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Jan 23, 2012
Normalthree   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs
Are couples on RHP really intimidated by a profile?We have been told a few times our profile intimidated people,if we were preditory sex maniacs we could understand it,but the total opposite is true.Ah in that last statement we understand,its not intimidation, its that people will have to put some effort in.
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rockercouple80  

Couple Man 32yrs Woman 23yrs

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We've had that same comment numerous times. I think it boils down to your profile is to the point, you know what you want, and you're not new to the whole thing. I think for genuine couples, it's a positive, but it can scare off the newbies :)
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Milkybars   Couple Man 53yrs Woman 48yrs

No Never

No Guys Iwe don't see it that way at all. As we like to hear what people want and expect. We also have been caught by the B/S artists who don't say what they mean and its not until u have used up some of your valuable Playtime it all becomes clear, Say it if you mean it.
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newkee   Woman 38yrs

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Hope I am not out of line as I know you asked if RHP "couples" are intimidated, and me being straight-laced, seeking-straight male-only, vanilla... albeit drizzled with caramel (yada yada :P), so I may view your profiles differently (to those who are seeking couples) ...

Soooo Normalthree... I read your profile and thought it was unambiguous and genuine - genuine being the key word! It came across as you put the effort in and only want to have contact with others willing to do the same as you. It's a bit disheartening to hear that others find that intimidating. Maybe those that feel that way would be really disappointing at a meet if your words alone intimate them, so positive side is your profile could be working in your favour as a good first filter :)

@rockercouple80 I can't help but smile when I see you guys post. Your profile and photos simply elicit fun. Not only do you guys always appear on the same page - am thinking you wrote the damn book together!  It is REALLY nice to see a couple genuinely having fun, loving life and just enjoying each other so beautifully. Also love the humour in your profile.

If only more single men wrote profiles as genuine and fun as you guys did - and hey, apparently mine is not intimidating but just puts a few of them to sleep (always nice to know I helped some exhausted guy overcome his insomnia )
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twowithnolimits   Couple Man 46yrs Woman 31yrs

ditto

we are too full on, too experienced, into too many things lol

 

i think the bottom line is like every facet of life we share the space with everyone from the raw untested beginner to the full on vet....

 

just be true to yourselves, tell the truth about what you are seeking, you can do no more....

 

 

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rockercouple80  

Couple Man 32yrs Woman 23yrs

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Thank you Newkee :)
We live life with the phylosophy that if the ONLY thing we have was each other, we would still be blessed. Having a positive outlook, and a happy laid back attitude seems to breed some much more "good fortune" rather than negativity. And if we can make someone smile on that ride, well it's just so much better for all. We all get thrown curve balls from time to time, but life is what you make it. Make it awesome :)
Quoting 'newkee'
   
@rockercouple80 I can't help but smile when I see you guys post. Your profile and photos simply elicit fun. Not only do you guys always appear on the same page - am thinking you wrote the damn book together!  It is REALLY nice to see a couple genuinely having fun, loving life and just enjoying each other so beautifully. Also love the humour in your profile.

If only more single men wrote profiles as genuine and fun as you guys did - and hey, apparently mine is not intimidating but just puts a few of them to sleep (always nice to know I helped some exhausted guy overcome his insomnia )    

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FireStarters   Couple Man 32yrs Woman 32yrs

From the Raw Untested Beginner :)

.... A little !! Why ?? Well I suppose coming into the whole game of erotic pleasure for newbie who is scared, shy, apprehensive ( a little like us but we're getting there ) someone who has over 20-30 friends a heap of validations and WOW out there pics !! How can one Not feel a little intimidated. Now I've personally had the pleasure of talking to RockerCouple via messages who gave us nothing But confidence and security via there expirences Which Has given us a heap more confidence than when we first started out. We're still finding our way around with couples but we mainly chat and flirt with the newbies rather than the shall we say Expirenced couples, mainly because perhaps a fear of being rejected. Ecause of being a newbie !! Final word if ya can't yourself in your profile well then chances are your not gonna click when ya meet so why change ya profile ??? Everyone will read another's profile differently. M & N XxxX
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rockercouple80  

Couple Man 32yrs Woman 23yrs

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I remember when we were "newbies" to the whole scene, and we laboured for weeks over who we should message, only to get a "send us at least two full body naked photos, face shots, and a phone number for verification" reply. WOW. We scurried off and didnt reply. Funny thing is, that couple later found us at a meet and greet, and we've become fantastic friends. They weren't intimidating then, but we can see where they were coming from now.
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Normalthree   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

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A few valid comments there,can understand RockerCouple intimidating people ,lol not really probably second best profile on RHP after ours that is.Guess polyamory isnt that comman in WA and the fact that two girls and a guy live together means sex maniacs lol.The simple fact is one of us has had only four sexual partners in their whole life.

 

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