have received an invite... hmm...'forums'...social? hardly... 'diversion' ?perhaps... oh well...off to meet my wife for coffee.... cheers.
They just choose to ignore what they have read.
After all they ARE exceptional. Well at least in thier eyes they are so why wouldnt you want to bend the rules a little ....just for them?
Anyway, if I have 35 to 45 on my age criteria and the man is 47...I may just be persuaded otherwise....especially for an exceptional sort of bloke.
You just never know if you dont try and there is that old chestnut of all the world loves a trier.
My own profile begins with ....
"First...Read the profile"... but that does not mean I am gonna get all bent out of shape and react rudely if one does. I can still find it within myself to politely reply and say not thanks...no big deal.