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Jun 29, 2012
ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs
I don't understand interstate flirts!

Why on earth would you send an "I've got some free time, let's meet",  when you live on the other side of the country?

Sure!  Pop on over in your lunch break!
Are these guys serious - or just desperate for any response what-so-ever?

Gents - maybe you can shed some light on this phenomenon?
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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

I am definitely guilty of the interstate flirt

...although it's usually my intention to offer a compliment ie, "I just wanted to say I loved your profile" or "I think you're hot,...". Sometimes, if I come across someone in the forums with whom I feel an affinity towards, I might send, "I'm looking for new friends, let's exchange messages" just to open up some direct communication and become online friends.

I have to admit however, your example has me bamboozled.

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Dark_Moon_Lilith

some of them

Are visiting...

 

Others, I agree with your sumary...

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neptune_drift   Man 29yrs

You understand better than you think!

Sometimes it's a $100 return flight from Sydney to Melbourne, so that's one option. People travel interstate all the time! If you had a pretty decent chance of hot sex with a hottie(s) and it would cost you less than a typical Saturday night out, it's a bit of a no-brainer from that perspective.

For other guys, it's just the off chance of getting a response. Remember that for every 25 flirts you receive as a woman, most guys send out 25 and get maybe one response if they're lucky! Even if it's not practical, it's just nice to know someone thinks you're hot.

And for others... well, clearly they just don't read!
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Hesione

perhaps

They haven't read the location on your profile ApolloThirteen and are mesmerised by your photo....or perhaps they just flick out that flirt to as many women as possible because they are guests.

Law of averages suggests ,that the more they do that,the more likely it is that someone will answer,......eventually.

x Hugs H

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Mr_Outdoors   Man 43yrs

Ask the girls

Don't just direct the question at the boys, I get a lot of those kinds from interstate women.
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feloniusfossil

Used to

But where I live, I could be interstate, in under an hours driving time.



Cheers Felonius

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imupinthesky

Interstate

Hi ApolloThirteen Hmmmmm I have to agree with Hesione's first paragraph .... Maybe it's your sheer beauty of your profile pic that meamerises them, that lavender holter is certainly ..... eye catching BTW it fits you very well ;-) Don't mean to sound like a pig Me personally, I do text people interstate as I do travel a lot for my work I personally read the profile in it's entirety including Looking at the intimate and lifestyle tabs to see if I like the sound of the person to entice me to send a cheeky little flirt But I would only send (unless it was just a flattering wink) if I had the option of actually meeting I am happy to make some new friends, share some great times and have some fun Unfortunately for you ladies, I am sure you get hounded but guys continuously, on behalf of those people that dont read your profile or are just pests - my alaologies Just putting it out there .... If I'm ever in your neck of the woods, Franksown VIC I would be honoured to meet for a coffee just as friends with no expectations One a simple note, take the wink as flattery, you have spent many an hour worshipping your body as a temple and and keeping it in such fantastic symmetry that you deserve every wink you get ;-) ;-) Nudge Nudge 8-p
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Lost_Focus   Woman 35yrs

Possible reasons:

1. Its a compliment in the only way open to them

 

2. They are travelling your way and are testing the waters

 

3. You are being rated in the hot or what pics and it is being automatically being sent if you are rated hot (this is for the flirt "I think youre what do you think of me?")

 

4. They are thinking of coming your way and are looking for an incentive.

 

I know I have done it and acted on it when looking for a weekend away and lining up some entertainment for the trip.

 

Kisses

Focus

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50zcool

Inter-crap.

I get several a week, usually from an "ask me" profile with ridiculous studio photography.

Fake, Scam, Block, Delete.
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brave__heart

A flirt ...

can lead to a meessage

 

a conversation

 

a connection

 

a meeting

 

an incredible experience.

 

Who ever knows :)

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Midnight_Run81   Man 31yrs

meh ... it will never happen angelic

but I admire your enthusiasm....

pmsl and :P

forget broome ... lets do margret river again
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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

Hehehehe

I tested the waters and Apollo Thirteen has softened her views on interstate flirts.

 

She can fly me to the moon anytime.

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nsamark1980

spot on angelic!!

Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic'
   

can lead to a meessage

 

a conversation

 

a connection

 

a meeting

 

an incredible experience.

 

Who ever knows :)

   
plus sometimes i flirt with someone interstate if i'm visiting there
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MissSarahCurious   Woman 34yrs

I wish, I wish

I wish the RHPGods would include distance in the filter (or at least as an option for the filter?) for matching/non-matching flirts so you can easily sort them.

I know you have to factor in the people who will be travelling, but if they don't have the 'travelling to' thing filled in saying they're going to be within a certain distance of you within the next 3 months, why not allow people to filter them into the non-matching flirts?

And if it were optional, people who do like to chat/email/IM/pic swap with people they'll never meet in the flesh can just leave it on, yeah?

xx Sarah
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ratz007   Man 54yrs

WTF

Yep be right there.  Just fuel up my rocket  lol

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inspirit   Woman 49yrs

Naww Jens


Quoting 'jensman1903'
   

...although it's usually my intention to offer a compliment ie, "I just wanted to say I loved your profile" or "I think you're hot,...". Sometimes, if I come across someone in the forums with whom I feel an affinity towards, I might send, "I'm looking for new friends, let's exchange messages" just to open up some direct communication and become online friends.

I have to admit however, your example has me bamboozled.

   
Your're so cute. Flirts are nice even though i don't answer them.
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inspirit   Woman 49yrs

Compliment...

... take it as compliment no need to understand then, it just is. Sometimes the lets's meet ones are guys who travel.
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brave__heart

Very naughty

Midnight! I'm probably going to have to smack your bum next time I see you.
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justswingingbi   Couple Man 40yrs Woman 35yrs

I'm with Jensman

There are a few on here, particularly regular forum posters, whom we have considered sending flirts to. Just as a "hey, I like your style, pity you're so far away" thing. But with respect to distance we haven't... DRS, Felonius, Neptune_Drift... consider yourselves long distance "I like your style, pity you're so far away" flirted!
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amuse_bouche   Woman 23yrs

Mmm

Two words... Flight attendants.

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